a charaster issues

hello,

i am sun in aries, asc in leo, moon in capricorn, mars and venus in aquarius.



a fewme weks ago i posted a thread telling about judging me by my appearance. i was thinking i was not feminine enough for men or i was awkward.

but i think its everything about my personality. i have analyzed it recently.

i usually attract very delicate , subtle men/boys. my age or younger. boys that are not my type. they are more feminine, need 'mother' as a girlfriend.

i am nice and friendly, open. i have never had a problem with people besides people were cheating on me or i was being made fun of behind my back. i usually dont argue, just walk away and then show my true self and then they want to go back but i dont want them anymore.

its always been like this.

i like menly men. but i do not attract them.

usually they friendzone me.

yesterday i was even on a tinder date/ meeting and the guy finally patted me on my shoulder like a bro.

( after kissing on chicks). so i was devastated because i can not play a 'bitch'.

he was playing an asshole at the beginning but then after 1 hour he took off his 'asshole mask. so i thought that maybe he would like to have another meeting with me because he became friendly.

no.

i was completly wrong.

when he opened himself more and removed the 'mask' then he patted on my back and friendzoned me.

so i am wondering what i do wrong.

maybe i am too friendly.

maybe the 1st impression of me is different than the 2nd and the 3rd one.

maybe i am weird .

really.

i have my placements listed on my profile.

i have no idea what is wrong with me.

maybe i send mixed signals.

why?

why some other women can attract men they want?

i usually attract opposite type of men.

maybe im in my comfort zone and i need to be more assertive?

how to do that? maybe i need to get out of my character comfort zone and stop being so friendly?

but how can i be a bi*tch ? i dont know. i treat people how they treat me.

when they dont wanna see me or forget about me i cut the contact.

so i dont know.

what is you opinion? please share it 😉

yes but what if i am being myself all the time and always attract guys i dont like. very subtle, namby-pamby guys.

cool manly confident men are attracted to me- i look ok. other day someone told me i an very attractuve.

but then on the 2nd impression i loose. because of my 'kind and nice' character.

i dont know what to do to become a 'b***tch' or to be more comfortable?

Posted by joanne_p
yes but what if i am being myself all the time and always attract guys i dont like. very subtle, namby-pamby guys.

cool manly confident men are attracted to me- i look ok. other day someone told me i an very attractuve.

but then on the 2nd impression i loose. because of my 'kind and nice' character.

i dont know what to do to become a 'b***tch' or to be more comfortable?

You haven't found your identity yet. Look at my profile picture (some OPs call it an avi; same difference). I have been told I "intimidate" men. I HATED that word. In my culture (being Hispanic) there is a Spanish word = Pendeja (Pen-deh-ha!); I know you can pronounce this. Pendeja means = stupid; so there is NOT a "P" on my forehead. Men see this (either Spanish or Anglo Saxons). To me you also are viewed as this (read my description above). Men are looking for a woman that they can grab by the hair and drag to the cave...not me (neither are you). Please don't question yourself as to what to do to be a "B***tch). You don't want to go to that route. Why? Because you are beautiful. UGLY women who hare UGLY on the inside are UGLY on the outside and look like this:



Do you want to look like this? I wouldn't. The topic you posted about yourself has NOTHING to do with you. It has to do w/the men you are attracting. One of these days you are going to attract a GENTLEMAN....so far, you've attracted allot of frogs...and one day, you'll kiss one that will turn into a prince!

STAY OPTIMISTIC, HAPPY, and CONFIDENT with yourself! You are a child of God!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

i try to be optimistic and happy but sometimes i feel so lonely and want only to cry