@victoria-sakura
1 Year
Why do people like you?
To be honest I don't know. And if they do like me I wouldn't know the signs. I'm such a loner that I don't hardly trust nobody for people to be liking. I feel like I'm one of the most hated on than loved or liked on.
Well, i'm a Gemini...
...so i'm delusional about who likes me, or not. 😁
I honestly have no idea. There are moments I don't even like myself, so I'm not really sure why people would like me. I think people's like for me fluctuates similar to my vibrations. Some days more then others. I've said things especially here on dxpnet and thought " That one is going to get me hated forever." Yet somehow it doesn't. It really depends what type of vibes I'm giving out. I honestly can't answer why people like or hate me. Like all people I'm trapped within my own personal skull, and dont know what all the people outside of myself truly think. Also being 100% honest, the older I get the less I care. I wish I understood that years ago.
Because I'm clear and concise.
I aura farm the apocalypse
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
To be honest I don't know. And if they do like me I wouldn't know the signs. I'm such a loner that I don't hardly trust nobody for people to be liking. I feel like I'm one of the most hated on than loved or liked on.
Doesn’t mean no one likes you. All it takes is one person.
Because I like cats. 😹
Posted by Timone
Because I like cats. 😹
Can’t go wrong with cats 🐱… mostly 🤭
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Posted by cornmaizeshark
I aura farm the apocalypseThat's a good looking piece bro, love that scope
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Nice piece.
Little bit of e-peen:
.44 mag, 50 yards, open sights.
Second hole at the bottom was hitting the bouncing can.
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Fuck ya bro. I need to get a sidearm at some point, but I haven't decided what.
Posted by Generous1987
Because I'm very personable and not intimidating
Snub my thread and post in the cheap off-brand version instead. Ok, I see how it is
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Posted by Wizardzzz
Posted by Generous1987
Because I'm very personable and not intimidatingSnub my thread and post in the cheap off-brand version instead. Ok, I see how it is
click to expandTruth be told: didn't think you'd want me in your thread
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Err why?? 🥴🥴🤔
Posted by Wizardzzz
Posted by Generous1987
Because I'm very personable and not intimidatingSnub my thread and post in the cheap off-brand version instead. Ok, I see how it is
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People have said I come off approachable, warm and sociable. I also think it helps when I’m in a group or gathering setting I try my best to make sure no one feels left out.
I have a restless nature and have moved from job to job before (searching? Aquarius on the MC opposed to Uranus on the IC, Gem rising). But I've been in my current work for 8 years. As I moved from job to job, a coworker subconsciously followed me - 3 times. Same pattern, new job, few months later there he was, again. Hey, what is going on?
I commune with God through spiritual discipline/practices (pull the energy up the chakras). On some sort of soul level people pick up on this - they feel it. I've really scared people a few times meeting them (while 'high') around blind corners. I know why but they don't. So, I'm not liked to my face - but liked by others without them really knowing why they like me.
I once left a graveyard job on bad terms. I kind of forced my way out (I knew I needed to move on but wouldn't quit). I was meditating 3- or 4-hours a night at this job. And I was getting really 'high'. I would come home and only be able to sleep a couple of hours (popping awake and being ready for the day as though I had a full night's rest).
The last week on this job, I knew I was leaving. I could 'see' all kinds of dark entities waiting for my departure (ready to spring their evilness, no doubt). I was actually let go - ouch. I'm sure these evil spirits entered and made up for lost time in this house/work setting. Now they could enter. The supervisor who let me go kept 'bumping into' me in nonwork places. It was as though he was seeking my forgiveness - I just looked at him.
Its not really something in me that makes people like or dislike me its really something in them. Isnt it?
I represent : "Hope" to certain type of people (that you/We , are Not Completely Fked/Doomed to Forever be = the product of our environments).
Regardless how "Fun" it is & how much of a "Awesome Life" that is & how "The Fun doesnt Ever have to End".
Its All Satan's Lies.
(Also unfortunately a "Role-model", to certain kids).
I.e. that there iS = a way "Out" (whatever tf that means).
Unfortunately, its Not that easy & its tricky @ times.
But yes I Believe, or else.
Posted by Textosmoon
Its not really something in me that makes people like or dislike me its really something in them. Isnt it?
Not necessarily.
Just as examples,
I find @walk_on_by funny, it doesn’t mean I don’t find anyone else funny, nor does it mean no one finds me funny.
I find @afternoondelights22 to be a quite fun. Doesn’t mean I lack that aspect in my life, nor does it mean I don’t find anyone else fun.
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
To be honest I don't know. And if they do like me I wouldn't know the signs. I'm such a loner that I don't hardly trust nobody for people to be liking. I feel like I'm one of the most hated on than loved or liked on.Doesn’t mean no one likes you. All it takes is one person.
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Yeah I know but if you know me I mean truly know me I can be easily hated on in real life. I'm not someone that's easy to deal with and Im certainly not approachable at all. Having recently finding out me and our fucked up in the head president Donald trump is in the same category in just about everything I can shoot myself
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
To be honest I don't know. And if they do like me I wouldn't know the signs. I'm such a loner that I don't hardly trust nobody for people to be liking. I feel like I'm one of the most hated on than loved or liked on.Doesn’t mean no one likes you. All it takes is one person.
click to expandYeah I know but if you know me I mean truly know me I can be easily hated on in real life. I'm not someone that's easy to deal with and Im certainly not approachable at all. Having recently finding out me and our fucked up in the head president Donald trump is in the same category in just about everything I can shoot myself
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I think there are people that will like and appreciate the quiet type, even if the person is not approachable.
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Textosmoon
Its not really something in me that makes people like or dislike me its really something in them. Isnt it?Not necessarily.
Just as examples,
I find @walk_on_by funny, it doesn’t mean I don’t find anyone else funny, nor does it mean no one finds me funny.
I find @afternoondelights22 to be a quite fun. Doesn’t mean I lack that aspect in my life, nor does it mean I don’t find anyone else fun.
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But you can find these people funny and many others might not.
Some people find me intelligent and wise to ask advice from am i really or do some people find me the opposite?
Your idea of fun can be quite different from somebody else.
It is also the context you meet someone in.
Its like saying beauty is subjective.
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
To be honest I don't know. And if they do like me I wouldn't know the signs. I'm such a loner that I don't hardly trust nobody for people to be liking. I feel like I'm one of the most hated on than loved or liked on.Doesn’t mean no one likes you. All it takes is one person.
click to expandYeah I know but if you know me I mean truly know me I can be easily hated on in real life. I'm not someone that's easy to deal with and Im certainly not approachable at all. Having recently finding out me and our fucked up in the head president Donald trump is in the same category in just about everything I can shoot myself
I think there are people that will like and appreciate the quiet type, even if the person is not approachable.
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True dat. But let me ask you a stupid question if you will. Do I come off as Donald trump? You know, the attention seeking thing and a hateful and spiteful guy.
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
To be honest I don't know. And if they do like me I wouldn't know the signs. I'm such a loner that I don't hardly trust nobody for people to be liking. I feel like I'm one of the most hated on than loved or liked on.Doesn’t mean no one likes you. All it takes is one person.
click to expandYeah I know but if you know me I mean truly know me I can be easily hated on in real life. I'm not someone that's easy to deal with and Im certainly not approachable at all. Having recently finding out me and our fucked up in the head president Donald trump is in the same category in just about everything I can shoot myself
I think there are people that will like and appreciate the quiet type, even if the person is not approachable.
click to expandTrue dat. But let me ask you a stupid question if you will. Do I come off as Donald trump? You know, the attention seeking thing and a hateful and spiteful guy.
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No
Posted by Textosmoon
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Textosmoon
Its not really something in me that makes people like or dislike me its really something in them. Isnt it?Not necessarily.
Just as examples,
I find @walk_on_by funny, it doesn’t mean I don’t find anyone else funny, nor does it mean no one finds me funny.
I find @afternoondelights22 to be a quite fun. Doesn’t mean I lack that aspect in my life, nor does it mean I don’t find anyone else fun.
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But you can find these people funny and many others might not.
Some people find me intelligent and wise to ask advice from am i really or do some people find me the opposite?
Your idea of fun can be quite different from somebody else.
It is also the context you meet someone in.
Its like saying beauty is subjective.
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It doesn't need to be acknowledged by everybody. In fact, rather it's not possible to have traits that's liked by everybody, nor is it possible to have traits that's disliked by everybody.
I only disagree with the your point about equating someone liking a certain trait about you, to them missing it in them or their life. That's what my examples were about.
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
To be honest I don't know. And if they do like me I wouldn't know the signs. I'm such a loner that I don't hardly trust nobody for people to be liking. I feel like I'm one of the most hated on than loved or liked on.Doesn’t mean no one likes you. All it takes is one person.
click to expandYeah I know but if you know me I mean truly know me I can be easily hated on in real life. I'm not someone that's easy to deal with and Im certainly not approachable at all. Having recently finding out me and our fucked up in the head president Donald trump is in the same category in just about everything I can shoot myself
I think there are people that will like and appreciate the quiet type, even if the person is not approachable.
click to expandTrue dat. But let me ask you a stupid question if you will. Do I come off as Donald trump? You know, the attention seeking thing and a hateful and spiteful guy.
No
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Oh ok that's good to know🙂
I gotta say wizardzzz hate thread got more responses than your loving thread. I wonder what's up with that. It seem more dxpers get more hate than lovin
Dunno man, does anyone really like me these days. I used to be quite funny but I realised at some point I lost 90% of my funny and idfk how to get it back.
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
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Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
To be honest I don't know. And if they do like me I wouldn't know the signs. I'm such a loner that I don't hardly trust nobody for people to be liking. I feel like I'm one of the most hated on than loved or liked on.Doesn’t mean no one likes you. All it takes is one person.
click to expandYeah I know but if you know me I mean truly know me I can be easily hated on in real life. I'm not someone that's easy to deal with and Im certainly not approachable at all. Having recently finding out me and our fucked up in the head president Donald trump is in the same category in just about everything I can shoot myself
I think there are people that will like and appreciate the quiet type, even if the person is not approachable.
click to expandTrue dat. But let me ask you a stupid question if you will. Do I come off as Donald trump? You know, the attention seeking thing and a hateful and spiteful guy.
No
click to expandOh ok that's good to know
I gotta say wizardzzz hate thread got more responses than your loving thread. I wonder what's up with that. It seem more dxpers get more hate than lovin
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It's not easy for people to think positive of themselves. Sometimes it's far easier to go the opposite route.
Posted by Walk_on_by
Dunno man, does anyone really like me these days. I used to be quite funny but I realised at some point I lost 90% of my funny and idfk how to get it back.
I never said I didn't, but I'm sure you can find better real life examples to your question. All it really takes is one person.
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Textosmoon
Posted by victoria-sakura
Posted by Textosmoon
Its not really something in me that makes people like or dislike me its really something in them. Isnt it?Not necessarily.
Just as examples,
I find @walk_on_by funny, it doesn’t mean I don’t find anyone else funny, nor does it mean no one finds me funny.
I find @afternoondelights22 to be a quite fun. Doesn’t mean I lack that aspect in my life, nor does it mean I don’t find anyone else fun.
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But you can find these people funny and many others might not.
Some people find me intelligent and wise to ask advice from am i really or do some people find me the opposite?
Your idea of fun can be quite different from somebody else.
It is also the context you meet someone in.
Its like saying beauty is subjective.
click to expand
It doesn't need to be acknowledged by everybody. In fact, rather it's not possible to have traits that's liked by everybody, nor is it possible to have traits that's disliked by everybody.
I only disagree with the your point about equating someone liking a certain trait about you, to them missing it in them or their life. That's what my examples were about.
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I dont think they are lacking it in themselves. Im not sure i expressed myself really. In fact its probably something they do have because in order to appreciate something like a music genre of another you need to have it yourself.
So i would agree with you they may not lack it.
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Posted by Timone
Because I like cats. 😹Can’t go wrong with cats 🐱… mostly 🤭
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😽
Tbh, I have no clue. I'm not doing anything in particular to be liked, I don't say much, yet people approach me. Maybe my neutral body language and robotic expression attract people. Who knows.
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