Caricorn Man & Taurus Woman... Your thoughts please?

Met a handsome Capricorn Man about a month ago, I approached him at a bar because I needed someone to walk me to my car (was dodging an aggressive creep). He seemed confident & kind. He walked me out to my car and asked if I would go to a party with him, I said yes. Even despite my cautious nature, I felt absolutely comfortable with him. He looked at me like I fell out of the sky.

We had an amazing night, instant chemistry, talked about everything, he shared personal stories about himself, we really connected. He warned me, "be careful or you're going to end up with my last name. " Made plans for a date the next day.

Our dinner date was excellent, still a strong chemistry without alcohol lol, continued learning a lot about one another and he was very open about himself.

He stood me up for our next date, but called later and tried to see me, I declined. I invited him out a few days later, he declined. He called the next day and we got together, another great evening, more getting to know one another. He makes plans to see me the following day before I leave, but stands me up that day. I run into him and we have a long conversation, he apologized and told me that he was pushing me away because he was falling too fast, I was everything he could have asked for in a woman, the definition of a trophy wife, way out of his league, the total package, the realest person he's ever met, that I intimidate the crap out of him (I'm outgoing & own my own business) and to be patient with him while he processes everything.

Contact went way down and I've only seen him once since this conversation (he was great, hugged me tightly in public, said he missed me), that was 3 weeks ago. We still chat and everything seems well, he told me that he sees I'm a 100% geniune person and I was earning his trust. Sometimes he doesn't reply to messages or answer phone. He's not as playful as before, it's more respectful and proper. I hinted that Id like to see him in the next few weeks, he said maybe and explained all of the obligations he has this weekend, all family related. He has said before that he doesn't want to bring me around his family until he's absolutely certain there's a long term future....

Should I be concerned that he doesn't want to see me? Or am I over-thinking it? I don't mind being patient but don't care to be led on either (He's 27, I'm 31 and we have NOT slept together but the making out is crazy steamy)