Please advice from all scorpios!

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Interpret it with Taurus, not scorpio. It's a typical taurus behaviour. Scorpio would be all or nothing.

hmm, ok, what does that mean? Im in a dark, tried speaking to him but seemed the more I opened up and tried being direct, he shut down completely. now its just him watching IG stories sometimes commenting w emoticon or sth completely out of place. And that is after 3 months of non stop contact and really, I mean, really great connection.

it really reminds me of my taurus gf. she was doing the same. out of contact and then comments etc out of sudden
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hmm, ok how did it end up? I gather shes still ur ex? 🙂

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Posted by GonS
Interpret it with Taurus, not scorpio. It's a typical taurus behaviour. Scorpio would be all or nothing.

IM SCORpio taurus moon

I don’t dissapear

What is the misunderstanding
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Well good for you, does it mean you deal w stuff openly and communicate issues or break up? He hasnt done neither.

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Posted by GonS
Interpret it with Taurus, not scorpio. It's a typical taurus behaviour. Scorpio would be all or nothing.

hmm, ok, what does that mean? Im in a dark, tried speaking to him but seemed the more I opened up and tried being direct, he shut down completely. now its just him watching IG stories sometimes commenting w emoticon or sth completely out of place. And that is after 3 months of non stop contact and really, I mean, really great connection.

it really reminds me of my taurus gf. she was doing the same. out of contact and then comments etc out of sudden

hmm, ok how did it end up? I gather shes still ur ex? 🙂

on and off relationships. but that's another story 🙂
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haha, I get it 🙂 well good luck to you 🙂

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That’s a long ass post lol

Sorryyyyyy! xd

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he looks at your Instagram right? so start cooking really lush creative meals and start posting pics of them on your Instagram.

that actually DOES work!!! LOL

Also what happened? I didn't see any long post -__-

Posted by Taniwha
he looks at your Instagram right? so start cooking really lush creative meals and start posting pics of them on your Instagram.

you're kidding right? 🙂

I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice ...Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about it while the person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what he did only annoys me more.

Posted by Teena
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Posted by Teena
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Ps. I get "not talking things out" if its not to change anything, but "hey, I liked you but I dont think itll work out between us" would be nice. We never had that, we were supposed to meet and then he just poofed. no explanation.

Posted by Rebecca1980

Posted by Teena
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x
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Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. I posted it before I read the story. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

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Posted by Taniwha
he looks at your Instagram right? so start cooking really lush creative meals and start posting pics of them on your Instagram.

that actually DOES work!!! LOL

Also what happened? I didn't see any long post -__-
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Posts over 3 letters is long for Evo!

He is very special! 😎

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I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Ps. I get "not talking things out" if its not to change anything, but "hey, I liked you but I dont think itll work out between us" would be nice. We never had that, we were supposed to meet and then he just poofed. no explanation.
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Ugh... I get it. It can be frustrating for you.

But I'm guilty of doing that too. I feel saying something like that is more rude than just ignoring the person.

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I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.
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He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?

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I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?
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Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.

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Posted by Teena
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?
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Hi, thank you!

Well of course I can.

I think this whooole thing grew out of proportion and the last thing I want is to dig deeper in it. Thats what grew us apart. I know I can, I just.. I dont know how really.. Am I suppose to contact him? or wait?

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Posted by Teena
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Ps. I get "not talking things out" if its not to change anything, but "hey, I liked you but I dont think itll work out between us" would be nice. We never had that, we were supposed to meet and then he just poofed. no explanation.

Ugh... I get it. It can be frustrating for you.

But I'm guilty of doing that too. I feel saying something like that is more rude than just ignoring the person.

ouch, that explains a lot, for me it wasn't clear at all, especially considering how we were and I know it was real. when Im done I dont comment and text out of a blue I say it as it is or just dont "poke", thank you for your insight.

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Wait for him to make an effort to talk to you coz you apparently already tried. If he doesn't n just keep liking posts n all... he's only being nice I guess. But tell me this. From when did he start liking the posts?? Long after you guys stopped talking?

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Posted by Teena
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?

Hi, thank you!

Well of course I can.

I think this whooole thing grew out of proportion and the last thing I want is to dig deeper in it. Thats what grew us apart. I know I can, I just.. I dont know how really.. Am I suppose to contact him? or wait?

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Send him a text which be like ‘past is forgotten. We have much fun stuff to talk about and I can’t wait...’

something so he knows - he isn’t going to be trapped into discussing past.

You know him better. Good luck!

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Posted by Teena
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?

Hi, thank you!

Well of course I can.

I think this whooole thing grew out of proportion and the last thing I want is to dig deeper in it. Thats what grew us apart. I know I can, I just.. I dont know how really.. Am I suppose to contact him? or wait?

Send him a text which be like ‘past is forgotten. We have much fun stuff to talk about and I can’t wait...’

something so he knows - he isn’t going to be trapped into discussing past.

You know him better. Good luck!
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Thank you.. will do and post the outcome..

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Posted by Teena
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?

Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.

Also.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..

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Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.

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I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Ps. I get "not talking things out" if its not to change anything, but "hey, I liked you but I dont think itll work out between us" would be nice. We never had that, we were supposed to meet and then he just poofed. no explanation.

Ugh... I get it. It can be frustrating for you.

But I'm guilty of doing that too. I feel saying something like that is more rude than just ignoring the person.

ouch, that explains a lot, for me it wasn't clear at all, especially considering how we were and I know it was real. when Im done I dont comment and text out of a blue I say it as it is or just dont "poke", thank you for your insight.

Wait for him to make an effort to talk to you coz you apparently already tried. If he doesn't n just keep liking posts n all... he's only being nice I guess. But tell me this. From when did he start liking the posts?? Long after you guys stopped talking?

no, hes liking posts all the time. twice he reacted to my story with private message, once saying hes also partying but without live on IG second time praising for sth silly/brave I did.

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Now I'm not sure anymore.Seems like it still does have potential tho. Just leave him a simple n casual message like "hey, how's it going" Also Christmas is a nice time. Wish him n get into a convo n assess his reaction. If he still seems distant after you sound all casual(DO NOT say you're sorry about past or don't use the word past whatsoever...for now),you know where you stand.

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I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?

Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.

Also.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..

Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.

Theres more he ignored... during this whole mess It was his bday, I left him a gift at a bar, the place he goes to twice a week, I told him I got it back when things were great so its for him and I wish him happy bday and he should take care (it was after he flaked the last time to meet), after couple days I asked "u didnt like ur gift"? he texted srsly? u left it? I thought u were kidding and just majorly pissed w me.. I said hey it was ur bday, he said hes super busy but ofc hed pick it up. he never did. that bar texted me saying they have to throw it out (after 3 wks..)
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Ummm sounds bad girl. Pretty bad!! You tried. I was like him when I was 15-16 I guess lol!

And if I were you, I don't think I'd try anymore.

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I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?

Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.

Also.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..

Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.

Theres more he ignored... during this whole mess It was his bday, I left him a gift at a bar, the place he goes to twice a week, I told him I got it back when things were great so its for him and I wish him happy bday and he should take care (it was after he flaked the last time to meet), after couple days I asked "u didnt like ur gift"? he texted srsly? u left it? I thought u were kidding and just majorly pissed w me.. I said hey it was ur bday, he said hes super busy but ofc hed pick it up. he never did. that bar texted me saying they have to throw it out (after 3 wks..)

it was a funny/silly thing "inside" joke. i told him what it was when asking if he didnt like it.
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So you think he actually didn't like it?

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I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?

Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.

Also.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..

Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.

Theres more he ignored... during this whole mess It was his bday, I left him a gift at a bar, the place he goes to twice a week, I told him I got it back when things were great so its for him and I wish him happy bday and he should take care (it was after he flaked the last time to meet), after couple days I asked "u didnt like ur gift"? he texted srsly? u left it? I thought u were kidding and just majorly pissed w me.. I said hey it was ur bday, he said hes super busy but ofc hed pick it up. he never did. that bar texted me saying they have to throw it out (after 3 wks..)

Ummm sounds bad girl. Pretty bad!! You tried. I was like him when I was 15-16 I guess lol!

And if I were you, I don't think I'd try anymore.
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I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

Thank you,

Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?

Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.

Also.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..

Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.

Theres more he ignored... during this whole mess It was his bday, I left him a gift at a bar, the place he goes to twice a week, I told him I got it back when things were great so its for him and I wish him happy bday and he should take care (it was after he flaked the last time to meet), after couple days I asked "u didnt like ur gift"? he texted srsly? u left it? I thought u were kidding and just majorly pissed w me.. I said hey it was ur bday, he said hes super busy but ofc hed pick it up. he never did. that bar texted me saying they have to throw it out (after 3 wks..)

it was a funny/silly thing "inside" joke. i told him what it was when asking if he didnt like it.

So you think he actually didn't like it?

he never picked it up.

Id think ok he doesnt give a shit, but its almost as if he made an effort not to pick it up.

it was sth connected to our romantic thing, so if he did pick it up I guess hed have to somehow address it, he didnt. Anyway I find it almost offensive. we live in different cities I made an effort to order it to be made and have it delivered there.. it actually breaks my heart he didnt even pick it up (there goes the "I wanna be nice story I guess"..)

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I'd be heartbroken too. Gifts are important. N you put an effort into it. It sure was offensive. But that's what he intended to do...seems like it. He didn't care for it nor you. That was then tho. When it's all still raw n fresh.I'm assuming he wasn't liking your pics n stories back when this happened.Now he is n he doesn't mind being nice maybe?

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I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?

That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.

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Yes,

1st time.

And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.

Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.

Thank you. x

Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.

He knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.

I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.

And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.

Can you do that?

Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.

Also.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..

Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.

Theres more he ignored... during this whole mess It was his bday, I left him a gift at a bar, the place he goes to twice a week, I told him I got it back when things were great so its for him and I wish him happy bday and he should take care (it was after he flaked the last time to meet), after couple days I asked "u didnt like ur gift"? he texted srsly? u left it? I thought u were kidding and just majorly pissed w me.. I said hey it was ur bday, he said hes super busy but ofc hed pick it up. he never did. that bar texted me saying they have to throw it out (after 3 wks..)

it was a funny/silly thing "inside" joke. i told him what it was when asking if he didnt like it.

So you think he actually didn't like it?

he never picked it up.

Id think ok he doesnt give a shit, but its almost as if he made an effort not to pick it up.

it was sth connected to our romantic thing, so if he did pick it up I guess hed have to somehow address it, he didnt. Anyway I find it almost offensive. we live in different cities I made an effort to order it to be made and have it delivered there.. it actually breaks my heart he didnt even pick it up (there goes the "I wanna be nice story I guess"..)

I'd be heartbroken too. Gifts are important. N you put an effort into it. It sure was offensive. But that's what he intended to do...seems like it. He didn't care for it nor you. That was then tho. When it's all still raw n fresh.I'm assuming he wasn't liking your pics n stories back when this happened.Now he is n he doesn't mind being nice maybe?

Thank you for your kind words.. he did actually like posts and even commented with some emoticons, that seems to be the only way we communicate since I "apologized" which was couple days after he said hed ofc pick up a gift.. 😢

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That's like letting you know he has time n he's still not gonna pick up the gifts 🤔

@sas0risa

when people treat you like they don't care, believe them

So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!

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scorpio sun taurus moon (male) went silent 1 month ago, only once a week liking a post or commenting on IG, does this mean over or temp withdrawal? We were amazing together, had some misunderstaning (snowball effect) and now he stopped all communication. should I move on? please help

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Hi, Im gemini.

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when people treat you like they don't care, believe them

I see ur point and I agree..

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So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!

yeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.

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So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!

yeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.
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Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!

This is mistreatment and disrespect!

Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.

He isn’t a good news.

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when people treat you like they don't care, believe them

I see ur point and I agree..
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i'm sorry, some people suck

better to ignore them and move on

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So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!

yeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.

Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!

This is mistreatment and disrespect!

Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.

He isn’t a good news.

thank you..yes, I wanted to meet up, I sent a gift and finally I admitted I overreacted, you're totally right.

I guess I just couldnt believe someone can go from this much affection to such disrespect. Thank you for stating it, it was disrespectful, I wouldnt do that to anyone, even if I wasnt romantically interested Id still pick up a gift and send a thank you note. I havent communicated w him since the gift thing really, only once did I reply to his comment, friendly but cold though. thanks again and merry christmas!
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So sorry. And try to have Merry Christmas yourself! ❤️

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he looks at your Instagram right? so start cooking really lush creative meals and start posting pics of them on your Instagram.

you're kidding right? 🙂

Idk, can't hurt to try. You gotta make an effort if you want him.
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hahah, thats so funny 🙂

I think I did make an effort though.. Im not really getting anything in return.. Its a shame, I feel were both missing out, but think Im done, anything more from me would just seem desperate I think.

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So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!

yeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.

Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!

This is mistreatment and disrespect!

Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.

He isn’t a good news.

thank you..yes, I wanted to meet up, I sent a gift and finally I admitted I overreacted, you're totally right.

I guess I just couldnt believe someone can go from this much affection to such disrespect. Thank you for stating it, it was disrespectful, I wouldnt do that to anyone, even if I wasnt romantically interested Id still pick up a gift and send a thank you note. I havent communicated w him since the gift thing really, only once did I reply to his comment, friendly but cold though. thanks again and merry christmas!
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I dunno about affection to disrespect...

But immense love to immense indifference within no time is very much possible...for me at least.

Sorry about all that. Seems like you still wanna try tho. Good luck.

Merry Christmas ❄️🎄🤗

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So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!

yeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.

Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!

This is mistreatment and disrespect!

Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.

He isn’t a good news.

thank you..yes, I wanted to meet up, I sent a gift and finally I admitted I overreacted, you're totally right.

I guess I just couldnt believe someone can go from this much affection to such disrespect. Thank you for stating it, it was disrespectful, I wouldnt do that to anyone, even if I wasnt romantically interested Id still pick up a gift and send a thank you note. I havent communicated w him since the gift thing really, only once did I reply to his comment, friendly but cold though. thanks again and merry christmas!

I dunno about affection to disrespect...

But immense love to immense indifference within no time is very much possible...for me at least.

Sorry about all that. Seems like you still wanna try tho. Good luck.

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Thank you dear, Merry Christmas to you.

No.. I dont wanna try w someone who can go from immense love to immense indifference. Thats just wayyyy to scary for me. How is that even possible, I dont comprehend really.

But yes.. Im am heartbroken and super confused.

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I think it's one of the self defence mechanism really. Brain is a wonderful thing. You can train it however you want lol. It's crazy but is possible, yes.

Aww I understand. I hope you accept it n feel better soon. But again, I'm not against the idea of you giving it a one last try either. Just to be sure n hold on to something while trying to move on if that makes sense.

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So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!

yeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.

Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!

This is mistreatment and disrespect!

Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.

He isn’t a good news.

thank you..yes, I wanted to meet up, I sent a gift and finally I admitted I overreacted, you're totally right.

I guess I just couldnt believe someone can go from this much affection to such disrespect. Thank you for stating it, it was disrespectful, I wouldnt do that to anyone, even if I wasnt romantically interested Id still pick up a gift and send a thank you note. I havent communicated w him since the gift thing really, only once did I reply to his comment, friendly but cold though. thanks again and merry christmas!

I dunno about affection to disrespect...

But immense love to immense indifference within no time is very much possible...for me at least.

Sorry about all that. Seems like you still wanna try tho. Good luck.

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Thank you dear, Merry Christmas to you.

No.. I dont wanna try w someone who can go from immense love to immense indifference. Thats just wayyyy to scary for me. How is that even possible, I dont comprehend really.

But yes.. Im am heartbroken and super confused.

I think it's one of the self defence mechanism really. Brain is a wonderful thing. You can train it however you want lol. It's crazy but is possible, yes.

Aww I understand. I hope you accept it n feel better soon. But again, I'm not against the idea of you giving it a one last try either. Just to be sure n hold on to something while trying to move on if that makes sense.

Self defence mechanism makes sense somehow.

Im much more emotional. cant really "tain my brain" lol

Theoretically.. if you gone from immense love to immense indifference, after the person admitted their wrongs and send signs they care.. what would "another" try be, I mean an effective one. Just let it be, move on, let him approach.. or approach him?

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Yeah I get it. Not many can do that. I sometimes feel it's not even very humane lol. Like I said, it comes with being able to accept things sooner. I can be very practical like that.

I'll be very honest here. When it turns to indifference, to me, person's efforts later wouldn't make much of a difference. But I also wanna add I can be pretty forgiving. I give a lot of chances before the indifference phase comes. N when it does come, it's over. I can be very nice to the person after all that tho.I can be nice coz I forgive... it's not even about forgiving anymore. I just don't care for them that way anymore but that wouldn't stop me from being nice.

It happened once before tho. Just once. N that's the first n the last time it happened. The person was very persistent n consistent with their efforts n now we are bffs...but that's a complete different scenario of course.