12andus says having Venus or Mars in 11th house=Cheaters.

Well, damn! I have both!

I never heard this before.

How tight the conjunction? And what is the sign of your XI?

It just listed the houses as the reasoning. Then I looked at two other people both with 11th house Venus or Mars and it said same thing.

Mine is Virgo. Theirs were Leo and Scorpio.

So Venus and Mars Virgo operative together in XI. The rationale to why this placement signifying "a cheater" because Mars is malefic, hardship, etc, and cooperate together with Venus as a marriage bringer. They're all under control by Mercury because it's Virgo and so look at the Mercury, look at the house where Mercury is in. This placement will be play out in fine offspring IF the Mercury is fast, direct, angular, and near the angle.

It was based off house alone. When you click on the negative aspect it will give the specific placement reasoning. The other two people did not have mars-venus conjuction. I never heard of it either. Was kind of surprised.