Have you ever lead someone on because you wanted the attention?

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I did this only once when I was 14. School was ending and a boy I had liked all year had never fallen for me, so a friend told me to get his attention by making him jealous. So I did, and started a rumor that I liked another boy in our class. When we had our graduation parties, the boy who was the object of my rumors, followed me everywhere from party to party trying to get me alone. I was horrified because although he was really nice, I didn't have romantic feelings for him at all. Finally he cornered me and I had to the tell him the truth. I could see in his face how much he was hurt and I hated myself for playing with someone's affections that way. I never did it again. Lesson learned. It's a cruel thing to do to someone.
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@ladylibra21 if you don't mind, there's something I would like to add. I'm not gonna derail your thread so this is my final statement.

If we were to have a dxp meet up, I know for a natural fact there's one person here that I would lead on if she were to see me up close and personal in the flesh. So to keep the peace, I'm not calling this person name.
Damn lol but why would you do it?

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@ladylibra21 if you don't mind, there's something I would like to add. I'm not gonna derail your thread so this is my final statement.

If we were to have a dxp meet up, I know for a natural fact there's one person here that I would lead on if she were to see me up close and personal in the flesh. So to keep the peace, I'm not calling this person name.
Damn lol but why would you do it?


Its not what it would seem. I wouldn't do it intentionally because I don't like attention. I just have that aura. Women glued on to me. And even some of you women would be too. Y'all never seen my picture here. Believe me if I was to post a pic of me y'all be in for the shock of a lifetime. Even the men here would want to hook up with me.

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Lol I may be a Libra but it takes a lot more than looks to sway me
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Have you ever lead someone on because you wanted the attention?no.

I've ignored my internal voice "he is a man after all and wants perhaps more" sometimes when I found the talk or entertainment very energizing.

If men have the same fear as women that "a player waist their time", then I've been a sinner for years. But my impression is that they are not under time pressure.

sag mars venus in the 1st house
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I feel like someone might be doing this to me
What's his Mars and Venus



Mars Scorpio and Venus in Sag



Venus in Sag leads everyone on. Damn, his placement combo is something i attract a lot

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Damn I wonder if I have been doing it with out knowin I also have Sag Venus! His magnetism is so crazy even when I try to ignore him he makes himself known even if it is subtle sigh. I just want to grab him
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Posted by strawberrykush
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I feel like someone might be doing this to me
What's his Mars and Venus



Mars Scorpio and Venus in Sag



Venus in Sag leads everyone on. Damn, his placement combo is something i attract a lot



Damn I wonder if I have been doing it with out knowin I also have Sag Venus! His magnetism is so crazy even when I try to ignore him he makes himself known even if it is subtle sigh. I just want to grab him



Waab! You're getting a dose of your own medicine. I have tried the best I can to avoid this placement. Lol.

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Lmao do they pursue you first?
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No , I have no time for that . People lead themselves on and then try to make me feel guilty about it . It doesn't work .

What happens sometimes is that I initially genuinely like someone but if they do something that kills my interest for them I distance myself from them or ghost on them . They feel like I have played with their feelings - which is not true , I simply lose interest - but playing with other peoples feelings just because - no I'd never do that.

Virgo Venus & Gemini Mars