We need to protect someone?

Hi, they say Aries like to be the hero to the rescue and go for the damsel in distress in a relationship? I’ve seen this pattern of relationships in myself, even when I think I’m actually dating someone sensible and independent for a change, they turn out to be into drugs, or have financial problems, mental issues, professions that I can't exactly tell my parents what they do.. etc. Sometimes maybe if I do meet a sensible woman, it’s kinda boring, so I don’t follow it up.

Is this what we really need? Friends and family are always telling me to stop getting unstable girlfriends, does anyone else have this?

Yes, I enjoy sticking up/rooting for the underdog.

I always tend to find myself in relationships where I start to realize that the person has too many " problems " for me whether it be finacally, their way of thinking or family issues I find that it's kind of a turn off, especially if the problems are too early in the relationship, if I like them enough I'll try to ignore it, but it can't be on pretty overbearing and annoying for the BEGINING of something.

I like to protect the people I love & care about, even the unstable ones. I attract all different types of people. I find it entertaining lol

I like protecting people I love. There's nothing wrong/bad about it, and I think it's natural.