Romance Synastry: How do you feel about those whose Sun falls in your 6th, 7th, & 8th house ?

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@justagirl - Is it like love/hate with Cancer suns?

& Could you see yourself possibly marrying a Gemini?
I love crabs even when they hurt me. Never really had the hate side of it, except maybe when stuff first happens but that's more hurt feelings than true hatred.

Marry a Gem- no not really, as an Aqua sun I know we should "click" but I just don't with gem Suns. Other placements, those are better. Rising, moon etc.. I love the playful banter. But stranger things have happened.

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I'm a sun Sag rising Scorpio making my

6- Aries

7- Taurus

8- Gemini



I am attracted to Taurus due to having 5 planets in Capricorn including my venus.

Attracted to gemini a lot because it's my Mars as well.

At this point I know what attracts me to all of those signs but I feel depending on your age and if you have any planets in the 9-12 houses then there could be more attraction to people who have their sun sign or another predominant planet in one of your later houses.

For instance,

My moon is my 12th house in Libra, so as I get older guys with Libra become more enticing since it is moving into my 8th or 9th eventually. But before the Libra transits that far which would take years, my progressed 8th is Cancer so my current/future attractions are more in line with 8th Cancer or Leo first.

And now, Gemini is less sexually/romantically transformative or interesting to me because of my experience thus far. Now i seek a deeper emotional connection than before. So now my progressed sign in that house (cancer) is leading me...

If a person chooses not to learn the lessons of the house transits then they may feel more defined by natal placements rather than progressed ones.

I have a lot of other info going into this, more opinions lol
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Interesting question! A sun in my 2nd is actually all about money, she provides for me, does the shopping for me...

A sun 8th was an intense sexual relat....

A sun 7th felt like my ideal wife...l really wanted her, she didnt want me unfort...

A sun 5 and 6th felt like a great romance, with passionate sex, but she wanted me to help her with her kids...just routine, not cool (6th house)

A sun in 4th felt too close to family...l was hesitant to start the relat but now come to think of it she was totally like my family and therefore there would have been struggle and bitchin...

Never met a 9th house sun ! Aint that weird! Anyway...
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Posted by Pearls
Do you notice a pattern?

In regards to love/romantic interests...

How do you feel about each individual that Sun falls in your 6th, 7th, and 8th house?
there's BILLIONS of people, and male heterosexuals that have energies that would fall into my 7th/8th house, and I feel nothing. lol

if we all felt that tingly feeling with each of the bilions out there, some married some not, some old senior citizens some young babies, that's awful.



so something is UP!! I wish we could figure out what is it about that special someone who connects to you individually and you alone.

like something from the gods or the universe which is meant for you.

maybe it's the juno and other asteroids after all. *shrug*



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not to mention, you may have even family members who have their energies in your 7th/8th.. yuck.

this is not just everyone on the planet.

so the special someone is special for a reason.
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I was recently in Vegas with a work associate. She's 52. put together and extremely in shape. she's a local, I'm visiting.

We worked together for 2 days. Just next to each other and doing things. there's this undeniable chemistry. she would look at me and mouth her words. touch me. compliment me.... etc I caught her looking at my crotch a couple times.

She's a grandmother and have been married since her 20's.

Every time we said bye, she would hug me close and kiss my face.



Anyway, when I was leaving. She became emotional and said all these great things about me and how she hoped i could stay and just work with her. we are at the airport and this time she kissed me on the neck. and just looked at me.

I left.

She e-mailed me thru the work e-mail a couple days later. Asking me how I was and ended the e-mail with, "I miss you already." the e-mail was sent at 10:20 PM her time.

I thought the attraction was very 1 sided and it's from a woman so much older than me. it was interesting.

Ok so naturally, i asked for her birth info over e-mail. said i was going to read her astrology.



She's a pisces riser. that puts my Saturn, Mars, Pluto and Jupiter all in her 8th house. LOL



she had no chance.

There was a FWB I had for around 8 years. She didn't even live in this country. She would fly in just to spend a week with me every year or so. She tells me till this day I'm the best she ever had. Also a pisces riser with my red stellium in her 8th house.





Oh my current fiancee has my sun stellium in her 8th house.



there's definite allure to house overlay synastry. What I can't figure out is why I'm repulsed by leo's because they are in my 8th house. i have never dated a girl with any leo influence in my life. slept with plenty though.
wow pisces rising too! you also attract those scorpio risings gals too! 😛
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good story, DJ! 😄

it must be hard to fight off those ladies.

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I draw people with their sun in my seventh house but i don't feel anything special unless other aspects support it.

My 8th house is like a magnet. I feel fascinated by them. The chemistry is animalistic. insane really.

My 6th house is like home. I feel comfortable, secure. They make me feel at ease.




I like the 5th, and the 7th too.



that makes sense on aspects that support it.
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Posted by lisabethur8
good story, DJ! 😄

it must be hard to fight off those ladies.

Posted by SourPie
I draw people with their sun in my seventh house but i don't feel anything special unless other aspects support it.

My 8th house is like a magnet. I feel fascinated by them. The chemistry is animalistic. insane really.

My 6th house is like home. I feel comfortable, secure. They make me feel at ease.




I like the 5th, and the 7th too.



that makes sense on aspects that support it.

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I agree, the 5th house is pretty warm and fuzzy.

How do they make you feel?
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good story, DJ! 😄

it must be hard to fight off those ladies.

Posted by SourPie
I draw people with their sun in my seventh house but i don't feel anything special unless other aspects support it.

My 8th house is like a magnet. I feel fascinated by them. The chemistry is animalistic. insane really.

My 6th house is like home. I feel comfortable, secure. They make me feel at ease.




I like the 5th, and the 7th too.



that makes sense on aspects that support it.


I agree, the 5th house is pretty warm and fuzzy.

How do they make you feel?

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it's the playful house, lol it is like you said. warm and fuzzy.

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good story, DJ! 😄

it must be hard to fight off those ladies.

Posted by SourPie
I draw people with their sun in my seventh house but i don't feel anything special unless other aspects support it.

My 8th house is like a magnet. I feel fascinated by them. The chemistry is animalistic. insane really.

My 6th house is like home. I feel comfortable, secure. They make me feel at ease.




I like the 5th, and the 7th too.



that makes sense on aspects that support it.


I agree, the 5th house is pretty warm and fuzzy.

How do they make you feel?




it's the playful house, lol it is like you said. warm and fuzzy.

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Though i think they're better as friends than lovers.

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Posted by SourPie
I draw people with their sun in my seventh house but i don't feel anything special unless other aspects support it.

My 8th house is like a magnet. I feel fascinated by them. The chemistry is animalistic. insane really.

My 6th house is like home. I feel comfortable, secure. They make me feel at ease.




I've experienced the exact same thing. I have Cancer in the 8th (rawr!)

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good story, DJ! 😄

it must be hard to fight off those ladies.

Posted by SourPie
I draw people with their sun in my seventh house but i don't feel anything special unless other aspects support it.

My 8th house is like a magnet. I feel fascinated by them. The chemistry is animalistic. insane really.

My 6th house is like home. I feel comfortable, secure. They make me feel at ease.




I like the 5th, and the 7th too.



that makes sense on aspects that support it.


I agree, the 5th house is pretty warm and fuzzy.

How do they make you feel?




it's the playful house, lol it is like you said. warm and fuzzy.

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Though i think they're better as friends than lovers.

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you don't marry your friend.

you marry your passionate lover, intense "other" 7th house of marriage.



but later, you realize, you are the bestest friend with your SO.

lol

it connects.



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my man has guy friends but who would he rather spend time with 24/7—

ME!!!!



even if he's doing his work or hobbies, he'd rather be next to me!!! 😄
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Posted by Pearls
Do you notice a pattern?

In regards to love/romantic interests...

How do you feel about each individual that Sun falls in your 6th, 7th, and 8th house?
6th house... IDK.. Sags are cute but romance wise, dunno

7th house.. I love them 😢 they seem to like me.. I WANT MARRIAGE!!

8th house... IDK any Aqua.. ones I know are girls.. i love them although i don't understand them that much! 🙂 Aquas are too dominating tho