Aries Venus

I have a few questions for you guys.
What's a perfect relationship in your eyes?
What's pushes you away or pulls you in?

Open communication, healthy amounts of attention, making plans, challenges that bring us together/help us learn one another, space (but not too much), affection, good dick

Perfect - honesty, good communication, a completely devoted partner and puts me first, travel/adventure/fun, views me as an equal

Pushes me away - overly sensitive and whiny, sex-crazed and pushy with sex, game playing, immaturity, incompatible sense of humor, when he has a habit of cancelling plans and if he's purely spontaneous vs being a planner, if I don't get along with his family, overly jealous and possessive, tries to control me

A perfect relationship would be when none of the people involved feel the need to change or control the other person.

I just hate to receive advice when I didn't ask for it, that pulls me away.

What pulls me in are the simple things: having a laugh, physical contact, good conversations... And time.

For me the perfect relationship is when I'm allowed to be myself and he's vulnerable to be himself.
I love open honest communication. I'm not judging you but I want to know you. I need connection. Like immersion that doesn't seek permission but is out of respect.
I am repulsed by those unwilling to grow. I despise complaining as if you can't change a situation. I need passion. Run up on me and kiss me. Touch me like its the first time. Treat me like I'm the most amazing woman you've ever met and I'll adore you. I'm very nurturing and I find people addictive. I can be obsessive good or bad

Perfect relationship is about give & take including managing expectations. Also spiritual bonding should be strong enough & thoughts/feelings can be communicated via a touch or glance & not by words. When two people get together they should share good times & bad times. Of course friction is expected due to differences but an agreement should be worked out before hand. Flame of passion should burn throughout, as time flew by, the love gets stronger.

I believe what droves me away is the unrealistic expectations & immaturity of the other half expecting a fairy tale relationship. Also i think being true to yourself as much as possible is very important as people usually put on 2 personality (one for social & one for private). The two should be as consistent as possible.

My partner and I have to have intriguing/entertaining conversations and they have to be extremely seductive with a high sex drive. I have to want to be around you when or when we're not chilling. I don't want to ''have fun'' everyday, sometimes I want to chill and I want to be comfortable with doing that with my partner. I like to have and give space. I think giving space is important, seeing/talking to each other like everyday kills the relationship to me. Space also makes me miss you more and things will be even more exciting when we link back up again. The perfect relationship to me is a relationship that both parties are comfortable in and where both can be themselves, like hanging with your best friend or something like that.

What would drive me away is BOREDOM! If it's the same thing all the time, IT'S NOT GOING TO WORK. If we don't have much to anything in common, of course, it's not going to work. It will drive me away if my partner can't let loose and be goofy too. Tbh, it will pull me in if my partner is just as distant as me, I like a challenge.

I've been wanting to post this subject forever but never knew where to put it! a lot of my friends have this placement, male and female. 🙂

I love the detailed answers. my best friend is Aries w Venus Aries too and she even starts quarrels with her Taurus boyfriend because she likes to rile things up. she said it keeps things exciting when they start to get too dull. Taurus are very routine, so I guess that's her way of dealing with it. it's hilarious.

Sounds perfect