i never make drama- is that bad?

Why men prefer unapprechable woman that make drama, have their own time, are friendly but very strict?

Why men like to be told by woman what to do, or that she has no time?

I am assertive but I can make 100 things at once and usually its me who has everything done 1st, i can be 1st everywhere and its me who wait for people.

I never make drama, I usually agree for what other says because- if were friends its ok to agree - not to make drama- as a couple.

I think I am being not so assertive in men's eyes.

Like I said I dont make drama, I do my own things, I al busy but I do not tell everyone I am busy. I can write call, text everyone when they need me. Its not like I specially DELAY my replay because 'it would be better- he woudl wait untill he misses me'.

Of course sometimes I do it but its not very often.

Why is that ?

My friends who do stupid things at home, like making jokes or phone calls with their girl friends, tell men they have no time to meet and its them who ask for the attention.

When I am in that situation I can break my routine text someone back, no problem and back to my phonecall- no big deal. really.

And its me who is usually the person who always CAN.



What can i change in order to have a bf?

I am aries 21.03.1990/

I never play games. because for me its stupid but its me who give up.

I say it was pretty dramatic post!

what do you suggest??

i like virgo and leo man-

leo man has its descendant in aries in my sign and i see he likes me. but very stubborn and takes his time as precious.



virgo is too complicated for me- appears only when he wants and when he gets jealous ( been together for a while 1 year ago) still when sees me with someone else gets jealous - dog in a manger

Posted by 199144
i like virgo and leo man-

leo man has its descendant in aries in my sign and i see he likes me. but very stubborn and takes his time as precious.



virgo is too complicated for me- appears only when he wants and when he gets jealous ( been together for a while 1 year ago) still when sees me with someone else gets jealous - dog in a manger

This sounds like most men, appearing mostly when jealous.

Posted by yupvirgoo
He won't like you if he's a Leo venus.

How did you guess she was talking about a man? Lol

Posted by 199144
Why men prefer unapprechable woman that make drama, have their own time, are friendly but very strict?

Why men like to be told by woman what to do, or that she has no time?

I am assertive but I can make 100 things at once and usually its me who has everything done 1st, i can be 1st everywhere and its me who wait for people.

I never make drama, I usually agree for what other says because- if were friends its ok to agree - not to make drama- as a couple.

I think I am being not so assertive in men's eyes.

Like I said I dont make drama, I do my own things, I al busy but I do not tell everyone I am busy. I can write call, text everyone when they need me. Its not like I specially DELAY my replay because 'it would be better- he woudl wait untill he misses me'.

Of course sometimes I do it but its not very often.

Why is that ?

My friends who do stupid things at home, like making jokes or phone calls with their girl friends, tell men they have no time to meet and its them who ask for the attention.

When I am in that situation I can break my routine text someone back, no problem and back to my phonecall- no big deal. really.

And its me who is usually the person who always CAN.



What can i change in order to have a bf?

I am aries 21.03.1990/

I never play games. because for me its stupid but its me who give up.

Men like challenge apparently. They don't want a nice girl, they want a popular girl.

Men like challenge...N you don't seem like you can be a challenge. They need to chase n feel like they got a trophy when they finally get you to cherish you. Maybe they're finding you easy? Well...not everyone is like this tho...

Posted by yupvirgoo

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by yupvirgoo
He won't like you if he's a Leo venus.

How did you guess she was talking about a man? Lol

lol just guessing

im half-joking tho

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Thanks because I thought I am losing it!

And almost made dram out of it...

Posted by puhleeze

Posted by 199144
Why men prefer unapprechable woman that make drama, have their own time, are friendly but very strict?

Why men like to be told by woman what to do, or that she has no time?

I am assertive but I can make 100 things at once and usually its me who has everything done 1st, i can be 1st everywhere and its me who wait for people.

I never make drama, I usually agree for what other says because- if were friends its ok to agree - not to make drama- as a couple.

I think I am being not so assertive in men's eyes.

Like I said I dont make drama, I do my own things, I al busy but I do not tell everyone I am busy. I can write call, text everyone when they need me. Its not like I specially DELAY my replay because 'it would be better- he woudl wait untill he misses me'.

Of course sometimes I do it but its not very often.

Why is that ?

My friends who do stupid things at home, like making jokes or phone calls with their girl friends, tell men they have no time to meet and its them who ask for the attention.

When I am in that situation I can break my routine text someone back, no problem and back to my phonecall- no big deal. really.

And its me who is usually the person who always CAN.



What can i change in order to have a bf?

I am aries 21.03.1990/

I never play games. because for me its stupid but its me who give up.

Men like challenge apparently. They don't want a nice girl, they want a popular girl.

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not necessarily popular, but a challenge

Posted by Teena
Men like challenge...N you don't seem like you can be a challenge. They need to chase n feel like they got a trophy when they finally get you to cherish you. Maybe they're finding you easy? Well...not everyone is like this tho...

Disagree with you my love!

If you have this opinion of men want a theology - there would be no marriages.

Because if he got his trophy - he steps down from pedestal and working out to get another trophy!

Not all men like that by far!

A lot of good men just want to be care for and loved and warmed up in bed by woman who just fed them a nice meal.

I say bad men is our fault because we are too often too stupid to see a good man right there near our butt! And they are there...just don't dismiss! ?

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena
Men like challenge...N you don't seem like you can be a challenge. They need to chase n feel like they got a trophy when they finally get you to cherish you. Maybe they're finding you easy? Well...not everyone is like this tho...

Disagree with you my love!

If you have this opinion of men want a theology - there would be no marriages.

Because if he got his trophy - he steps down from pedestal and working out to get another trophy!

Not all men like that by far!

A lot of good men just want to be care for and loved and warmed up in bed by woman who just fed them a nice meal.

I say bad men is our fault because we are too often too stupid to see a good man right there near our butt! And they are there...just don't dismiss! ?

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Yeah I understand that. That's the reason I added not all men are like this. They don't often appreciate anything easy... I think the same goes with anyone honestly.I remember a guy saying this to me actually.He feels like his girl is a trophy, something he worked for n earned.That kinda makes him proud n makes him wanna keep it.But that sometimes confuses me. When we go for something we can't have or which is possibly hard to have, I feel we are seeking validation more than love.

Posted by Teena

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena
Men like challenge...N you don't seem like you can be a challenge. They need to chase n feel like they got a trophy when they finally get you to cherish you. Maybe they're finding you easy? Well...not everyone is like this tho...

Disagree with you my love!

If you have this opinion of men want a theology - there would be no marriages.

Because if he got his trophy - he steps down from pedestal and working out to get another trophy!

Not all men like that by far!

A lot of good men just want to be care for and loved and warmed up in bed by woman who just fed them a nice meal.

I say bad men is our fault because we are too often too stupid to see a good man right there near our butt! And they are there...just don't dismiss! ?

Yeah I understand that. That's the reason I added not all men are like this. They don't often appreciate anything easy... I think the same goes with anyone honestly.I remember a guy saying this to me actually.He feels like his girl is a trophy, something he worked for n earned.That kinda makes him proud n makes him wanna keep it.But that sometimes confuses me. When we go for something we can't have or which is possibly hard to have, I feel we are seeking validation more than love.

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Yep love is simple!

It has to make you happy.

If it isn't - your choice to keep it or get out.

Most don't get out and this is why we all are here! Lol

No - to answer your question - it's not bad.

I can't speak for other men, but for me, some of the most attractive women exude confidence and are also poised when there's drama or when they're under stress. But those type of women are generally evasive to me, because they're pretty much independent or they like to be chased...which I don't mind doing actually, because I'm a charmer who likes the challenge of winning someone over. ?