long distance

my aries decided last week he wanted to make a long distance commitment with me. we had been casually seeing each other/sleeping together for a year before i moved away about 6 hrs from him for grad school. can i trust he will stay committed? so far he is saying he cant come up and visit me because of work and he only contacts me every couple days or so. i'm assuming he must like me to still be talking to me after a year, but how come he won't make more of an effort after saying he wants to commit. he said he would meet me halfway somewhere but i need him to make the full effort so i can believe he is in this for real. what do u guys think? talk to me aries men!!

Hi Saggie,

on behalf of my aries brothers (me being an Aries sister) we are either in it or not.
We don't kinda make a committment, we are committed. and yes there are those who would like us all "committed" to finger painting institutions.

We aren't into grey areas. We don't mess around. And we expect the same in return.
Aries love is true, boy or girl.

^ Very true

You should know in your own heart if this guy is committed or not. No one outside of your relationship can ever know. Time will tell ultimately but learn to communicate & know this for yourself.