Need Help

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Lunamistress on Friday, November 27, 2009 and has 3 replies.

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@Lunamistress
18 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

I have an aries male guy that is constantly msging me telling me he is available to talk at certain times and asking me to be online to talk to him at those times. I feel it is a bit sufforcating for me. I wish to tell him in a polite way to BACK OFF! lol

BAckground: he has some feelings for me, know i have a husband and he still hits on me which is also uncomfortable and the conversations always revolve around sex. It's getting a bit boring for me. When I am not online at said times, he msgs me like 10msgs!! sheesh if I am here I will reply ~ its a bit annoying.

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@Lunamistress
18 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

thanks ariessun, i guess theres no way around but being blunt. Its funny you mention that aries being married because the one that is after me has a gf he has been seeing for 3 yrs.

it doesn't make it any better that i work with him *sigh* but I guess you arians can get over it =)

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@ramfishtwins
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Hey AS!!!

She's right (as always). I was thinking about this the other day...how I'm so open. I often talk about personal things about me or my life when I probably shouldn't. I keep having to remind myself that most are not as open...and I should probably keep more to myself. Oh well! That's me 🙂

Anyway, I agree with AS. Just tell him the what what and he should probably stop. Tell him that you are married and not interested in that type of relationship with him. You have to be forward, blunt, and straight up with an Aries man.

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@ramfishtwins
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Posted by ariessun
hey rft! how are things going girly? any better? hope so! nothing new here. sag is mad at me i suppose. shit. damned if ya do, damned if ya don't...oh well either he gets over it or he doesn't. who knows! 😉

Oh, up and down as usual.

Oh saggies...they are a trip.