Vaginaboob, anyone dated female Aquarius?

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HER
Sun Aquarius 11.40
Moon Capricorn 14.42
Mercury Aquarius 3.56
Venus Capricorn 8.35
Mars Capricorn 17.08
Jupiter Virgo 12.59 R
Saturn Aquarius 9.31
Uranus Capricorn 15.30
Neptune Capricorn 17.24
Pluto Scorpio 22.49
Lilith Aquarius 1.16
Asc node Capricorn 9.31

ME
Sun Aries 25.41
Moon Libra 2.17
Mercury Aries 0.19
Venus Aries 10.01
Mars Pisces 14.13
Jupiter Virgo 4.59 R
Saturn Aquarius 17.01
Uranus Capricorn 17.59
Neptune Capricorn 18.58
Pluto Scorpio 22.18 R
Lilith Aquarius 9.31
Asc node Capricorn 3.16


this is without knowing the times we were born
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Posted by 88pisces
this is a tuff one Mr. Aries.

Aquariuos say thigs they are going to do & never do at times.
so she says she is on her way to see you, she may not show up. & Aries is usually impatient, & pushy.
Aquarius doesnt like to plan & her dont care attitude is gonna piss you off. specially if you are waiting for her to get there and she never gets there.

my sister is aquarius. I as a Pisces I am very patient with her.
& when we plan to do something. she is never there or has gone some where else. she didnt care for our plan.
but very demanding when an idea of hers fires up & I refuse to go, she gets mad & her mouth goes off,,, very masculine in some sort of way.


I never count on her anymore. it takes a very patient man & tons of love to deal with an aquarian female. specially if her moon is in leo.



i think i could teach her to be more feely in that way because if id try to dump her a few times for her behavior i think she will start behaving better
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Posted by 88pisces
you can try. Aquarius & Aries get along well. fire & air :-)



I can never relate to what people say about Aquarians. My ex before my ex husband was extremely hot for me. He was first to make me pop...lol and I mean pop :-p ...lol We had the ultimate lover and friend relationship... But he was erratic... Found out that he was married to the woman that he told me was the crazy baby mamma! So I guess that she was the one who experienced the truly bad side of him.
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Posted by Indigomoon
As an aries female I find I am better as a friend to aqua I have zero patience for the back and forth
daily....they are fun but for me I have no tolerance for the flippant attitude...



i can relate to that, if she does that though i will try to break up with her, that will make her feel like shit, so she will apologize and hopefully learn to behave, if not then i'll just continue having her as a friend
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Posted by DazedScorp

You know...

I've never dated. Always one night stands that have turned into relationships. I honestly have no idea how to date, but with this Cancer woman (who is 6 years older than me), I feel I'm doing one hell of a job.

Being myself, and letting things fall where they may.

That's how dating is supposed to work, right? Or at least that's what I thought?

KoA is demonstrating how to be manipulative and controlling at it's finest. Is this how you expect to find companionship?

By strong arming them?! Is that what you think love is?

Give me a fucking break kid. I thought I was insecure and controlling, but this takes the cake.



He's shown in several cases that he's a POS. He's an embarrassment of a human being, tbh. Hope he grows out of it because his little view of the world won't fly very well when he hits the real world. And no, you weren't the only one who saw it. When I read that, my response was - "are you shitting me? What a dick fence."
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Posted by DazedScorp
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Posted by Indigomoon
As an aries female I find I am better as a friend to aqua I have zero patience for the back and forth
daily....they are fun but for me I have no tolerance for the flippant attitude...



i can relate to that, if she does that though i will try to break up with her, that will make her feel like shit, so she will apologize and hopefully learn to behave, if not then i'll just continue having her as a friend



What is this shit?!

Talk about being a manipulative asshat.


come on i am not that manipulative i understand its all about things laying out to be together, but isnt the fact that we are already being drawn to each other more important? the slight manipulation would be just an enhancement, it wouldnt change her but it woulc certainly make her think twice before starting an argument about something not that important, you know what i mean?


rockyroadicecreamretard,
... idk what POS is so im not as offended as i should be i suppose, but nice try, ill give you that


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Posted by Wynter
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I give this coming relationship 2 months.



same here!


I disagree.


So you think manipulative asshat and Vaginaboob have a chance, eh?


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well we are going out this week just to chill as friends will see how things go but im not gonna show any interest even though its hard cause shes gorgeous, wish me luck, the tower of luxury is growing and the diamond will soon be dropped from the top floor to make it all the way to the ground, and a little jewish boy will see it and scream "a diamond" and his grandmother will call him ignorant.

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dating,

Posted by DazedScorp
Posted by KingOfAries
Posted by Indigomoon
As an aries female I find I am better as a friend to aqua I have zero patience for the back and forth
daily....they are fun but for me I have no tolerance for the flippant attitude...



i can relate to that, if she does that though i will try to break up with her, that will make her feel like shit, so she will apologize and hopefully learn to behave, if not then i'll just continue having her as a friend



What is this shit?!

Talk about being a manipulative asshat.


come on i am not that manipulative i understand its all about things laying out to be together, but isnt the fact that we are already being drawn to each other more important? the slight manipulation would be just an enhancement, it wouldnt change her but it woulc certainly make her think twice before starting an argument about something not that important, you know what i mean?


rockyroadicecreamretard,
... idk what POS is so im not as offended as i should be i suppose, but nice try, ill give you that


Posted by ArticleL
Posted by Wynter
Posted by ArticleL
Posted by Aquagirly
Posted by Pecheresse
I give this coming relationship 2 months.



same here!


I disagree.


So you think manipulative asshat and Vaginaboob have a chance, eh?


Yip.
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well we are going out this week just to chill as friends will see how things go but im not gonna show any interest even though its hard cause shes gorgeous, wish me luck, the tower of luxury is growing and the diamond will soon be dropped from the top floor to make it all the way to the ground, and a little jewish boy will see it and scream "a diamond" and his grandmother will call him ignorant.

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Posted by miha
i'm an aqua woman in a relationship with an aries man. i have to admit that we are older than you[39-49] and this may be of much importance. i bet neither me, nor him would have been that patient with each other 20 years ago.

here i go:
1. never try to put her in her place just to show her "who the boss is:......she'll leave you...she doesn't need a hierarchy in a relationship

2. put her "gently but firmly" in her place ONLY when she's wronged you [she'll even apologise if you are right]

3. her back and forth attitude is something for you to put up with if you love her. why? because this is the way an aqua gets committed to a relationship....in stages....sorry for this "pre-next stage drama"....it's never easy for us to lose our freedom and love/commitment implies some sort of "freedom loss". if my aries man hadn't accepted my back and forth attitude, i would have said "he isn't strong enough to let me be who i am...so why would i bother to get deeper involved———?"
accepting this things i got from "i like him, but we don't have a chance together"...to "ok....i must admit:i love him...actually he is very dear to my soul. i'll marry him."

it took him a year and 9 months to get me to this point and i'm sure there's much more for him to get through...but i'll never harm or hurt him....i know this and therefore...i know my limits...and his...

good luck to you



that is a very good advice thank you very much, i can now recall her say something like "if he doesnt/cant/wont why would i" and i think she does realize that she is hard to handle, well will try our best and see how it goes, FYI I have been very patient with her quite frankly
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guys guys guys calm down, I AM NOT MANIPULATING, just because I said that i will break up with her to make her feel bad does not mean that i do it on purpose, its just when my patience is literally worn off, and it got worn off when we were friends with her for a year, she was quite difficult because of a lot of things half of which had nothing to do with me i said I am done i dont want to be your friend, lets just get it over with, then she felt really bad and apologized, I did not even intend for that to happen, so chill the fuk out dased, stupid crap, and "babyaquarius?" It is just what I do when i cant take people anymore, i bail, and trust me it takes a lot! how they react to this is completely up to them, in out case with this aquarius it makes her think about her actions and think twice next time she is about to say something, it doesnt mean i manipulate her into it its just we respect each others limits, just because i said i will break up with her to make her apologize doesnt mean it will be happening on daily bases, it might happen once in a while when things get too far with her attitude swings. I do not manipulate love interest, i do not act certain way for anyone, i act as myself and that gets girls interested.


When I am telling you about my "manipulative plans" i dont go out next day and manipulate her into falling inlove with me and having sex with me, its just what i observe in people and make conclusions based on that, so that when in the future i have to be in the situation i will know how to handle it carefully to avoid fights. Notice the key word AVOID, not manipulate.
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Posted by miha
i don't even like the word "manipulation"...
and i think people have overrated this word...manipulate, deal with, get after what you want....aren't these all synonymous words from a certain perspective?

as about this guy....i'm not new on here, but i don't judge people...so i barely remember their activity on here...but i also don't remember saying she wasN'T interested.....am i wrong——?



you brought up a very good point and actually opened my eyes a little with your first chunk of information. However the unfortunate part is I, Dazedscorp, and others on here know he is manipulating here because he admitted he would hurt her emotionally to keep her inline, manipulation is a bad word, this is a bad situation. If he would spend all his energy on something else, say 100m dash and wanted to become an Olympic gold medalist, that would be a get after what you want situation. This would be a good situation. I can also vouch for the manipulations he's tried before and has failed at.
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purest bullsh??t, I never said I was going to manipulate anyone, sorry you perceived it that way, but we all manipulate each other, i just talk about it bluntly while you make it into beautiful stories of "I bought her a BMW and she said yes to my proposal the next day" this is manipulating, im simply avoiding things, why is it so wrong, damn
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Posted by acrabbycrab12
-i think i could teach her to be more feely in that way because if id try to dump her a few times for her behavior i think she will start behaving better-

You posted this. this doesn't look like an accidental my patience has worn thin situation here or avoidance. Also I don't make beautiful stories up in order to get someone to like me. I wouldn't buy a BMW, jewellery or propose to someone for manipulative purposes as this an expensive process. I prefer the cheaper simpler one by asking them out. If they say no then I still walk away winning because I'm not spending energy, time, or money on someone that doesn't like me to make them like me.



you are slightly confused stupid crap, we havent been discussing any of that here, thats what i was actually pointing out, that i am doing it the natural way, by talking, shes not stupid to see if i would want to manipulate her, and why would i lie to myself and try to manipulate her, my "manipulation" is nothing but trying to avoid fights that lead to bad things, it doesnt involve changing anyone, it just involves making the other party think twice before spitting out something stupid
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Posted by DazedScorp
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oh well, they will have to deal with it then, every action has an equal and opposite reaction, Einstein and King of Aries



And you, as a human being, have progressed through generations of evolution and developed the ability to masterbate with both hands, Darwin and DazedScorp.
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so lets not deny facts and agree to disagree, and move on and give me beneficial advise
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My beneficial advice is sometimes you have to lie because some people can not handle the truth. Some would say why are you with a fagit who can't approach reality but this is irrelevant as you choosing to manapulate whomever. Whatever works for you growing up, maturity and the stereotypes of it, how a person thats wise should act happens in time. Its up to you to be whoever the hell you choose. Some people handle a dog by talking to it in soothing tones other people like me beat the shit out of it. The man you choose to be as I'm sure you know is up to you. Dazed might eat his potateo salad mixed with jello you might eat yours mixed with turds.
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Posted by miha
ArticleL......".....to convince HER to date you"

i thought that smart people like you would get the idea.... but obviously....some get trapped in details and forget the big picture 😄



Nope I thought you were trying to convery something a bit deeper nvm. I need to think. Simpler.

Also don't think to highly of smart people because they might look down on you. And to keep it simple for the dumb people since deeper thinking sounds cross eyed I meant in general.
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Posted by miha
KoA, here's the deal

NEVER,but NEVER break up with her for bad behaviour. there are other ways to signal what you don't like. her venus is in capricorn, right? mine too. and what i know is that i like men who are very stable[career, emotions,etc]. so...if you break up with her for any mistake she makes[and being an aqua...she'll make a lot...believe me] this will show her that you are not stable and willing to work things out if they go wrong. venus in capricorn are always for long term relationships...not "go with the flow". maybe she'll accept you back once,twice...but not any time you'll do that....she'll finally leave if you keep on breaking up with her because you can't find other ways to handle her.

here's what my aries does when i exaggerate and it works...
-if i write messages when i am mad with him....he deletes them WITHOUT READING THEM, telling me "i'm not going to read those...i'll get angry with you"=when i am furious i am not very coherent if i speak, if i write i get better. not reading them, forced me to keep my mouth shut till i am able to calmly come up with a coherent point of view and then he listens and explains= PROBLEM SOLVED
-if i feel like arguing he says "oh, god, not now....i have to do that, and that, and that. we'll talk about this tomorrow"...and he LEAVES/OR GOES TO BED. BUT guess what?! the next day[when i'm calmer and he has prepaired his speech] we DO talk about it= PROBLEM SOLVED
-if i am outrageous, he lets me be and next day he tells me how inappropriate that was, how hurt he felt, etc....i feel ashamed and i never repeat that mistake

see the point? he never mentions breaking up...and he does talk to me about problems, just he knows it's better to talk when we are calm and collected, not in the heat of the moment. he gives me time and space to calm down=be able to point out the problem, i give him time and space because i know aries get really furious when arguing=to be able to logically explain things to me. there are 2 things he signals and i clearly understand:1. i'm in a very stable relationship with a guy who is willing to work things out BUT 2. he doesn't take my crap unless i behave maturely.

what people forget here is that we are dealing with 2 people[aries and aquas] who naturally don't know how to deal with emotions.

just establish an aim and you'll find your own way. it doesn't need to be a conventional on
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Posted by miha
oh...one more thing....

i didn't really get and it IS important...are you in a relationship or you are just trying to convince you to date you?

things are different at this level...



its neither, we are friends, and we've sort of came closer together, i havent seen her this summer yet thats why i want to hang out with her next week just as friends you know movies food and will see about the rest, i was supposed to see her tonight but yesterday when she called i was busy and she asked me what i wanted to do so i was all over the place and she said lets just do it next week because next week she will be able to get off work sooner, today she wanted to meet up at 9.30. that's late too though id go anyway.
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oh...one more thing....

i didn't really get and it IS important...are you in a relationship or you are just trying to convince you to date you?

things are different at this level...



thats why i want to hang out with her next week just as friends you know movies food and will see about the rest.



Have you ever considered asking them out as a romantic interest, rather that a friend first?

I've noticed that in most of your threads asking for advice. You seem to try and lure them in as a friend first, and end up getting stuck in the friend zone.

Stop trying to be buddy buddy, and make it known to them, upfront and beforehand that you may be interested in a romantic relationship.

If they aren't down with that, move on to the next woman. If they are down, they will agree to a date and see where it goes from them.

Stop getting stuck in the friend zone.
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haven't thought about asking her out, we have a mutual friend who was closer to her last semester than me, i asked her whether i should ask the aqua out since shes now single, she didn't want to answer me but i kept bugging her and she said not to ask her out and when i asked that girls boyfriend - also my good friend who spoke to his gf, also didn't want to tell me anything but just said that when they asked her about me, and she said that im just a friend, and also told me not to ask her out, thing is those two mutual friends know me pretty well, the girl knows me the best since she knew me for the longest, and she kind of figured me out, but she also liked me very much and i think she still does, and on the other hand i suspect that she may be protecting me from consequences of asking the aqua out, i could call my friend(girl) and ask her details of what aqua thinks of me, but her opinion changes like weather,

This is basically the reason why im not asking her out, because im scared to, which was never the case before that, when i just met her. So now i am in the position when i helped her financially, when i supported her when she was having troubles with parents - emotionally, and from my point of view asking her out would be "i gave you this now you give me that" i dont know if
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haven't thought about asking her out, we have a mutual friend who was closer to her last semester than me, i asked her whether i should ask the aqua out since shes now single, she didn't want to answer me but i kept bugging her and she said not to ask her out and when i asked that girls boyfriend - also my good friend who spoke to his gf, also didn't want to tell me anything but just said that when they asked her about me, and she said that im just a friend, and also told me not to ask her out, thing is those two mutual friends know me pretty well, the girl knows me the best since she knew me for the longest, and she kind of figured me out, but she also liked me very much and i think she still does, and on the other hand i suspect that she may be protecting me from consequences of asking the aqua out, i could call my friend(girl) and ask her details of what aqua thinks of me, but her opinion changes like weather,

This is basically the reason why im not asking her out, because im scared to, which was never the case before that, when i just met her. So now i am in the position when i helped her financially, when i supported her when she was having troubles with parents - emotionally, and from my point of view asking her out would be "i gave you this now you give me that" i dont know if she would perceive it that way, but i certainly do and I cannot manipulate someone into relationship it has to be pure, in other case i would just be lying to myself, THIS IS WHY I wanted to let things play out "naturally" meaning if we hung out that one time, get used to being around each other again since we didn't see each other for 3 months, see whether she had any sympathies, and once that day went well, id call her and ask her out, i wouldn't wait longer than a day to do so, because shes dating multiple guys at the moment which i have to listen her talk about, and shes dumping one after the other, i believe some of them have much more going on than me, that's another bummer i have to overcome.. She wants a well standing reliable guy some may view her as a gold digger, but shes not
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Posted by miha
i don't even like the word "manipulation"...
and i think people have overrated this word...manipulate, deal with, get after what you want....aren't these all synonymous words from a certain perspective?

as about this guy....i'm not new on here, but i don't judge people...so i barely remember their activity on here...but i also don't remember saying she wasN'T interested.....am i wrong——?



you brought up a very good point and actually opened my eyes a little with your first chunk of information. However the unfortunate part is I, Dazedscorp, and others on here know he is manipulating here because he admitted he would hurt her emotionally to keep her inline, manipulation is a bad word, this is a bad situation. If he would spend all his energy on something else, say 100m dash and wanted to become an Olympic gold medalist, that would be a get after what you want situation. This would be a good situation. I can also vouch for the manipulations he's tried before and has failed at.



I agree with you. Whatever KOA does he will probobly fail though.....



Oh I'm sure he'll be an okay person once he gets out of this phase he's in. I was here at one point as well, fortunately I learned and am learning how this whole dating/relationship/getting who you want thing works. And sometimes you don't get what you want and you just got to keep on moving.
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are you retarded? i didnt even try anything yet and you are already talking about letting her go, are you even following the story or youre just here to drive me crazy?
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