need fellow aries advice.....

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so...... long story short, was involved with a capricorn where we just had fun, no relationship. I didn't need one since I got out of one a year ago, and he's in the point of his life of just having fun without being tied down to anything. Which worked out perfectly...... but we started to like each other, and for me, that meant that I pushed forward, and for him it meant that he would back off and then come back. We did this for a little while going back and forth, but then we started to argue. I mean, he would try to argue with me, and I would back off because I know how I am when I get into arguments and I don't want to be like that anymore.

I think he took that as a sign of weakness, because then he started to act really unfair about different situations that occurred, and when I would be vocal about it, he would call me a drama queen. Yet another situation occurred last week where one of our friends told his roommate about something private about another friend of ours, and somehow in the mix of things, it was said that capricorn was saying that I was the one who said it, so people started getting angry with me thinking I did something wrong..... when I confronted him about it, he basically told me that I should get my facts straight before I make myself look stupid, where it's more my character to confront head on the person who is the source or who's name has been brought up.

Bottom line is, I'm really fed-up with this douche bag. We also work together, so I'll remain cordial to him at work, but I can't stand him. I want to put him in his place once and for all so that he can see how much he has fucked up and how much of an ass he has been, how pathetic, unfair, dishonest, un-noble, and over all how ungentlemanly like he has been............ Should I just unleash the inner bitch and walk away, or should I just walk away—??
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I'm with you.... I'm ignoring him right now, and I can tell he's feeling uneasy about it, but then I'll turn around and strike up a conversation with him to ease the blow that I'm going to give him...... I think this guy needs to be put into his place. His arrogance alone is what needs to be squashed. And it's not about winning, I don't even want to argue with him, I want him to know where he stands with me and why so that I can have my peace and feel better about it. In a way, it will take the control out of his hands.....