Obsession

I've only been in love twice in my life. Each time I became obsessed with them. When things were great, my bills paid, house clean, dressing pretty... . And if we were having issues, I my life would fall apart because of the stress of losing them. I would be so consumed, it was scary. It was almost like worshipping/idolizing. I got better control of it, especially now that I have kids. But have any of you experience that obsessive behavior?

Posted by Finbuff
Yes - totally - love can easily become obsession. I actually had that obsessive type of relationship with an Aries. It's almost scary because you try to fight it when you can see where it's going, but it's almost uncontrolable.

Yesss. Both of mines has been with cancers! Lol

Posted by rinx

Posted by ariesheart
I've only been in love twice in my life. Each time I became obsessed with them. When things were great, my bills paid, house clean, dressing pretty... . And if we were having issues, I my life would fall apart because of the stress of losing them. I would be so consumed, it was scary. It was almost like worshipping/idolizing. I got better control of it, especially now that I have kids. But have any of you experience that obsessive behavior?

In my past experience...
It seemed like obsession when issues arose, because it occupied my brain/head/mind, and it was the only thing I can see/pay attention to. (Which interestingly corresponds with the body parts Aries rules.) Although, when things were great the obsessive feelings didn't exist, and I would be independent of the relationship.

After a while I learned to focus on myself (on centring myself and meditate) when discordant feelings pop up.
When centred, I notice how trivial the issues are and they no longer occupy my mind.

Your question made me look into it and I stumbled upon this:

Idk if you can relate though =P

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Wow, thanx