Men are commitment phobics? No way

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Unregistered on Friday, August 9, 2002 and has 2 replies.

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It seems that a complaint I hear often from other women is that their boyfriend, or men in general, are afraid of commitment and do not want to be tied down. This has not been my experience, instead it has been the opposite. I've only been involved with two men- a Saggie and a Scorpio. (I am an Aries). The Sag pressed marriage on me constantly, it wasn't meant to be, etc. So we broke up. Currently with a Scorpio, who thankfully does not pressure me but has made it clear that he would like to marry me if our relationship got that far.
So tell me, is this thing about men being commitment phobics totally offbase, or is just the signs I have been with? How committed ARE Scorpios? Seeing how they are sex addicts, are they more prone to stray I wonder—

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Alot of Scorpios will have their cake and eat it too. Just because they like sneaky, or naughty liasons. They're so good at it you will almost never know unless you catch them red handed.

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Scorpio female here (who also knows a few scorp males very well).

First of all, we're not sex addicts. Maybe some are, but you can't categorically label Scorpios as sex addicts.

Secondly, I think you should feel lucky to have encountered men who don't play around. Why question it? A spade is a spade. If you've been blessed enough to find these men, more power to you--just don't analyze your good fortune...bask in it instead.

Third, no not all men have a fear of committment, especially not Scorp men...however, it is true that scorps often find themselves caught up in "dangerous liasons", so as long as you go into it knowing this, you're ahead of the game.