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Your 11 th house, what's in it? How you feel about it?
i have saturn it's good and bad. friends are a funny thing with me but the ones i have are amazing. and saturn in the 11th is great for setting and reaching goals.
Mercury in the 11th house Leo
I hit post on accident..
I like it. The only downside is it can cause problems with attraction. Either I'm not into someone who's really attracted to me on a mercurial level or I'm attracted to someone too mercury dominant ..which can cross my venus dominant. Mercury is 2nd dominant for me. Venus first always.. Sigh
Venus, Sun, Chiron and Lilith all in 11th house. All Aries.
I feel it conflicts with my moon in 6th house.
My sun is in the 11th house in Capricorn.
I can meet many people but friends are just a few and true.
I have mars conjunct mercury in there.
I'm not sure, but I care a lot about the environment and long to do more charitable stuff. I always want to be part of a group, motivational speech I find attractive and I like watching politicians argue.
both those and my ascendant are fortunate for me as I'm otherwise reclusive and introverted. it also trines my moon (if a 9° orb) so they're in harmony.
also, I used to work in sales and was really good at my job, despite the fact that it completely contradicted my character. I'm really glad I moved away from that.
I have Venus and Mars conjunct there. Both are in Cap.
Mars in Cancer for the 11th. I have a handful of best friends that I've had for over 20 years. Even though all our paths have gone different ways, we keep in touch and play catch up when we can. Social life often revolves around food, picnics, very homey gatherings.
Girls night isn't clubbing. It's a couple of bottles of wine, picnic food, and silly board games, where my Mars gets competitive.
i have Merc/Mars/Sun in the 11th in Leo
and Leo rules my 12th house.
So- that's probley not good..
But- i have good set of friends tho- Small, but good. I'm still close with my besties from when i was 6-7..
I guess to extend on this- I don't make friends easily- it's very difficult- but when i do, it's always been something that is easily maintained and always in existence- i've never had much of a revolving door with my friendships,
It's actually really rare to have someone leave my inner circle, and if it does it's because either them or myself- fked up bad :/
Posted by PV&Jellay
11th house pisces. Sun in 11th. Friendship is tricky. I tend to attract the wrong type.
Sigh...
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
What is the significance of the 11th house?
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
What is the significance of the 11th house?I already Googled, but I wanted a personal answer.
People sometimes have different interpretations based on what sources they obtained their knowledge from.
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Ahh I see, post your chart or something, it can mean something different to you depending on what you have there and what is the theme in your chart. Too hard to cover everything otherwise.
Aquarius is on my 11th house cusp but
my Pisces moon resides there, as well.
I love the placement but Im a little fearful
of it too... I try not to overfeed it.
😛
I have no planets in my 11th house. Only Libra.
If it is empty then i would assume it means the issues of the 11th house are not as important to you as issues of other houses. This doesnt mean though, that 11th house issues arent important at all, just others may take precedent. But in general, 11th house rules friendships, clubs, organization, large groups of people and how you reach your goals.
I would use this as a blueprint:
Libra/Venus Influence: You’re likely to surround yourself with appealing, popular folks who love to socialize and include you in their gatherings, maybe acting as a matchmaker. You may be among the blessed folk whose life partner is their best friend, and even if the romance ends, the friendship continues. Venus aspects and the 7th house in your chart may alter this picture, and if you’re single over any length of time, your friends are one way you fill your need for love, warmth, and caring. A mistake people with this placement make is allowing a new love interest to monopolize their lives, forgetting how crucial a resource friendship can be. Or, when they’re in a relationship, they only socialize with their partner’s group of friends, finding themselves out of the loop if the relationship ends.
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Look at where venus is in your chart, what aspects it, this will influence the themes of your 11th house. Fir example, if you have a venus/saturn influence the previous quote may not be true, perhaps you prefer security in your associations, maybe to surround yourself with older people instead. that is why the chart as a whole matters.
Posted by PV&Jellay
11th house pisces. Sun in 11th. Friendship is tricky. I tend to attract the wrong type.Sigh...
I take it you're 11th house as well?
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11th house sun and Venus.
Posted by PV&Jellay
11th house pisces. Sun in 11th. Friendship is tricky. I tend to attract the wrong type.Sigh...
I take it you're 11th house as well?
11th house sun and Venus.
Venus too. Ouch. Do you always fall for the wrong type?
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Yes, about 50% of the time. It's a constant learning experience.
Uranus in the 11th for me!
Posted by Gennie
Mars in Cancer for the 11th. I have a handful of best friends that I've had for over 20 years. Even though all our paths have gone different ways, we keep in touch and play catch up when we can. Social life often revolves around food, picnics, very homey gatherings.Girls night isn't clubbing. It's a couple of bottles of wine, picnic food, and silly board games, where my Mars gets competitive.
it sounds familiar, mine is in cancer too & we have craft nights and pamper nights and stuff. I like board games, complex ones that get me thinking and they're more of a challenge when under the influence lol.
Posted by Season
According to Placidus, my 11th house is Aqua and all I have in there is Chiron. My friends don't cause me great deals of pain, but I've had my share of betrayals in life. That's it. What's your 11th house like? How do you feel about it?Question.. What do you mean by according to Placidus? As in where the 11th house starts? Like the degree in what sign you mean?
My 11th House starts in Virgo, but it's an empty House, no planets in the 11th.
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I mean that with a Taurus asc., my 11th house should be Pisces. Not Aqua. If one used an equal house system that is.
I have no planets in my 11th house. Only Libra.
If it is empty then i would assume it means the issues of the 11th house are not as important to you as issues of other houses. This doesnt mean though, that 11th house issues arent important at all, just others may take precedent. But in general, 11th house rules friendships, clubs, organization, large groups of people and how you reach your goals.
I would use this as a blueprint:
Libra/Venus Influence: You’re likely to surround yourself with appealing, popular folks who love to socialize and include you in their gatherings, maybe acting as a matchmaker. You may be among the blessed folk whose life partner is their best friend, and even if the romance ends, the friendship continues. Venus aspects and the 7th house in your chart may alter this picture, and if you’re single over any length of time, your friends are one way you fill your need for love, warmth, and caring. A mistake people with this placement make is allowing a new love interest to monopolize their lives, forgetting how crucial a resource friendship can be. Or, when they’re in a relationship, they only socialize with their partner’s group of friends, finding themselves out of the loop if the relationship ends.
Look at where venus is in your chart, what aspects it, this will influence the themes of your 11th house. Fir example, if you have a venus/saturn influence the previous quote may not be true, perhaps you prefer security in your associations, maybe to surround yourself with older people instead. that is why the chart as a whole matters.
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how does it relate to how you reach your goals?
i could google it but you'll probably explain it better.
Posted by TrueFantasy
I was watching a vid on YouTube about astrology and a guy said if you want to look for indicators of success, look in the 11th house.
Ouch. And I've got Chiron there.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
What is the significance of the 11th house?
It's the house of friendship, or as I like to call it, the House of Aquarius. Whatever sign is in here, colors your perception about the meaning of friendship, how you make and interact friends, social circles, large scale charity, and finally, what your hopes and dreams are for your own ideal life.
@xXxAliciaxXx : You’re the one who helps everyone to get along with your friends, who organizes truces and plays the mediator. You have many friends, and you try to give them equal time. You can even marry a friend. You can vacillate with your dreams, unsure of what you want.
@TrueFantasy an empty 11th means that other houses take precedence. Those with empty 11th houses tend to make small groups of friends, rather than have a large social circle.
@PV&Jellay
Let me give you an example.
I recently had to cut off both a Scorpio and a Gemini whom I thought were my friends. I shared a lot with both of them (I'm the no holds barred sort if I feel I can trust you). Unfortunately things took a very strange twist, and I found out later that the Scorp and Gemini had had this little game going on to mess with me. I'm not sure of the Scorpio realised this (or maybe she just didn't care) but the Gemini was using her to mindfuck me (i.e. live rent free in my head).
There were actually some massive red flags that I chose to ignore earlier on, and I blame my 11th house placements for my delusional perception of friendship, more specifically my Sun and Chiron in 11th house.
If you need to know more, I will PM you the full story.
how does it relate to how you reach your goals?
i could google it but you'll probably explain it better.
Hi there, pretty busy here so I'll get back in a day or so.
My moon is conjunct my Chiron there.
I love having my moon in the 11th. I'm very friends oriented. Friends are my number one priority. My "group" is my number one priority (which can be work or any association really- I've been and am in plenty).
Moon Conjunct Chiron basically means you are forever emotionally hungry (never being fulfilled) in that area of life (11th- friendship and association/groups) and that's valid for me. I am always the black sheep and always hungry for emotional fulfillment but it never comes. However I have learned to make due with what I have. I like my placements and accept them. Moon conjunct Chiron is very difficult. It is very trying. But once you overcome the negative aspects, you grow.
Moon in the 11th is a blessing. Especially me having a Virgo moon. I think it helps me quite a bit. I love it. Not so much the Virgo moon (eh) versus having it in thevery 11th (yay)
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According to Placidus, my 11th house is Aqua and all I have in there is Chiron. My friends don't cause me great deals of pain, but I've had my share of betrayals in life. That's it. What's your 11th house like? How do you feel about it?