Fishi, I don't think you can understand anyone's mind -- no matter what sign...you can only get along. Sun sign's not the only aspect defining people...
If you try to understand people's mind, they know and see it as manipulation and walk away or attempt to give you a taste of your own medicine...especially when you say 'you' are lost in spirit 🙂
That's why people are not comfortable around shrinks.
On a basic generalisation of Aries, one of the reasons they are called the babies of the zodiac is because they're are able to tune in to the vibes around them. If you give off vibes that you can be walked all over, that's exactly what they, or other signs in other subtle ways, will do.
Aries is a fire sign so has some Air in it - this is not used to the maximum by people around them because the aggression overshadows any intelligence. When Aries acts, help them question it - give them something to think about and walk away! just like you would a baby - and next time, observe the change. They use instinct that's why they appear to be terrible communicators (similar to water signs) - it's not based on facts but subjecting to how an experience made them feel. Make them think of how the situation affects other around them - only then will you see the beauty of the sign - if you bow to the aggressive/apparent selfishness - hehe - good luck !
Note - no two Aries/or people are the same like Dogsbody poetically pointed out.
what i love about aries is that they seem so... themselves, and even though each one IS unique(each one ive met has been so differentthan the last but just as confident), they are solid in themselves and trusting of themselves. ive always thought of them as babies and just as much as they have to learn, they have to teach. but i have never met an aries open to change unless they thought of it themselves. and i have never met an aries who is willing to allow themselves to learn from another. is it common for aries to be acting like they think youre an idiot, but actually listening and analyzing what youre saying and grow from it? is that why you say "give them something to think about and walk away"? i would just like to understand the roles we are to play alongside each other
but i have never met an aries open to change unless they thought of it themselves. and i have never met an aries who is willing to allow themselves to learn from another. is it common for aries to be acting like they think youre an idiot, but actually listening and analyzing what youre saying and grow from it?
They would like you to think that because of the ego - when you walk away, they listen and analyse; eventually, they emerge a with some of the lesson learnt incorporated - if they like you enough. With maturity, this changes but always remember, they are not fixed, so not that stubborn, everything you say eventually sips in so alone time is required for this change.
If you don't walk away, you may get arguments for ego sake...
Some other signs pretend to listen and take everything in but they know they won't do anything you say - they just humour you...
Same difference I think...
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heh, i've put this in two other forums too but as you should know - i have problem with my patience (pisces/aries cusp - "i want what i want, when i want it") so i figured if i put one HERE as well, i might get answers faster. bhaha. xD
i started working at a restaurant and before it had even opened we had to do training and wait on the other people training to be servers...i got paired everytime with this guy that is a pisces...it was crazy how we had clicke
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