Men with venus in aries

I have some questions about men with aries venus. I've read a lot about them, and I've heard from different sources that they NEED to be chased... That they charm you into liking them, and then they pull back and expect you to chase them. Okay... What I don't get is what happens after? I know that it's hard to keep their interest and all that, but let's say you manage to do just that... What happens then? Does he start to chase you? Or does the girl have to be direct and just tell him how she feels? Or is 'feelings' a no-no with aries venus??

Why do they play hard to get? I so rarely see this in men, I'm fascinated... And WHY do they need to be chased? Why do they just want to sit and watch? Is it ego? Are they testing your interest? Or is it that they like independent and aggresssive women so much that they will do anything to see that in action? I don't get it... Any aries venuses out there??

I'm Aries and woman, I don't know which planet that I got. But I can say why we play hard to get, actually we didn't do that in purpose, we just naturaly do that as our character. We believe that when someone try so hard to chase us then it means they are the one who deserve us, why we do that? Because we afraid of getting hurt. It's big no way for us. But once you winning their heart, they will be sincere to you, be patient with Aries, they just like to find the right one in the right time. 🙂

Hm this is a tough one. I am an aries venus and I dated a pisces guy with his aries in venus, and tough to they say they don't chase, he sort of did, but we both did. It was truly like two little kids playing marriage, a lot of fun flirting, and he was very persistent to get me to admit I liked him while I was IN a relationship, which frustrated me but once I was out of it, it worked well. We just disappear and come back and flirt like wild then go back to our absence. Never goes away, the little spark will always be there, but it's way too playful to make serious, I think. He likes to have someone who chases him while he chases, like a play date type of thing.

Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Hm this is a tough one. I am an aries venus and I dated a pisces guy with his aries in venus, and tough to they say they don't chase, he sort of did, but we both did. It was truly like two little kids playing marriage, a lot of fun flirting, and he was very persistent to get me to admit I liked him while I was IN a relationship, which frustrated me but once I was out of it, it worked well. We just disappear and come back and flirt like wild then go back to our absence. Never goes away, the little spark will always be there, but it's way too playful to make serious, I think. He likes to have someone who chases him while he chases, like a play date type of thing.

Exactly! ??

We like to chase. If you don't let us chase, you might as well just delete our phone numbers then.

Posted by Tauruswithspunk
Very weird... because though I'm a woman, I'm Aries Venus and I DO THE CHASING! We love to chase and we love when it's a little difficult to get cause that brings out our competitive streak. I've never heard anything dealing with Aries wanting to be chased. However since I'm a Taurus and I believe in tradition I want the man to come to me first, but once I know it's on.... it's game on ?

Weird, the Aries guy who is persistent with me is Aries sun, moon and merc but has Venus Taurus :-)

It really is a bit of cat and mouse lol

I have a Venus in Aries.

I hate to chase but I enjoy the chase.

Yes, it's confusing.

I'm a Taurus Sun.

Hey, I have Venus in Aries, never really know what it means exactly but I had this assessment done on myself and it seems accurate and might answer your question...

Venus in Aries You are very affectionate toward others, but you hate to be tied down by anyone. Not shy or reserved, you express your loving feelings freely, and you need to be free to love whomever you choose. You are unwilling to give in to your partner, because you always want things your own way. This could be a problem in your friendships. People usually like you because you are yourself, not because you are charming. You know what you want, and you are willing to go after it. Your appetite for love is quickly whetted, and you wish to possess the object of your affections without delay. On the other hand, your desires are usually satiated rather quickly. This enables you to thoroughly enjoy a brief but fiery affair. In a longer-range affair, however, you may feel that your partner lacks the intensity of passion you desire. You may have to make an effort to pace your desires and be more consistent in your tastes to match your partner's. Although such an affair may take some time to develop, you would be happiest with a patient and understanding lover who can adjust to your timing.

The beginning was v weird for me and my Aries in Venus, I also felt like there was so much push and pull and I was left clueless as to his feelings. Once established though he's all about me, (work first) I think the problem also came from the fact he kept inviting me over, I dont like to go to guys homes in the beginning. He's v much a homebod though. Whereas I was still a bit of a party girl, always out with friends and inviting him to which he came but maybe twice. So there was misunderstanding due to these facts also.

I'm an Aries woman with a man with Aries stellium, including his Venus.

I also have a Taurus sun friend man with Aries Venus.

Two completely different habits - because one wants something stable and has done his whoring period already, and the other one hasn't yet.

This is exact wording from both of them, not my interpretation.

So, make conclusions from there, not from sole placement