Is he even interested?!

Seeing an Aries, this is the first, so I don't know what I'm dealing with. We talked a few times and hung out a few times, talked and text each other. It got a little hot between us, and then I didn't hear from him. So I text him over the weekend, and sent a friendly message. But I didn't hear back from him till today, this morning in fact. It was just a polite reply.

I don't want to seem too available and text back. What should I do?

I am by no means needy (very opposite in fact), but I know how men can be about getting to close to fast.

BTW, I am new to this site. I cam across it one day and read the comments too. I decided to join.

HELLO EVERYONE!

From my experience... He is probably involved with someone else at the moment...
Give him his time and space... And hopefully he'll come around... Aries don't like being pressured. Present some challenge to him... Don't bother him till he bothers you... And I don't know if most Aries are like me... But if he really likes you.. HE will contact you back, no matter WHAT!!!

Ok I didn't text him back. I will see if he calls or contacts me in any way. I don't like to seem like I'm waiting for him or anything. I do have a busy schedule.

With Aries, can you have sex too soon? Just curious?

I'm not sure what to look for as far as warning bells. I just follow my instinct. I know it's too early to tell, but I don't know if he is just playing the feild or what? I am not thinking to much into it but I am just trying to get some insight.

He seems to like me...... maybe his priorities are somewhere else.

I don't know too much about Aries, but i do know a lot about Libra (their polar opposit). and if there is any kind of "i like you today, but not so much tomorrow." I will walk away!

You're right F_A. I'm just thinking too much today. I have plans tonight!
You never know who you could meet.

I'm pretty confident in myself to know when something is not worth the time.

But if he does call or text I will let you all know what he says. Dating is so new to me right now. Just broke off with someone so I'm a little rusty.

all the aries people i know are not good at communicating,men and women , my mother is an aries and she never phones me,just live your own life and they usually contact you ,because they are curious about what your up to
ive said this so many times on this board.

I think this guy is only interested in a casual thing with me. I want to let go and just go with it.

By all means I am not interested in a commitment. I'm use to relationship sex. Will that make me a bad person, if I only want casual sex?

Any how, he called at 1:00am on Sat. Total booty call........but he tried to play it off like "sorry to wake you up". Guess he thought I was up and out that night. I ended up just staying in and watching a movie with my niece.
Can something develope with this aries in the long run if you start of casual?

the best rules to apply to having sex with someone and when the time is right etc are you OWN!!! when you are uncertain of someone's feeings, it is a bad time to have sex with them unless you just want sex. it's not a bartering instrument, it's the past-time of consenting adults. you have to take responsibility for your own feelings and be less concerned with what impression you are giving. if you have sex when YOU want to, you are being true to yourself and whatever impression they draw from that will be based on YOU as you really are. in that situation, if they don't like it, it's not going to work out but at least you haven't compromised yourself to achieve a result.

I like your input Rock. I was thinking?? I don't feel like I would be sad if he didn't talk to me again even if we did have sex. I've been thinking that same exact thing. If we are both consenting then why should one or the other feel guilty or misled? I would never use sex to get to an end result. I know some women do think that if they have intercourse then that obligates the other to some sort of contract. I'm mature enough to know that if it does take place, i am in control of what I am doing to and for myself, and it may not lead to anything other than sex. No expectations.

Sometimes emotions get the best of some. I don't think it gets the best of me unless I was given some sort of expectation from the other person. I have been strong in the past to just walk away from bad situations, and continue on my way—?.I'm not afraid of moving on if it doesn't go in a particular direction.