Need advice on an Aries + Aries,help please ;)

This has been the most violitile relationship that I have ever been i. One that has brought me great joy, and deep pain and confusion. I love this girl more than any other girl I've ever been with. But she has decieved me multiple times. I was good, wasn't calling, wasn't writing.. I was beginning to accept the fact that she is gone. Recently went on a date.. and it was just way too soon, I was just thinking of her the whole time... went into the washroom and called her from the bathroom. Great now I dumb fucked up..we are talking again.. she wants to get back together... but my gut is telling me to stay away.. my deepest intuition is telling me.. it's going to be a long drama ladden life.. but I do adore this girl deeply.. almost like a flipping obssesion.. She is completely irrational and likes to jump into stuff, that is why she is all about getting back together just listening to her heart. Im trying to be more rational. I'm completely confused.. even went to go see a physcic who gave me a spirtitual cleanings all sorts of crap.. candles..told me I was cursed or somthing.. Love makes you do crazy stuff..

On top of it, she told me she had a tatoo done with my name, and she is literally passing ouot from stress and going to the hospital. Crazy stuff, this just makes me think, just how much she really does love me. But like I said there is something about her that freaks me out. Communication is terrible, I like to beat issues in the ground, her on the other hand, doesnt talk about anything.. and we always have vicious stand-offs...

God we have only been dating 3 months and talking about marriage.. it's the most insane relationship I've ever been in.. I'm am deeply, deeply confused, any feedbac k would be greatly appreciated.

I dunno AB...I agree w/ what you've said...that would be PH doing what his gut and mind are telling him to do...but when you can't let go, not yet anyway...that's all heart.

I can't explain it PH, but I DO understand what you're going through. I've been dating an Aries for over a year now (off and on). Some F'ed up shit has happened, he's lied to me, he's been a little shady, etc. Each time we broke up, I dumped him...and each time he would wait a couple of weeks before contacting me (persistently)to patch things up. Although I sometimes feel like I can't trust him (due to past incidents) I'm also starting to realize that he would never do anything to intentionally hurt me. He's faithful and loyal. I know this, even more so now, through talking to his friends and hearing them say how much he adores me and what a wreck he was when we were a part.

I really do think it's a process (when dealing w/ aries), especially if you really like them. Fire w/ Fire=numerous fight and seperations until you can be completely comfortable and honest w/ one another...I really do believe that. I'm a leo, and one thing I share in common w/ my aries is a fear of vulnerability. I can't stand being vulnerable and neither can he. But I do believe that we are getting to the point of complete security w/ one another (until that next fight, of course). Don't know how long we will last, but I do know that this challenge is helping me learn more about myself and become a stronger individual. If you choose to go back, great...if not...your lessons have been learned. But it's important not to beat yourself up, no matter what decision you make. Good Luck!

Hey Purplehaze, what sign are you?

I'm an Aries.. as is she.. just caught her in a lie this weekend where she told me she had gotten a tatoo with my initials.... I think she is insane.. a total succubus

Ha.. nah I'll pass... I'd rather have stability that extreme highs/lows I'm too old for this crap.. Plus being an Aries.. she has lied to me over, and over, and over again.. about crazy stuff.. she'll go to Walmart and told me she went to Target... she is flippin insane!

I'll never been able to trust her again.. we don't forgive too easily

Plots his revenge day and night 😉

If that's not a lie.. than fine it's insanity.. Just completely fabricate a story out of thin air? Maybe to some that's normal that's fine. But that don't fly with me. I knew I should ran fast and far when I would catch her in a lie and she would have these big elaborate stories to go along with it.