How do I get my Libra man back—?

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q_tee_pie24
@q_tee_pie24
8 Years

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This is my situation we been talking for two months ((heavy)) so I discussed a few things with my home girl about US so me and her had a disagreement and she brought up our situation so I told him he got mad and said why are you even discussing our business to anyone our business is our business and just flips out on so a week goes by no call no texts hes not responding Im being completely ignored sooooo I finally decided to send a text stating I wanted to see whats going on with us and hes leaving me no choice but to come to his house and he replies Im good bro leave me alone when I say I my heart dropped I was hurt I done helped this man out sooo much because hes going thru a financial situation right now wit his money and Ive gave him my all within the two months Ive known him and I just feel so dumb, empty, and used he told me on his dead brother dont ever pop up at his house again cause I sent him two apology cards he told me the cake is baked Im crazy Im this Im that and Im really hurt and confused and I dont know what to do at this point I need help cause Im hurting bad what do I do now!?
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Nameless Nemean
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Posted by q_tee_pie24
This is my situation we been talking for two months ((heavy)) so I discussed a few things with my home girl about US so me and her had a disagreement and she brought up our situation so I told him he got mad and said why are you even discussing our business to anyone our business is our business and just flips out on so a week goes by no call no texts hes not responding Im being completely ignored sooooo I finally decided to send a text stating I wanted to see whats going on with us and hes leaving me no choice but to come to his house and he replies Im good bro leave me alone when I say I my heart dropped I was hurt I done helped this man out sooo much because hes going thru a financial situation right now wit his money and Ive gave him my all within the two months Ive known him and I just feel so dumb, empty, and used he told me on his dead brother dont ever pop up at his house again cause I sent him two apology cards he told me the cake is baked Im crazy Im this Im that and Im really hurt and confused and I dont know what to do at this point I need help cause Im hurting bad what do I do now!?
Here's a better question, why are you worried about losing a guy you've only known for two months? You barely know each other. It takes at least three months for people to start showing who they really are. There's no reason to give "your all" to someone before then.

It's simple though, just walk away. If you've apologized, there's nothing more you can do. Never pursue someone who is actively pushing you away or ignoring you. By doing so you are showing that you have no self respect. If you can't respect yourself, then you can't expect anyone else to do so.