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Posted by BrightLights
My heart broke but not because of guys.
It was because love has ended, once again.

Not to a point of no return though🙂




Me and this Pisces had some sort of magical connection. It was so strong that we could communicate with out speaking.Once I found out that he got some chick pregnant, and then shipped her back to the Dominican Republic; needless to say, my mind was not right after that. Prayer and laughter, got me through...I almost had a nervous break down because of it,so that is why I stated almost to the point of no return.
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Posted by AquaMermaid
Spent 5 years with him,invested 200% emotionally,physically and mentally. Did my best to put up with his procrastination.We came close to engagement twice and he broke up finally to travel abroad and find a career. Left me drained out and questioning everything. I had hard time picking myself up and moving on ( cancer moon).



I'm so sorry to hear about that. Relationships sure teach hard lessons.

I was with mine for almost 3 years. Were engaged, expecting a child & found out he was already married in his country. He also had 2 kids. Here is a man I trusted. A man who talked me into having a child. A man who was excited to be a parent for the "1st time". It was a happy time for me to be sharing that with him & I was shattered when I learned the truth. It was hard to pick myself up after that too. I developed severe trust issues, which I still struggle with to this day.

Such is life.
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Posted by AquaMermaid
Wow! That's just so wrong!! That is so cruel and deceptive.I know about the trust issues. I had hard time trusting again as well. There is a Libran I met. It was work related.He's in his late 30s and started hitting on me. He never talked about his family . I started avoiding him and then he confessed that he has a wife( Virgo -Libra cusp)and two boys but he's attracted to me. I told him that my fianc?e( Scorpio)has a TEMPER and will kick his ass for flirting with me. He retreated back immediately. I can't stand those married men acting so desperate and ruining lives.



It's cruel indeed. It didn't end there, though. He told me that he didn't feel like he was married because it was an arranged marriage. Very common in his country. He also said that he never felt a connection with his Cancer wife from the beginning. She cried all the time, etc, so he "escaped" by coming to my country on a business permit. He never went back home after that. I ended the relationship regardless.

A year later, we became friends again & remained friends for years. We dated briefly last year on condition that he resolved his marital issues. He went back home to try to end his marriage but the wife & the family refused. They told him to take me as a 2nd wife. LMAO. I refused. So they gave him a choice to go stay with family & work in Dubai or have his wife stay with him here. He refused the offer to Dubai because he still wanted to be near me. So they boxed his wife & shipped her to him.

Last time I saw or spoke to him was in August & he was very depressed. He said she was annoying him because she kept asking him to teach her how to love him the way he likes etc since she sensed that he wasn't happy in their relationship. He also wanted me to meet his kids but I didn't want to because it's not right. What if they told their mother, etc. So I decided to end any kind of contact with him there, to give them a chance to work on their issues & also for me to properly move on. Hopefully to find love too 😛 I'm doing so much better but still not dating since my last two relationships after him.

Btw, congratulations on your engagement & overcoming heartache 🙂 Scorps aren't bad. I dated one too recently but it didn't work out.

All the best 🙂
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For me, it's Scorpio. I saw her recently on a LGBT website I just joined (Downelink) in the recent search files; she was on the first page...I deleted my account 5 mins later.

A wave of emotions and unanswered questions went thru my head; considering she and I are both Cancer moons; I wonder at times if it broke her own heart to break my own..._—_—

I decided to rejoin the site because my initial reason had nothing to do with her and it shouldn't at all.
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Posted by AquaMermaid
* it's good you ended with him. He needs to figure out his life. I hope you find the right man who makes you happy.Thanks for good wishes. My Scorp and I have been together for almost three years and it's only getting better 🙂



Awww, that's wonderful. You sure deserve the happiness after the disaster lol. I'm good but still struggling with my inner issues & not ready for love. I'm sure you understand that as a fellow water moon sign. My moon is in scorpio, btw. Once my emotions get involved, it takes forever to untangle the attachments.

And thanks for your kind words. Be happy forever 🙂
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Posted by FrostAndBite
I don't get being proud for breaking hearts.

I think I probably (relationship wise) only broke one heart. It was close to ten years ago and I still feel bad about it if I think about it too much.

Why would anyone want to hurt someone so bad they leave a mark that could potentially harm all the people that come after you?



I think for people who intentionally break hearts, it gives them a rush. Better yet, a sense of power to have that much sway over someone's emotions/life that it will still impact them even after the damage is done. Some heartbreakers are just sadists and that's that.

I do think for many heartbreakers though,they have experienced heartbreak; directly or indirectly. So, they play it like I'm gonna be the one to do the heartbreaking, no one will ever destroy me like that.

I've had moments where I wonder what it would be like to break someone's heart...but, I don't know if I could live with myself afterwards. _—_??
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Posted by basari
Why are people always broken by pisces? I thought they are mostly the heartbroken. At least I am. Maybe hurting others before they hurt them is a way of preventing for pisces?



i think its because of the fact that pisces tend to lead others on and sort of dont have the strength to let others know from the beginning if its serious or not, instead pisces tend to just go with it.. and rather than tell the person upfront, they just vanish.... in my case, i did the hurting before i got hurt, plus the fact that this particular pisces was a complete mess .. but i think it has more to do with the fact the pisces can completely cut off their emotions for such small things.
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Pisces are the chameleons of the zodiac, therefore, they transform themselves into what ever the person of their desire at the time wants..And once that person fall in love with them, Pisces reveal their true nature, and the other person feels jolted.. The most heart wrenching part is when Pisces get tired of putting on the act, and become wishy washy...That is when the heart breaking secrets come out..


Posted by basari
Why are people always broken by pisces? I thought they are mostly the heartbroken. At least I am. Maybe hurting others before they hurt them is a way of preventing for pisces?




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Posted by bkbella86
Pisces

Those shape shifters...tuh



i tell ya.... one minute they are with you, then the next, they are totally against you.. like "what? "didnt you just say this the other day?"..... i ve been around a lot of pisces to just take everything they say with a grain of salt.... dont get me wrong, i like them, they are funny.. but i wouldnt trust one to handle an important task.
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Posted by truecap
Heartbreak? What's that? I don't have a heart.

(cap sun and moon)

Haha! Just kidding.

First was Leo, but I was just a young pup and didn't know what real love was.
Of course the gem's betrayal hurt, but the pain was more about friendship and commitment.

I think the aqua could do me in, though, if I got really honest with myself.












Wow...So cold..I caught chills just from reading this...LOL!!JK>
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Heartbreak? What's that? I don't have a heart.

(cap sun and moon)

Haha! Just kidding.

First was Leo, but I was just a young pup and didn't know what real love was.
Of course the gem's betrayal hurt, but the pain was more about friendship and commitment.

I think the aqua could do me in, though, if I got really honest with myself.












Wow...So cold..I caught chills just from reading this...LOL!!JK>
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I'm glad you picked up on the humor part of it. 🙂

The leo devastated me. But I worded it like that because what I thought was true love, really wasn't. Figured that out after I grew up some.

The gem? Well, we had a lot of problems for years. His betrayal affected me just the same. The betrayal against the commitment we made really did a number on me. He was the person I trusted most in the whole world, the one I relied on and he just stomped that trust/loyalty/commitment in the ground. Scorpio venus here doesn't deal with betrayal very well. I wasn't really 'in love' with him anymore, but I did love him as you would someone you had such a long history with. I grieved more for the loss of the friendship than the loss of a love. I hope that makes sense.

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Heartbreak? What's that? I don't have a heart.

(cap sun and moon)

Haha! Just kidding.

First was Leo, but I was just a young pup and didn't know what real love was.
Of course the gem's betrayal hurt, but the pain was more about friendship and commitment.

I think the aqua could do me in, though, if I got really honest with myself.












Wow...So cold..I caught chills just from reading this...LOL!!JK>



I'm glad you picked up on the humor part of it. 🙂

The leo devastated me. But I worded it like that because what I thought was true love, really wasn't. Figured that out after I grew up some.

The gem? Well, we had a lot of problems for years. His betrayal affected me just the same. The betrayal against the commitment we made really did a number on me. He was the person I trusted most in the whole world, the one I relied on and he just stomped that trust/loyalty/commitment in the ground. Scorpio venus here doesn't deal with betrayal very well. I wasn't really 'in love' with him anymore, but I did love him as you would someone you had such a long history with. I grieved more for the loss of the friendship than the loss of a love. I hope that makes sense.

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I believe that it is our venus in Scorpio, that can make us a glutton for punishment...It takes me forever to get over a broken heart...I hate it...Oh well...Shrugs shoulders..
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Aquarius. Although he'd say I broke his. Bleh



Would you ever date another one?

I don't get this combo, thought it was supposed to be smooth & beautiful. At least that's how it feels like most of the time.



Nah. I think I'm worn out on air energy. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't date another air sign again.

I don't think a relationship between a libra and an aqua could ever be smooth and beautiful. Maybe beautiful and turbulent like a tornado. I don't think there is enough stability for an enduring relationship. When one person has had enough of the others shenanigans, the go-to response is to take flight. Their partner is like, ok, see ya. There isn't anyone to fight for the relationship. Each person harbors feelings for the other, but wishing to respect the others freedom of choice, they move on.

I think we make great friends though.
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Posted by basari
Why are people always broken by pisces? I thought they are mostly the heartbroken. At least I am. Maybe hurting others before they hurt them is a way of preventing for pisces?



Can't say I relate to that at all tbh.
It's not in me to hurt someone on purpose.

However the partners I've been with, although so far they've always broke my heart first.. They tended to get hurt when I'd close myself off as a result of what they did to me.

Because of how affectionate and open I am, people tend to think I'll always be like that regardless of what bullshit they pull. Nope.

I'm sure that's what happened with AL4813 and his Aries moon fish too.
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@LadyOfRebirth- its always an honor to see you answer.. i like your clear honest, concise and straight to the point commentary.. you are sort of right.
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