@TURNDOWNFORWHAT
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Finally have come to grips with this fact
Understanding the Appeal of Possessive Traits in Relationships
Possessive traits in partners can stem from a desire for closeness and commitment. They may also reflect deeper emotional needs or insecurity. Recognizing these traits helps in understanding relationship dynamics and personal preferences better.
Posted by arietteheart2
Kill you in your sleep...turn on. Bahaha.
You up for that kind of thing?
chick who might kill you in your sleep...has that happened? lol. or the fight thingy, has that happened.
Ive woken up to have guys staring at me. Ive had guys sit outside my house and watching me. Ive had guys show up to my job. On some level thats kinda sexy, but dudes like that always up the ante. It starts with sitting outside your house, next thing you know it, they are breaking into your house while youre not there and rumbling through your stuff; sniffing my panties.
I feel you on the opposite of indifference. i like men who dont beat around the bush. If ya want me, claim me. i dont like men who are wishy washy, ambivalent, passive aggressive, indifferent.
I will never fight for a guy. ever.
Posted by tiziani
We need more men like you to keep them occupied.
lmao
Posted by tiziani
We need more men like you to keep them occupied.
i know thats right
Posted by DMV
chick who might kill you in your sleep...has that happened? lol. or the fight thingy, has that happened.Ive woken up to have guys staring at me. Ive had guys sit outside my house and watching me. Ive had guys show up to my job. On some level thats kinda sexy, but dudes like that always up the ante. It starts with sitting outside your house, next thing you know it, they are breaking into your house while youre not there and rumbling through your stuff; sniffing my panties.
I feel you on the opposite of indifference. i like men who dont beat around the bush. If ya want me, claim me. i dont like men who are wishy washy, ambivalent, passive aggressive, indifferent.
I will never fight for a guy. ever.
Too busy to be panty sniffing Thats crazy
Posted by DMV
chick who might kill you in your sleep...has that happened? lol. or the fight thingy, has that happened.Ive woken up to have guys staring at me. Ive had guys sit outside my house and watching me. Ive had guys show up to my job. On some level thats kinda sexy, but dudes like that always up the ante. It starts with sitting outside your house, next thing you know it, they are breaking into your house while youre not there and rumbling through your stuff; sniffing my panties.
I feel you on the opposite of indifference. i like men who dont beat around the bush. If ya want me, claim me. i dont like men who are wishy washy, ambivalent, passive aggressive, indifferent.
I will never fight for a guy. ever.
Too busy to be panty sniffing Thats crazy
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allegedly
Posted by Denver34
You dont want that...you think you do, but once you have it...you feel like killing yourself. After 2 days without freedom, you go mad And the sex is always bad.
Youre probably right. I look for that temperament in women but I dont have enough of it in myself lol. Thing is thouhg knowing shes that attached puts me in the drivers seat.
Posted by arietteheart2
Kill you in your sleep...turn on. Bahaha.You up for that kind of thing?
The problem arises because I try to keep my possessive-ness(?) under wraps...so the only way to get that reaction from me is to bait me, which I will hate and resent you for. So, I'm possessive...yes BUT don't ever put me in a position where I lose so much control and show you that side.
Fucked up, huh?
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Whats your sun sign moon venus etc
I simply can not - too much air.
I will become irritable, scared, and if you go to far... paranoid... might accidentally taze you.
Posted by VenusAquarius
I simply can not - too much air.I will become irritable, scared, and if you go to far... paranoid... might accidentally taze you.
haha. VIA youre cool.Id try to respect that .pudding
must be your venus in scorp talking. this is not sag like behavior
Posted by DMV
must be your venus in scorp talking. this is not sag like behavior
It is .
Posted by CluelessCancer
Why am i getting ignored😢
you didnt add anything that needed a response
Hey Stranger!
Um, I think you're just bored. The moment you look at your phone and see 10 missed calls, 3 voice mails, and two text you're gonna bounce!
Posted by Sagtastic2
Hey Stranger!Um, I think you're just bored. The moment you look at your phone and see 10 missed calls, 3 voice mails, and two text you're gonna bounce!
yup and call her crazy to all your friends. It only works if its a mutual obsession.
Posted by DMV
chick who might kill you in your sleep...has that happened? lol. or the fight thingy, has that happened.Ive woken up to have guys staring at me. Ive had guys sit outside my house and watching me. Ive had guys show up to my job. On some level thats kinda sexy, but dudes like that always up the ante. It starts with sitting outside your house, next thing you know it, they are breaking into your house while youre not there and rumbling through your stuff; sniffing my panties.
I feel you on the opposite of indifference. i like men who dont beat around the bush. If ya want me, claim me. i dont like men who are wishy washy, ambivalent, passive aggressive, indifferent.
I will never fight for a guy. ever.
Agree. I would never fight for a guy. But I'd be turned on by a guy who fights for me. Lol.
Posted by Sagtastic2
Hey Stranger!Um, I think you're just bored. The moment you look at your phone and see 10 missed calls, 3 voice mails, and two text you're gonna bounce!
This that same sessy Sagtastic from b4? or some new one.
Im not bored at all but you might be right lmao
vesperlynd83,
ive thought on many occasions of guys wanting to frolic in the dirt over me. i dont know if i can handle that type of compliment.
thats like the biggest ego boost of them all.
Posted by Sagtastic2
Hey Stranger!Um, I think you're just bored. The moment you look at your phone and see 10 missed calls, 3 voice mails, and two text you're gonna bounce!
yup and call her crazy to all your friends. It only works if its a mutual obsession.
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Your bish callin again?
"dis bish crazy idk why she keep blowin my phone up"
Posted by Sagtastic2
Hey Stranger!Um, I think you're just bored. The moment you look at your phone and see 10 missed calls, 3 voice mails, and two text you're gonna bounce!
This that same sessy Sagtastic from b4? or some new one.
Im not bored at all but you might be right lmao
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Sho IS. Sagtastic1 reincarnated!
Posted by CluelessCancer
Why am i getting ignored😢you didnt add anything that needed a response
Sigh. You're such a hardheaded fool. I hate sags. Bye.
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I dont get why you're salty. You made a statement, I read it .and dassit.
Posted by Sagtastic2
Hey Stranger!Um, I think you're just bored. The moment you look at your phone and see 10 missed calls, 3 voice mails, and two text you're gonna bounce!
This that same sessy Sagtastic from b4? or some new one.
Im not bored at all but you might be right lmao
Sho IS. Sagtastic1 reincarnated!
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nice good to CU
Posted by Sagtastic2
Hey Stranger!Um, I think you're just bored. The moment you look at your phone and see 10 missed calls, 3 voice mails, and two text you're gonna bounce!
yup and call her crazy to all your friends. It only works if its a mutual obsession.
Your bish callin again?
"dis bish crazy idk why she keep blowin my phone up"Who has time for that? Oh ya VIRGOS. they'll call you until your ears bleed if you ignore them for even half a day.
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let that hate go lol
Posted by Catmilk677
What a fuck boy!
Ill put you in a sleeper hold shut it .
Posted by Catmilk677
You dont even know what a sleeper hold is, bitch! Put dwn ypur blackberry first lame.
lmao
i hear guys say this a lot. some say they even like rough girls or girls that'd beat them up. then when it actually happens, they cry.
"Why are you hurting me? You're really hurting me!". I can't help but say, "WTF!"
I have a friend too that keeps saying, "If you need someone to yell at, you know where to find me".
He called me while I was having PMS and he asked, "Are you okay? What's wrong?" I was really annoyed that time and told him, "WTF do you care?" He didn't talk to me for a week even after I apologized.
Posted by Denver34
You dont want that...you think you do, but once you have it...you feel like killing yourself. After 2 days without freedom, you go mad And the sex is always bad.Youre probably right. I look for that temperament in women but I dont have enough of it in myself lol. Thing is thouhg knowing shes that attached puts me in the drivers seat.
i get this. what it is is emotional control.
on point
Nothing but net.
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@TURNDOWNFORWHAT I totally get where you coming from man. I like that same kinda woman myself. Except i have Scorpio Moon. I think that's why i like Aries, Scorpio, & Cancer women. I think they have the traits me & you like. I would even like a woman with Scorpio or Aries placements too. Those signs are known for the possessive behavior & they show that you actually mean something to them. I suggest you find one of those signs
Except the killing in the sleep part LOL. If a bytch trys to kill me, they better hope i don't get they azz 1st. I like a lil possessive behavior, but not that obsessive, near death shit lol. I do like to know at all times, that i mean something to the lady. Especially if i'm treating her good. I think that's what you mean OP.
Posted by TURNDOWNFORWHAT
That I like possessive chicks. Not because I want to be possessed but because it's the opposite of indifferent. Also the chick that is willing to fight another chick for you or whatever. Turn on. The chick that might kill you in your sleep. Turn on.Maybe Im just getting old , maybe Im just accepting that element my needs.
thats that cancer moon
Posted by tiziani
We need more men like you to keep them occupied.
lmao
Posted by CluelessCancer
Why am i getting ignored😢you didnt add anything that needed a response
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lol cold
Posted by TURNDOWNFORWHAT
That I like possessive chicks. Not because I want to be possessed but because it's the opposite of indifferent. Also the chick that is willing to fight another chick for you or whatever. Turn on. The chick that might kill you in your sleep. Turn on.Maybe Im just getting old , maybe Im just accepting that element my needs.
thats that cancer moon
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might b
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That I like possessive chicks. Not because I want to be possessed but because it's the opposite of indifferent. Also the chick that is willing to fight another chick for you or whatever. Turn on. The chick that might kill you in your sleep. Turn on.
Maybe Im just getting old , maybe Im just accepting that element my needs.