I hate my water energies somebody please find a way to burn them off!

I'm really going through it lately. I don't know if it is my Saturn return or what but I go from not wanting anything to do with relationships to pining over and borderline punishing a guy over nothing. Not mine has never been mine even though he feels like he's mine. I just want to be able to not see him for a while but I can't even do that because we work together and jobs are scarce. Lately he has been flirting with one of my friends at work and I can't shake that they are going to sleep together it's crazy absolutely bonkers and irrational. It's so crazy I did a compatibility rating them and when I got 100% I started crying. I am just ready so ready to let go and start new but it feels impossible. What makes everything worst is that I don't think I'll manifest the new Jon I want until o let go of him completely but I can't do that when he is always popping up around me wanting to talk. I would love to eventually be his friend but I can't right now and I feel stupid for even thinking that because what does jen truly do for me anymore? I feel like I'm in purgatory and the tension just keeps building. I want to detach I really do but I feel honk I forgot how to.

Girl that’s not your water placements feels. That’s called being a human bean feels.

Anyone of us would hate it to see an ex on the daily at work. How can you move on? You can’t. And of course he’s gonna go out there and fuck new people but does he have to go after your friend tho? That’s just vindictive af.

Tell you friend feelings are raw and your not cool with the flirtation with your ex. If she doesn’t have a heart to see that and back off then she really isn’t a friend 🤷‍♀️

At least you didn’t physically assault him when you saw them flirting. Like that other chick on here. Js 😏

Posted by LadyNeptune
Girl that’s not your water placements feels. That’s called being a human bean feels.

Anyone of us would hate it to see an ex on the daily at work. How can you move on? You can’t. And of course he’s gonna go out there and treetrunk new people but does he have to go after your friend tho? That’s just vindictive af.

Tell you friend feelings are raw and your not cool with the flirtation with your ex. If she doesn’t have a heart to see that and back off then she really isn’t a friend 🤷‍♀️

We were never together nor have we ever done anything sexually just spent several years of him wasting my time.

Posted by ladylibra21
I'm really going through it lately. I don't know if it is my Saturn return or what but I go from not wanting anything to do with relationships to pining over and borderline punishing a guy over nothing. Not mine has never been mine even though he feels like he's mine. I just want to be able to not see him for a while but I can't even do that because we work together and jobs are scarce. Lately he has been flirting with one of my friends at work and I can't shake that they are going to sleep together it's crazy absolutely bonkers and irrational. It's so crazy I did a compatibility rating them and when I got 100% I started crying. I am just ready so ready to let go and start new but it feels impossible. What makes everything worst is that I don't think I'll manifest the new Jon I want until o let go of him completely but I can't do that when he is always popping up around me wanting to talk. I would love to eventually be his friend but I can't right now and I feel stupid for even thinking that because what does jen truly do for me anymore? I feel like I'm in purgatory and the tension just keeps building. I want to detach I really do but I feel honk I forgot how to.

I have ALOT of water in MY birth chart. Guess that's why I am SMART not to date anyone from work; besides, the dudes here at work are all married, short, fat, and/or I am unattracted to them.



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by Gnu
The only way to burn feelings is by reaching a conclusion. You're in the middle somewhere which is causing the feelings. You need an ending.

There are two roads to the ending . One is you drive the conclusion. The other is you have the conclusion driven into you.

The first road is just being honest. Express yourself honestly to him. See if you are only friends or if you could be more. Get a definitive answer from him to finalize it, so you can move on.

The second road is to endure the emotions until he finds his lover and you finally give up hope of being together.

Thank you for this yesterday you finally have me that push I need to go see a therapist. I almost feel completely apart yesterday and nothing or no one should have that much control over my being.

Posted by Gnu
The only way to burn feelings is by reaching a conclusion. You're in the middle somewhere which is causing the feelings. You need an ending.

There are two roads to the ending . One is you drive the conclusion. The other is you have the conclusion driven into you.

The first road is just being honest. Express yourself honestly to him. See if you are only friends or if you could be more. Get a definitive answer from him to finalize it, so you can move on.

The second road is to endure the emotions until he finds his lover and you finally give up hope of being together.

Thank you for this yesterday you finally have me that push I need to go see a therapist. I almost feel completely apart yesterday and nothing or no one should have that much control over my being.

Posted by Gnu
The only way to burn feelings is by reaching a conclusion. You're in the middle somewhere which is causing the feelings. You need an ending.

There are two roads to the ending . One is you drive the conclusion. The other is you have the conclusion driven into you.

The first road is just being honest. Express yourself honestly to him. See if you are only friends or if you could be more. Get a definitive answer from him to finalize it, so you can move on.

The second road is to endure the emotions until he finds his lover and you finally give up hope of being together.

Thank you for this yesterday you finally have me that push I need to go see a therapist. I almost feel completely apart yesterday and nothing or no one should have that much control over my being.

Posted by Gnu
The only way to burn feelings is by reaching a conclusion. You're in the middle somewhere which is causing the feelings. You need an ending.

There are two roads to the ending . One is you drive the conclusion. The other is you have the conclusion driven into you.

The first road is just being honest. Express yourself honestly to him. See if you are only friends or if you could be more. Get a definitive answer from him to finalize it, so you can move on.

The second road is to endure the emotions until he finds his lover and you finally give up hope of being together.

Thank you for this yesterday you finally have me that push I need to go see a therapist. I almost feel completely apart yesterday and nothing or no one should have that much control over my being.

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by LadyNeptune
Girl that’s not your water placements feels. That’s called being a human bean feels.

Anyone of us would hate it to see an ex on the daily at work. How can you move on? You can’t. And of course he’s gonna go out there and treetrunk new people but does he have to go after your friend tho? That’s just vindictive af.

Tell you friend feelings are raw and your not cool with the flirtation with your ex. If she doesn’t have a heart to see that and back off then she really isn’t a friend 🤷‍♀️

We were never together nor have we ever done anything sexually just spent several years of him wasting my time.

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omg really?

so u pined and pined for this guy 😢



he must know for sure you want him...

guys are not that oblivious.

what can a guy do at this point when they are in this situation to stop aggravating the pain and heartache that women go through with unrequited love?

Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by ladylibra21
I'm really going through it lately. I don't know if it is my Saturn return or what but I go from not wanting anything to do with relationships to pining over and borderline punishing a guy over nothing. Not mine has never been mine even though he feels like he's mine. I just want to be able to not see him for a while but I can't even do that because we work together and jobs are scarce. Lately he has been flirting with one of my friends at work and I can't shake that they are going to sleep together it's crazy absolutely bonkers and irrational. It's so crazy I did a compatibility rating them and when I got 100% I started crying. I am just ready so ready to let go and start new but it feels impossible. What makes everything worst is that I don't think I'll manifest the new Jon I want until o let go of him completely but I can't do that when he is always popping up around me wanting to talk. I would love to eventually be his friend but I can't right now and I feel stupid for even thinking that because what does jen truly do for me anymore? I feel like I'm in purgatory and the tension just keeps building. I want to detach I really do but I feel honk I forgot how to.

I have ALOT of water in MY birth chart. Guess that's why I am SMART not to date anyone from work; besides, the dudes here at work are all married, short, fat, and/or I am unattracted to them.



cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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lol lady ... smh.



that is the best way ;p

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by LadyNeptune
Girl that’s not your water placements feels. That’s called being a human bean feels.

Anyone of us would hate it to see an ex on the daily at work. How can you move on? You can’t. And of course he’s gonna go out there and treetrunk new people but does he have to go after your friend tho? That’s just vindictive af.

Tell you friend feelings are raw and your not cool with the flirtation with your ex. If she doesn’t have a heart to see that and back off then she really isn’t a friend 🤷‍♀️

We were never together nor have we ever done anything sexually just spent several years of him wasting my time.

omg really?

so u pined and pined for this guy


he must know for sure you want him...

guys are not that oblivious.

what can a guy do at this point when they are in this situation to stop aggravating the pain and heartache that women go through with unrequited love?

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Oh he knows we had a convo two years ago but he is being hella shady flirting with my friend so all bets are off.

Posted by Gnu

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by LadyNeptune
Girl that’s not your water placements feels. That’s called being a human bean feels.

Anyone of us would hate it to see an ex on the daily at work. How can you move on? You can’t. And of course he’s gonna go out there and treetrunk new people but does he have to go after your friend tho? That’s just vindictive af.

Tell you friend feelings are raw and your not cool with the flirtation with your ex. If she doesn’t have a heart to see that and back off then she really isn’t a friend 🤷‍♀️

We were never together nor have we ever done anything sexually just spent several years of him wasting my time.

omg really?

so u pined and pined for this guy


he must know for sure you want him...

guys are not that oblivious.

what can a guy do at this point when they are in this situation to stop aggravating the pain and heartache that women go through with unrequited love?

Oh he knows we had a convo two years ago but he is being hella shady flirting with my friend so all bets are off.

Wait... holding him to a convo two years ago. Does he know you like him today and want to go out together today?

You wrote in a previous post that you were in a relationship with someone else during those two years. From his viewpoint he may see that as you wanting to be with someone else. So from that point, he would accept you as a friend.

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Sorry I'm being confusing. I met him in 2015 he "seemed" to pursue me with mixed signals from then up until 2017. I didn't date anyone from that time hoping he would finally say ok let's date. In January 2017 after an argument we had we had a conversation about what I was feeling he responded with that he obviously felt something to but there were things to consider so he didn't know what would come of us in future. So I silently gave him a 3 month mark from that conversation to take it some where put it on my calendar and everything. He didn't move anything forward so o tried dating to get over him I dated someone for almost a year the guy and I broke up and I wasn't really speaking to Cap at the time because of an argument we had in November. He asked me why we weren't friends anymore and that I hurt his feelings when I told him he didn't care about me and that he does. (He must have meant platonically I don't know.) he started back to his old self and I was in he started back to his old self and I was very cautious about keeping my gaurd up but then he took me out to lunch for Secretary Day and we talked like we haven't in a long time and I fell for him all over again. I hate myself for it. Then he is back to buzzing around me again and I couldn't get rid of him then I was vaunerable with him again and he played it off as a joke and now it isn't just awkward and borderline hostile.