Cancer man got jealous and left . . . but texted 10 days later to breakup. A good sign?

He is 3rd Cancer Decan

Cancer-Pisces

Ruler & Subruler: Moon-Neptune

Cancer Sun

Venus in Cancer

Mars in Scorpio

Moon in Taurus

I am 2nd Pisces Decan

Ruler & Subruler: Neptune-Moon

Pisces-Cancer

Pisces Sun

Venus in Aries

Mars in Aquarius

Moon in Pisces

Virgo Ascendant Mercury in Pisces

So can you blame me for feeling like he's my soul mate?

Hi. My ex and I were doing great until it all blew up in one night. He picked me up for a movie on a night he was exhausted after working long hours 7 days. He was a little edgy and bothered and now I think it’s because of being tired as it’s not his character and we’ve never had a fight. But at the time it made me act out of character talking non stop nervously. Just what a tired guy likes, right? Wrong. He always insists on opening my door and I opened it myself. Little things like this were bothering him. So after the movie went out to a rock bar/club he said he heard about. Outside there were pictures of rock legends and I started naming them and he did too and I sensed something weird like he felt that I was trying to show him up. And when he first picked me up I had a gift of Himalayan pink salt I found in sale so I bought one for each of us.

He asked if it was for the bath and I said no it’s for cooking and from the Himalayas in , I think, Tibet. He looked annoyed and said “I know where they are and threw the salt in the back seat. Again, this ungracious behavior is out of character but I could sense that same thing like he thought that I think I’m better or smarter than him. This is not at all the case and that is why I love him. I view him as my intellectual equal if not smarter and he’s much more successful than me but either I was being a terrible snob or something or he was feeling insecure, or I don’t know what. So, I’m uncomfortable and talking too much.

He gave me money to buy beers and went outside to smoke. A guy across the bar raised his glass to me. I raised mine but with a straight face. The guy makes a funny face and I crack up laughing. I turn around and here’s my boyfriend with a “you’re busted” face. I don’t say a word about it. The night continues well. Holding hands while walking. Opening my door. Making love at my place. Talking after and he decides it’s the right time to tell me “my friends ask me why I don’t want to get married and I don’t know why but I don’t” like minutes after sex. Weird timing. But we’re still close and nice with each other. He got annoyed that my upstairs bathroom wasn’t clean and had to use the downstairs. I’m embarrassed about that. He left and I said “I love you”. He didn’t contacted or replied to me for 10 days. I was blew up his phone with texts that I love him, texts that tried to sound like we're cool. I apologized for hurting him. Insisted it was innocent. Asked for forgiveness and told him it wouldn’t happen again. Told him I love him because of how great he is above all others and someone who I grow by being around. No response but on day 6 I broke the pattern and this time texted because I needed some help related to home repair. I sent my question and photos of the project. He never answered. I went off on him in a text saying that I had been nice and he isn’t. That all I needed was a little help and I never ask and he’s the only one I looked up to that I would ever ask but what a mistake that was. I said that from now on I’m focusing on my mind, body and spirit and not being depressed over him. That my two businesses are my priorities and I would have loved his advice but he doesn’t want to share. I said I might even become vegetarian at last (something we both wanted to do) and get my bikini body back. And I attached a nice bikini photo from when I won a fitness competition. But that it didn’t matter because at 10 lbs heavier or not I love myself and me and God know that I am good, faithful, loyal and amazing. Then I wrote sayonara in Japanese which I have no idea why but it’s funny.

Then on day 10 I get a text telling me to stop, mind you I had stopped 4 days earlier, and that I should just forget him. That he didn't like how I was with the guy in the bar. It was so sad I could feel how hurt he was. It said that he "didn't want to talk about it. Goodbye."

So my questions are:

1) by cancer standards that's not even a real breakup is it? More like an announcement that he's hurt? Just needs time and eventual comfort and assurance I won't flirt, cheat, or leave?

2) do you think a couple weeks of space is enough and then get in touch with him. Like, there's hope?

I had texted back that I understtod how he felt and I will leave him in peace an hope he is well.

I need to make sure we resolve this.