it's so hard being an Aries :(

I'm having one of those days where I feel so depressed because I realize that being an aries is so hard, mainly because no matter how good our intentions and actions may be, people will always missunderstand and have the wrong impression about us. Specially when I go around and read what's on the other forums, it's like we are collectively disliked.

In my personal experience sometimes I have the feeling that they can sense it from miles away that I'm an aries, and even before trying to see what is underneath the outer layers of my personality, they just choose to stay away. I know, it maybe me who is also giving them that message with my 'independant' behavior, but still... sometimes I just wish people would show me they care a little bit more. hmm... *sigh* 😢

i agree AA. you are one nasty lil imp.

fire signs are charmingly selfish and not everyone can tolerate it. to know that 9 times out of 10 you will have to take a backseat to someone else's ego, that you will have to stroke that ego...CONSTANTLY, soothe that ego when it's bruised...it's tiring. but it does come with it's rewards...sometimes.

the only thing i don't like about my aries beau is his energy/hot-headedness is off putting at times. for a sign that doesn't like to complain, aries seem to complain...A LOT! i mean if you all don't like something, i'll know, the person next to me will know, the person who is pissing the aries off will know...

i just forgot what i was talking about. i need to stop wit da trees.

lata

Posted by LovelyMissAries
Fuck them! I'm so sick of feeling put upon. I'm an Aries too..

And you know what, I'm so sick of everyone thinking about themselves. They NEVER think about me, and I think it's because they know I think about myself enough for the both of us, but still! My self-absorbedness is part of my personality, it doesn't double as a comforting friend! And when they DO think about me, it's at a minimum. Fuck that. I'm an ARIES. Don't the KNOW? My goodness!

I just need a really long massage by an attractive Swedish masseuse named "Gunther".

Yeah, that's another thing that also makes me feel depressed, that although I am able to be on my own and solve my own problems, doesn't mean I don't need anybody to stand by me. Well, I've been crying my eyeballs out for the past 14 hrs (I look so terrible and pathetic right now :S) I hope this will help me release some of that frustration. That massage does sound like a great idea, nonetheless 😛 LOL

Posted by Astrological Aftermath1
it's like i'm all about the surface but when that's scratched away i have a nasty nature

Really? I want to believe it's the other way around for me... well, that's just me after all

Posted by tubbyscubby
i agree AA. you are one nasty lil imp.

fire signs are charmingly selfish and not everyone can tolerate it. to know that 9 times out of 10 you will have to take a backseat to someone else's ego, that you will have to stroke that ego...CONSTANTLY, soothe that ego when it's bruised...it's tiring. but it does come with it's rewards...sometimes.

the only thing i don't like about my aries beau is his energy/hot-headedness is off putting at times. for a sign that doesn't like to complain, aries seem to complain...A LOT! i mean if you all don't like something, i'll know, the person next to me will know, the person who is pissing the aries off will know...

i just forgot what i was talking about. i need to stop wit da trees.

lata

You know, I'm actually a quiet, peaceful person who prefers not taking any part in discussions because I know people can get very passionate about their points of view, and I could too. So, I just don't like to argue in general... maybe I should start doing the oposite that way I would be giving them a valid reason to hate me >😢

i dont think aries are disliked by most signs. with aries you tend to get the extremes....the REALLY outgoing ones and the terribly shy ones. with the outgoing ones it's hard to scratch beneath the surface because they are most comfortable being sociable and with large crowds so they dont need to open up and expose what's really within. these are the aries that are mistaken as shallow or superficial, they seem like people persons but getting them to open up is a challenge. the shy type aries tend to grow on people. ive noticed they can have an intimidating presence or seem sarcastic but they're major dorks once you get them talking

LMA:
"My self-absorbedness is part of my personality, it doesn't double as a comforting friend!"

Love this!! LOL...so sad, yet so true 😢

Posted by ariesvita
I'm having one of those days where I feel so depressed because I realize that being an aries is so hard, mainly because no matter how good our intentions and actions may be, people will always missunderstand and have the wrong impression about us. Specially when I go around and read what's on the other forums, it's like we are collectively disliked.

In my personal experience sometimes I have the feeling that they can sense it from miles away that I'm an aries, and even before trying to see what is underneath the outer layers of my personality, they just choose to stay away. I know, it maybe me who is also giving them that message with my 'independant' behavior, but still... sometimes I just wish people would show me they care a little bit more. hmm... *sigh* 😢

I agree with you and feel misunderstood constantly. I think this is why I can connect to so few people. I think people have a love/hate relationship with us. The problem is we care too much about what they think of us. It will be my lifelong struggle, I do believe.

not only are they pricks but there whiney pricks oh its so hard being me everone picks on me OH WHOOOOOO is me.
GIVE ME A FuuuUcccCkkkKIIINNNNG break!

Posted by james tate
not only are they pricks but there whiney pricks oh its so hard being me everone picks on me OH WHOOOOOO is me.
GIVE ME A FuuuUcccCkkkKIIINNNNG break!

Hey! Weird, it actually helped! Thank you, I'm feeling better now! LOL 😄

We just need to learn to be tactful..... I take pride in who I am, but sometimes when somebody is getting the better of me, my fire will start spot fires and next thing I know, a rage is burning. That is why I stick to the truth of the matter. I've learned through my experiences that once people have been ugly and disruptive in my life, and I've turned on them and tossed them out, they later down the line regret what they did and wish I was still around because I am such a great, positive person to be around.

I want to help everyone..... but sometimes not everyone wants to help me. You gotta be selfish in order to get where you wanna get in life, otherwise people will use you as a door mat to wipe their feet on so that they can walk through that door.

Be strong and courageous. Sometimes we have a habit of spinning shit out of order because of our impulsiveness.

I just had to learn another valuable lesson in life, and it was with someone I trusted and was close with. People come in so many forms that you really don't know who they are until you go through some shit with them. If you can get past the shit, then you can get past anything. That's what makes bonds......

Posted by i love ewe
i dont think aries are disliked by most signs. with aries you tend to get the extremes....the REALLY outgoing ones and the terribly shy ones. with the outgoing ones it's hard to scratch beneath the surface because they are most comfortable being sociable and with large crowds so they dont need to open up and expose what's really within. these are the aries that are mistaken as shallow or superficial, they seem like people persons but getting them to open up is a challenge. the shy type aries tend to grow on people. ive noticed they can have an intimidating presence or seem sarcastic but they're major dorks once you get them talking

I must say I'm the type that takes a little time to open up and get to know. And yes, I can tell people (specially men) get very intimidated when they first meet me, but once I feel like I can trust someone I totally turn into a 12 year old -literally- it's like having a double personality, LOL so embarrasing and yet I can't help it 😛

Posted by wgamador
I understand you Aries. Ive taken the time to learn all about you ladies and you all fascinate me. I mean come on, look at my sorry ass, 16 years and still thinking about my Aries heartbreak. I even dated my match the Cancer Woman and while it was fun, i barely think of her. I dont miss her and she did contact me a few years ago. But i told her i was with someone new, but i did let her know that i did care for her.
But i secretly wished it was my Aries ex who would have called me.....cause i said to myself, God--- if Cancer is calling me, why wont Aries, when i gave her 10,000% more love and spent twice as long together.


So im very sorry you all feel this way, even my current girlfriend feels that way ..... Sometimes i think its her demanding tone with people that turn them off from her. I mean at times i even feel like she is the BIGGEST hypocrite so much so that i dont even want to fuck her some nights. I find myself telling her this all the time...
You Catch More Bees With Honey, baby.

I'm sorry to say this, but the chances of her contacting you are very limited. I also 'broke up' with a very good friend of mine five years ago. Eventhough we were only friends, he was like a brother to me because I developed that type of love you can only feel for someone who is your family. He was everything to me. But as we got to know each other deeper and deeper, I got to know his 'dark side'. He hurt me, I hurt him. I apologized for my mistakes, but he lacked the humility to recognize his. Thus, everything for what I ever look up in him vanished, and I decided to walk away.

After a few months he tried to contact me as if nothing happened. But, you know what? It was too late already. He had his chance, but he was too proud back then. Now, that chapter is closed and I've been moving forward from that day on. And I will continue moving forward since I have no intention on going back and I don't like living in the past.

Posted by Mars.In.Aries
We just need to learn to be tactful..... I take pride in who I am, but sometimes when somebody is getting the better of me, my fire will start spot fires and next thing I know, a rage is burning. That is why I stick to the truth of the matter. I've learned through my experiences that once people have been ugly and disruptive in my life, and I've turned on them and tossed them out, they later down the line regret what they did and wish I was still around because I am such a great, positive person to be around.

I want to help everyone..... but sometimes not everyone wants to help me. You gotta be selfish in order to get where you wanna get in life, otherwise people will use you as a door mat to wipe their feet on so that they can walk through that door.

Be strong and courageous. Sometimes we have a habit of spinning shit out of order because of our impulsiveness.

I just had to learn another valuable lesson in life, and it was with someone I trusted and was close with. People come in so many forms that you really don't know who they are until you go through some shit with them. If you can get past the shit, then you can get past anything. That's what makes bonds......

I hear ya. I like being a courageous person, it does come handy specially in situations were action needs to be taken, and you need to stand for others. But it is also true, I find it extremately difficult to comfort people with words. That doesn't mean that I don't understand their pain, it's just that sometimes I feel that people expect more than a "there, there" and a pat on the shoulder from me, and honestly I usually don't know what else to say :S

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
pffff what you talking about? Aries people are one of the best liked overall

someone I know said he liked me yesterday, too. That made my day 😛 LOL

Posted by tauruswomanwtf
Huh? I like Aries women and most Aries guys (not all). My bff is an Aries. She's one of the only people who I like to talk to on a consistent basis. In fact, when she calls me at work, I always answer the phone with "Thank God!" instead of hello as in thank God it's you and no one else!

Aaaw! That is so sweet of you! 😄

Posted by wgamador

Posted by ariesvita

Thats cool, I took the chance and thats all i wanted.
im okay with whatever happens. Really.

Well, I also think it was very corageous of you what you did: take a chance and see what happens. At the end, I believe something good will come out of this. That doesn't necessarily mean getting her back, or restablishing bonds with her, but at least this will help you process everything better and you will finally be able to move on and see that there are better things out there waiting for you.


"Let go and trust. Everything will be ok."

Aries peeps just need to pick their battles wisely is all. Not everything is worth raging about. Not everything should hurt your ego. Etc etc.

You are the best sign of the zodiac to me (besides leos and my own). Understand that with aquas (not sure about the other signs) your honesty though cutting is secretly appreciated.

I love Aries.

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