Are You Attracted To Your Opposite Sign?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Virg916 on Thursday, February 7, 2013 and has 28 replies.

Understanding Attraction to Opposite Zodiac Signs

Many people are naturally drawn to their opposite zodiac signs due to complementary traits and balance. For example, Aries and Libra or Taurus and Scorpio often attract because they offer contrasting qualities that can create strong connections. Recognizing these patterns can help you understand relationship dynamics and personal attractions better.

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@Virg916
14 Years

Are you usually attracted to men and women of your opposite Sign?

Aries Libra
Taurus Scorpio
Gemini Sagittarius
Cancer Capricorn
Leo Aquarius
Virgo Pisces

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@ecent
14 Years

Im not attracted to them far as in relationships in a sexaul way but I see how we are alike more then different.but different kind of take over. Caps are good for me on a social level

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@RoseTheTaurus
14 Years500+ Posts

I've only been attracted to a Scorpio once. But he wasn't even on my radar until he fiercely and persistently pursued me...then my feelings developed. Never again.lol
I haven't experienced this instant, magnetic, fated connection Taurus' and Scorpios are supposed to feel for each other. Unless the famous magnetic connection is just feverish, sexual energy, now that I've experienced. But my gemini venus values a mental connection over physical, anyway. Other than that one time, I don't find myself attracted to Scorpios and I don't really attract Scorpios.

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@Vcharm
13 Years

Posted by Mr. Defense
HELL NO! Had one Pisces and I was done for life.

100% agree! Never felt more like a parent in my life, was exhausting with this "child". The dudes are cool though, I'm friends with two.

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@Virg916
14 Years

I really don't meet many Pisces to be quite honest. I don't have an answer. I've seen some pretty ones though.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I feel a natural draw to Cancers. Understand them, relaxed with them and comfortable being myself with them. I do see how they complement in that their strengths are my weakness and my strengths are their weakness. BUT, Cancers are too needy and clingy in a relationship. I've dated four in my life. I usually feel smothered by them. I want space, they want togetherness. And they are hard as hell to get rid of when the relationship is over. Now, as for BFFs - they make the bestest best friends! One of my two BFFs is a Cancer, by the way.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Oh, the Cancer BFF - she calls me on my crap and I am her voice of reason, among other things. Great friendship! Never any hard feelings since we understand each other so well.

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@lildol
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Cancer has been my longest (on/off) relationship. I think we compliment each other. It's a comfortable pairing. He is a bit more sensitive than me though, he let's things get to him too much I think. We do seem to have similar goals in life and I can really appreciate the fact he is money savvy and a saver - he's a big coupon clipper and always brags about how much money he's saved when he goes to the grocery store LOL We're both home bodies as well, similar tastes in TV shows and also both animal/nature lovers. He's also very smart, one of the best in his field and highly respected, quite the perfectionist when it comes to his job as well. He's not clingy per se, but he get's a little moody over me working a lot and not prioritizing him. He's gotten a little better about it over the years. I don't appreciate his closed mindedness though and sometimes it seems as though he's a little intimidated by my education (or jealous *shrugs*). If I were to guess, he would probably say I've also been his best relationship as well (he never had anything that exceeded a few months prior to me - we're going on 8 years). He thinks I over extend myself financially at times though (like when I invested in the racehorses - ok, so it ate up all my discretionary income, but there was potential for success and I learned a hell of a lot, like to not invest in racehorses LOL). He also thinks I'm a little too trustworthy and that my selflessness to those in need can be a detriment. He also would say that I'm stubborn, that's a given, and a touch argumentative maybe *looks innocent*. BUT, he adores my sensitive side when it comes to saving animals (especially babies) and my quirky child-like interest in nature in general.

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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by MoonBunny
nah...

Capricorns are ruled over by material wealth while a Cancer's business-savvyness usually has US ruling over material wealth. We're talented in this area, and we usually climb the corporate ladder well, but what do the Capricorns have to say for our ability over the things they put so much stock in? Cancers are "moody crybabies" and that's all?

Yeah...

That works two ways. Capricorn can be awesome parents/mothers and value family over it all. What do Cancers have to say about that? "too controlling" or "too insensitive." My Cancer aunt complained that my Cappy grandmother worked too much and didnt push my dad enough. Im thinking..*she had six of yall, provided yall with all necessities, and you all are good hearted/extremely decent people.* My fathers side of the family is very close-knit, thanks to my granny. My Cancer aunt is the only one that has something to say knowing full well its hard to be a single parent. She struggles a bit with just one kid...my grandma raised 6.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Virgos are attracted to me, every guy who has ever taken a second look at me, or hit on me has been Virgo .. in fact, all the females that were sexually attracted to me were also Virgos.

I, on the other hand, am more attracted to fire and air ... I truly like and tend to hang out with all Libra, Gemini and Aqua men within my group, for friendship, though I am attracted to their energy.

Fire men (all three), get my engines lubed and cranked up.

However, my life partner of over 30 years is my polar opposite, whom I love dearly and wouldn't trade all the world

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@lildol
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by capgirl69
No, but I think it's because my parents are Cancers.
I went on a few dates with one Cancer guy, he reminded me a lot of my dad, even had the same name as my dad.
A little weird.

The name thing would be REAL weird... there is no way I could date someone with either my dad, brother or sister's names (she has a gender neutral name).

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by Marrakesha
Not at all. You keep those batshit crazy Libras.

Lol your hatred is so vehement. I can't stand certain "energies" either, but i keep it to myself. It's just certain energies,and it's hard to pinpoint why - it just grates on me. No offense to them.

You're definitely an Aries, allright, with fire dominant in you or something, lacking air.

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@pretty713
16 Years

Yessss

I've been married twice.....Both Capricorn...lol

But both are very different.....my 1st hubbie had a lot of Earth dominating his chart and that didn't work for me

My 2nd has the Perfect blend of Earth, Fire and Water (which is exactly what I needed).