Soo, where are these coming from?

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So i don't think that i'm pretty understand what is goin on with the aries guy i've been talkin to lately.
At first, he mentioned that we'll just gonna have fun. And nothing will be serious. Everytime he tease me, he always insert the "just kidding" stuff which i always reply with another jokes, then we would laugh.

That's just silly.
I've been actively online in one of IT group in the same IM client we're using, when he saw me online there, he then sent me a short message like "hmm, you're online", then asking if i'm looking for guys there. I said i'm in the IT group discussing stuff, he got cooled down a bit. Asking if he could call me, i replied with jokes, he got mad.
But later we ended up talkin on the phone, and again i'm jokin around, then he got mad again.

Next morning, he texted me sweet. Laughing and asking about my past relationship which i didn't really answer it seriously. He wanted to see my ex picture, i didn't show him. Then, his tone kinda changed.

Yesterday, he saw me online on the IM client again, saying the same "you're online". I replied just like yes, and asking about his sleep.
He didn't reply since then.

Well, where are these coming from? I know that i always picking on all his corny words and all those relationship stuff he telling and asking me, but isn't it all just a joke like what he said at the very first time? Why does he got offended then?
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Posted by Libralula
Aries men are weird but jealousy and possessiveness is a sign he likes you and wants you to himself even though he hasn't committed to you yet, maybe he's thinking about it and is testing you to see if you're legit before he risks it all and makes such a choice.
Well, is it jealousy/possesiveness then?
I like him, but i maintain it to just in a witty flirty level whenever he said that he doesn't wanna be serious.

He said that he doesn't wanna get hurt once. And told me to not leaving him and stuff. He even call me baby. But with the just kidding word inserted after that. Lol
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Posted by Libralula
Girl...
Lol he's not kidding one bit.

What's his other placements look like?
I haven't really checked out his full placement as i don't exactly know his birthplace and tob. We just talkin for a week! Thats crazy that i even made this thread for a guy i just don't know much.
He is 3 years younger, and it's kinda the first time i pay my attention to younger one. Lol

Well, i deleted my account in the IM client, and for a some reason i change my id in other chat app that we're using to talk privately, and it cut off all friends id i got in tharlt chat app. Later on, he sent me a text to my phone number shortly, just saying "aww you just delete my id".
Told him abour the id change. Haven't gotten any reply yet.

What do i do to make things go smoothly?
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Posted by Libralula
It sounds like he likes you.
But if it's only been a week... and he's displaying psycho behavior.

Would you tell a guy you've only knew a week: "Tell me about your ex... Baby...Let me see her pic." ?
Hopefully not.

Guys who say the "JK" after everything are usually not JK, they just don't want to come off as a creep.
Which he sounds jealous to me, and I think 1 week is a bit early to be jealous of you not giving him your undivided attention
He also told you not to leave him....you guys barely know each other

PROCEED WITH CAUTION
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyIxdOctioo"
Lol this crackin me up. Buut it possibly right, i don't know.
Well i just figured out that he sent me another messages in other im, asking the same thing, "why did i delete his id?"
And he just replied the text asking the new id that i'm using.

Red flag?