needingscorpanswers
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Posted by needingscorpanswersSounds like a catch.
He completely freaked out and told me I was a liar and that I fucked some guy to spite him and the relationship. He then asked me if I was gonna kill myself before he left but he was pissed. He told me that we had no chance of fixing everything in the future and wouldn't even let me touch him. He texted me after he left and told me to never contact him again.


Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeYou've obviously never gone to the police with a rape. They do fuck all.
Yeah why aren't the police involved?
Your actions seem very awkward

Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeFor all of you wondering, I didn't get to the ER until 2 days after because I didn't know how to deal with it. I didn't think I would be believed. The doctor told me there was no point in a rape kit because they wouldn't find evidence. I didn't fe a police report then because I thought it was too late. After being advised by my therapist I've decided to a police report on Saturday when I am off work.
Luckily she went to hospital. But what's the follow up

Posted by Emhendo
I would have reacted the same way, well, not as bitch-assy, but you woulda got cut off because I don't have the patience to put a half ass story together.
Women sleep with men and regret it, call it rape all the time. I've been accused f false rape and false domestic assault.
Here all all the questions I wanna ask about this "rape".
*Where were you and who were you with?
*How did you find yourself in a situation, to be alone and I'm assuming, DRINKING with another man?
*I'ma ask again.. Why were you alone with him?
*Why didn't you call the police after figuring you've been raped?
You don't sound too traumatized and disgusted by this incident.
Wanna know how I know you're full of shit, instead of getting justice, you want ya man back and that should be the least of your worries ..Like just chill and heal. You running after him like you cheated and want him back.. And I think that's exactly what's going on.
If you aren't full of shit, then you don't need him anyway. He backed out on you and called you a liar. Fuck him, move on, get your justice.

Posted by WhorpioJust because one woman lied doesn't mean ALL women lie.Posted by Emhendo
I would have reacted the same way, well, not as bitch-assy, but you woulda got cut off because I don't have the patience to put a half ass story together.
Women sleep with men and regret it, call it rape all the time. I've been accused f false rape and false domestic assault.
Here all all the questions I wanna ask about this "rape".
*Where were you and who were you with?
*How did you find yourself in a situation, to be alone and I'm assuming, DRINKING with another man?
*I'ma ask again.. Why were you alone with him?
*Why didn't you call the police after figuring you've been raped?
You don't sound too traumatized and disgusted by this incident.
Wanna know how I know you're full of shit, instead of getting justice, you want ya man back and that should be the least of your worries ..Like just chill and heal. You running after him like you cheated and want him back.. And I think that's exactly what's going on.
If you aren't full of shit, then you don't need him anyway. He backed out on you and called you a liar. Fuck him, move on, get your justice.
I agree with this.
There was this whole conspiracy a couple years ago where this college girl wrote a whole magazine article about being raped at a fraternity house. After further investigation police found out she made the whole story up to get attention from a boy who friendzoned her....
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Posted by Emhendo
I'ma ask again.. Why were you alone with him?
Posted by needingscorpanswers
My ex broke up with me a few weeks ago due to him not being ready for commitment (we have been together for a year but best friends for 3 years) long story short (sorry to get detailed) but a date rape happened to me 2 weeks ago, a couple weeks after the breakup.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Whorpio
There was this whole conspiracy a couple years ago where this college girl wrote a whole magazine article about being raped at a fraternity house. After further investigation police found out she made the whole story up to get attention from a boy who friendzoned her....
Just because one woman lied doesn't mean ALL women lie.
This isn't some random boy she's crushing on. This was her boyfriend of a year (friends for 3yrs). You would think the person you were intimate with/trust/cared for would believe and support you. If you went to your boyfriend after being assaulted I bet you'd expect him to believe you.
Or would you be understanding if he called you a liar and told you to kill yourself...click to expand

Posted by WhorpioIm just glad some women can admit the bullshit other women be on.Posted by Emhendo
I would have reacted the same way, well, not as bitch-assy, but you woulda got cut off because I don't have the patience to put a half ass story together.
Women sleep with men and regret it, call it rape all the time. I've been accused f false rape and false domestic assault.
Here all all the questions I wanna ask about this "rape".
*Where were you and who were you with?
*How did you find yourself in a situation, to be alone and I'm assuming, DRINKING with another man?
*I'ma ask again.. Why were you alone with him?
*Why didn't you call the police after figuring you've been raped?
You don't sound too traumatized and disgusted by this incident.
Wanna know how I know you're full of shit, instead of getting justice, you want ya man back and that should be the least of your worries ..Like just chill and heal. You running after him like you cheated and want him back.. And I think that's exactly what's going on.
If you aren't full of shit, then you don't need him anyway. He backed out on you and called you a liar. Fuck him, move on, get your justice.
I agree with this.
There was this whole conspiracy a couple years ago where this college girl wrote a whole magazine article about being raped at a fraternity house. After further investigation police found out she made the whole story up to get attention from a boy who friendzoned her....
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Posted by WhorpioWe are not talking about Jody. We are talking about the Op. Interesting how quick you are to try and discredit her. Especially considering the increased risk in your line of work...you should be more empathetic than most.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Whorpio
There was this whole conspiracy a couple years ago where this college girl wrote a whole magazine article about being raped at a fraternity house. After further investigation police found out she made the whole story up to get attention from a boy who friendzoned her....
Just because one woman lied doesn't mean ALL women lie.
This isn't some random boy she's crushing on. This was her boyfriend of a year (friends for 3yrs). You would think the person you were intimate with/trust/cared for would believe and support you. If you went to your boyfriend after being assaulted I bet you'd expect him to believe you.
Or would you be understanding if he called you a liar and told you to kill yourself...
I would expect support from my boyfriend. Buuuut an ex is an ex. It’s none of their business what happens to me now, and I sure as hell wouldn’t tell them it happened unless I had ulterior motives.
There are tons of cases where women pretend to be depressed / threaten suicide just to keep a mans attention. Remember Jody Arias?click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Whorpio
I would expect support from my boyfriend. Buuuut an ex is an ex. It’s none of their business what happens to me now, and I sure as hell wouldn’t tell them it happened unless I had ulterior motives.
There are tons of cases where women pretend to be depressed / threaten suicide just to keep a mans attention. Remember Jody Arias?
We are not talking about Jody. We are talking about the Op. Interesting how quick you are to try and discredit her. Especially considering the increased risk in your line of work...you should be more empathetic than most.
For all we know she may be a troll. But until proven otherwise I see nothing out of the ordinary about her story. Plenty of women and men who suffer sexual assault stay quiet because of the way our society places the blame and shame on the victim. As evidence in this thread.
Up until 3 weeks ago he was her boyfriend. They are still maintaining a friendship. But even if he was a stranger off the street telling her she is 'a liar' and to 'kill herself' is incredibly heartless and disgusting.click to expand

Posted by WhorpioYes, it is part of human nature to be shitty. Your clients justification to the escort they are paying for sex behind their SO's back is not this girls story. How does that relate to the Op's topic? It doesn't.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Whorpio
I would expect support from my boyfriend. Buuuut an ex is an ex. It’s none of their business what happens to me now, and I sure as hell wouldn’t tell them it happened unless I had ulterior motives.
There are tons of cases where women pretend to be depressed / threaten suicide just to keep a mans attention. Remember Jody Arias?
We are not talking about Jody. We are talking about the Op. Interesting how quick you are to try and discredit her. Especially considering the increased risk in your line of work...you should be more empathetic than most.
For all we know she may be a troll. But until proven otherwise I see nothing out of the ordinary about her story. Plenty of women and men who suffer sexual assault stay quiet because of the way our society places the blame and shame on the victim. As evidence in this thread.
Up until 3 weeks ago he was her boyfriend. They are still maintaining a friendship. But even if he was a stranger off the street telling her she is 'a liar' and to 'kill herself' is incredibly heartless and disgusting.
Look, a fair share of my clients would come in and tell me about their manipulative girlfriends back home or unstable ex’s always tryna shake them up for money. What am I supposed to do when I hear all these stories??
And we know what we’re getting into when we walk the streets...Not trying to say rape is the victims fault, but in some cases there’s no way you “didn’t know” it was gonna happen.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Whorpio
Look, a fair share of my clients would come in and tell me about their manipulative girlfriends back home or unstable ex’s always tryna shake them up for money. What am I supposed to do when I hear all these stories??
And we know what we’re getting into when we walk the streets...Not trying to say rape is the victims fault, but in some cases there’s no way you “didn’t know” it was gonna happen.
Yes, it is part of human nature to be shitty. Your clients justification to the escort they are paying for sex behind their SO's back is not this girls story. How does that relate to the Op's topic? It doesn't.click to expand

Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Whorpio
Look, a fair share of my clients would come in and tell me about their manipulative girlfriends back home or unstable ex’s always tryna shake them up for money. What am I supposed to do when I hear all these stories??
And we know what we’re getting into when we walk the streets...Not trying to say rape is the victims fault, but in some cases there’s no way you “didn’t know” it was gonna happen.
So you believe your clients but not rape victims.click to expand

Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Whorpio
Only know one side of the story. And historically women have more reason teo lie than men. Just sayin.
So if you only know one side and you acknowledge this then why believe them if you don’t know the other side?
Historically speaking my fucking arse.click to expand

Posted by Aliensusedourbogrollacid dipped pineapple sounds like an amazing cocktail
You got raped. He doesn’t believe and he treated you like shit after you told him. Fuck him continually up the arse with an acid dipped pineapple.

Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by WhorpioPosted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Whorpio
Only know one side of the story. And historically women have more reason teo lie than men. Just sayin.
So if you only know one side and you acknowledge this then why believe them if you don’t know the other side?
Historically speaking my fucking arse.
There’s always a common denominator idk stop grilling me
And what’s the common denominator then?
No I won’t stop grilling you about your shitty attitude towards rape victims.click to expand

Posted by WhorpioPlease tell me you don’t believe the poor me bullshit from guys you meet. I’m sure some of them are telling the truth. But the one thing my ex admitted without actually admitting he cheated, was that he used us arguing as a way to get females to pity him.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Whorpio
I would expect support from my boyfriend. Buuuut an ex is an ex. It’s none of their business what happens to me now, and I sure as hell wouldn’t tell them it happened unless I had ulterior motives.
There are tons of cases where women pretend to be depressed / threaten suicide just to keep a mans attention. Remember Jody Arias?
We are not talking about Jody. We are talking about the Op. Interesting how quick you are to try and discredit her. Especially considering the increased risk in your line of work...you should be more empathetic than most.
For all we know she may be a troll. But until proven otherwise I see nothing out of the ordinary about her story. Plenty of women and men who suffer sexual assault stay quiet because of the way our society places the blame and shame on the victim. As evidence in this thread.
Up until 3 weeks ago he was her boyfriend. They are still maintaining a friendship. But even if he was a stranger off the street telling her she is 'a liar' and to 'kill herself' is incredibly heartless and disgusting.
Look, a fair share of my clients would come in and tell me about their manipulative girlfriends back home or unstable ex’s always tryna shake them up for money. What am I supposed to do when I hear all these stories??
And we know what we’re getting into when we walk the streets...Not trying to say rape is the victims fault, but in some cases there’s no way you “didn’t know” it was gonna happen.click to expand

Posted by WhorpioThen logically speaking why not ask for more info from the op instead of joining the bandwagon?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Whorpio
Look, a fair share of my clients would come in and tell me about their manipulative girlfriends back home or unstable ex’s always tryna shake them up for money. What am I supposed to do when I hear all these stories??
And we know what we’re getting into when we walk the streets...Not trying to say rape is the victims fault, but in some cases there’s no way you “didn’t know” it was gonna happen.
Yes, it is part of human nature to be shitty. Your clients justification to the escort they are paying for sex behind their SO's back is not this girls story. How does that relate to the Op's topic? It doesn't.
You told me I need to be sympathetic given my line of work. I’m telling you why logically speaking we need more infoclick to expand

Posted by WhorpioHuh?
historically women have more reason to lie than men.

Posted by needingscorpanswerswhat a best friend means for you? if you were best friends for 3 years, and he reacted like this.... maybe we should hear his story as well..... either you were not best friends or... I dont know, what is your definition of best friends? hooking up and go for a drink once in a while? if he was you best friend, he would know if you are lying or not.. its telling he didnt believe your story...
My ex broke up with me a few weeks ago due to him not being ready for commitment (we have been together for a year but best friends for 3 years) long story short (sorry to get detailed) but a date rape happened to me 2 weeks ago, a couple weeks after the breakup. I reported it to the hospital but never told him. When he came over to talk about everything and repair the friendship, he asked if I was okay because he knew I was depressed. I have always told him EVERYTHING so I thought he would understand if I told him. He completely freaked out and told me I was a liar and that I fucked some guy to spite him and the relationship. He then asked me if I was gonna kill myself before he left but he was pissed. He told me that we had no chance of fixing everything in the future and wouldn't even let me touch him. He texted me after he left and told me to never contact him again.
Here comes the confusing part. He texted me the next day saying sorry for trying to throw me out of his life and that that wasn't fair, but that he still didn't believe my story. He told me that he was mad at first but that to get over he slept with a bartender he worked with that night. He told me he didn't care and that he felt no sympathy for me and that he doesn't believe my story what so ever. However he acts like he's hurt and jealous. Is he acting like this because he really is done? Or is he hurt and just doesn't want to show it? Part of me wonders if he is bluffing about sleeping with that girl.
Any advice would be much appreciated!
Posted by Pandora101Posted by needingscorpanswerswhat a best friend means for you? if you were best friends for 3 years, and he reacted like this.... maybe we should hear his story as well..... either you were not best friends or... I dont know, what is your definition of best friends? hooking up and go for a drink once in a while? if he was you best friend, he would know if you are lying or not.. its telling he didnt believe your story...
My ex broke up with me a few weeks ago due to him not being ready for commitment (we have been together for a year but best friends for 3 years) long story short (sorry to get detailed) but a date rape happened to me 2 weeks ago, a couple weeks after the breakup. I reported it to the hospital but never told him. When he came over to talk about everything and repair the friendship, he asked if I was okay because he knew I was depressed. I have always told him EVERYTHING so I thought he would understand if I told him. He completely freaked out and told me I was a liar and that I fucked some guy to spite him and the relationship. He then asked me if I was gonna kill myself before he left but he was pissed. He told me that we had no chance of fixing everything in the future and wouldn't even let me touch him. He texted me after he left and told me to never contact him again.
Here comes the confusing part. He texted me the next day saying sorry for trying to throw me out of his life and that that wasn't fair, but that he still didn't believe my story. He told me that he was mad at first but that to get over he slept with a bartender he worked with that night. He told me he didn't care and that he felt no sympathy for me and that he doesn't believe my story what so ever. However he acts like he's hurt and jealous. Is he acting like this because he really is done? Or is he hurt and just doesn't want to show it? Part of me wonders if he is bluffing about sleeping with that girl.
Any advice would be much appreciated!
edit: if your best friend for 3 years (your own words) doesnt believe you, why we should believe your word? can you please give a reason? or was is only in your fantasy you are best friends?
I am really sorry, if this story is real, but I honestly dont believe it.... I am sorry to say, not convinced
I would never lie about something like this. My memory of what happened is broken but what I do remember is very blurry and it felt very forceful. I'll spare the graphic details but I also know 2 people besides myself were involved and I know for damn sure I would never consent to that.
If people don't believe me on here, that's fine. You have your opinions but I know what happened and the truth will come out.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeShe went to her ex looking for sympathy.Posted by ImpulsvIn this day and age? JfC with all the resources and information out there?
FIRST of all victims react differently than you assume you’d react .
Her story is actually the norm of how a young women would react to rape. Questioning self shame ect
Op you take care of yourself n kick this boy to the curb
Why don't girls or women ever take responsibility for anything
This chick couldn't even properly get a rape kit or go to the police
She might have been raped
But what now
I personally just don't give a fuck
I'm sorry but I'm tired of talkers
She got raped. Go see therapist
DXP ain't gonna do shit for you
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeAlso date rape means she was in a date after a week? Am I reading correctly?
Yeah why aren't the police involved?
Your actions seem very awkward

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Here comes the confusing part. He texted me the next day saying sorry for trying to throw me out of his life and that that wasn't fair, but that he still didn't believe my story. He told me that he was mad at first but that to get over he slept with a bartender he worked with that night. He told me he didn't care and that he felt no sympathy for me and that he doesn't believe my story what so ever. However he acts like he's hurt and jealous. Is he acting like this because he really is done? Or is he hurt and just doesn't want to show it? Part of me wonders if he is bluffing about sleeping with that girl.
Any advice would be much appreciated!