I am a Pisces Sun / Cancer Ascendent. But I also have Venus in Aquarius in the 8th House. This makes me want serious long-term "friendship" relationships. I am actually married to a Cancer Sun / Scorpio ASC with Venus in Cancer in 8th House.
I have a history of attracting people with ANY Scorpio placement(s) (ASC, Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Pluto) who seem to "find" me (I do NOT seek them out). They won't leave me alone until some drastic upheaval /ending happens. Even then, I am still "stalked" secretly by them. I always "know" or find out.
The problem is that even though I say I am married up front to people I meet at college or at work or I am in public with my husband, I frequently "attract" Scorpio types who come on strong (in a sexual way), then subtlely suggest hanging out with them with them. I don't want to get involved with any of them and my Venus in Aquarius makes me want to run away, hide or ignore them, etc. I have had to quit two jobs because of obsessed Scorpios.
I restrict or block people on social media to make my point that "I am not interested in you". But it seems to make Scorpio types to want me even MORE and they become obsessive, jealous, possessive over me even though I am NOT in a "relationship" with them. I am nobody's "girlfriend".
Most recently, I had to end a college friendship with a male Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto (his Pluto in 1st House) after he became too obsessive and possessive over me. He knew I was married because he met me and my husband TOGETHER at a college event. At first the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto seemed nice. BUT.... he seemed obviously over doing the attention on me.
After meeting at the college event, the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto "found me" at my campus the next semester. He was actually waiting for me after my class. I have no idea how he was able to "know" where my class was and what time it ended. He followed me around on campus for 7 months eating lunch with me. I had no choice. A few times I tried to hide from him and change my routine but he still "found me". I gave in.
I tried to "back away" from the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto when he started trying to "control" things and "bossing me around" (telling me how to wear my hair), isolating me away from my friends (especially male), asking me to skip class to spend the day with him, showing up at my house uninvited. I actually found single girls for him to date, but that didn't work.
Finally, my husband asked (demanded) that the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto leave me alone, end his friendship with me and "block" me on social media. He agreed to end the friendship with me... but.... he didn't really comply.
I thought it was done after he "blocked" me on Facebook a month later and publically paraded a new girlfriend to the world but I found out he had an "alternative" identity on Facebook and was (is still) watching me online. Hello Venus in Scorpio.
Even worse (for me) was the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto broke up with the (rebound?) girlfriend after only 8 weeks, it seems because he would be at the same college conference I was going to be at. My husband was with me at the conference and the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto had the nerve to approach me to talk to me. I ignored him but he said I should listen to this song, "Driving Nails by Demon Hunter".
Yeah, I listened to it. I thought it was going to be some "I hate you song". Wrong! The opposite. Geez, I don't want to know "he was the blood inside my broken heart".
Why is he wasting his "love" on a married woman who has told him she is not interested.
I haven't talked to him since October of 2016.
When will the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto give up on me?
I really am ignoring him. What do I have to do to get him to ignore me?
Yeah venus 8's very attractive in a weird way, fascinating but scary, it's an expression of their scorpiesque nature that they.ve never seen before, like Euridice descending into hell...they must grab her asap.....
And maybe you have Mars or Pluto in an angular house tho, or with specific aspects to smth.
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I have a history of attracting people with ANY Scorpio placement(s) (ASC, Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Pluto) who seem to "find" me (I do NOT seek them out). They won't leave me alone until some drastic upheaval /ending happens. Even then, I am still "stalked" secretly by them. I always "know" or find out.
The problem is that even though I say I am married up front to people I meet at college or at work or I am in public with my husband, I frequently "attract" Scorpio types who come on strong (in a sexual way), then subtlely suggest hanging out with them with them. I don't want to get involved with any of them and my Venus in Aquarius makes me want to run away, hide or ignore them, etc. I have had to quit two jobs because of obsessed Scorpios.
I restrict or block people on social media to make my point that "I am not interested in you". But it seems to make Scorpio types to want me even MORE and they become obsessive, jealous, possessive over me even though I am NOT in a "relationship" with them. I am nobody's "girlfriend".
Most recently, I had to end a college friendship with a male Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto (his Pluto in 1st House) after he became too obsessive and possessive over me. He knew I was married because he met me and my husband TOGETHER at a college event. At first the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto seemed nice. BUT.... he seemed obviously over doing the attention on me.
After meeting at the college event, the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto "found me" at my campus the next semester. He was actually waiting for me after my class. I have no idea how he was able to "know" where my class was and what time it ended. He followed me around on campus for 7 months eating lunch with me. I had no choice. A few times I tried to hide from him and change my routine but he still "found me". I gave in.
I tried to "back away" from the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto when he started trying to "control" things and "bossing me around" (telling me how to wear my hair), isolating me away from my friends (especially male), asking me to skip class to spend the day with him, showing up at my house uninvited. I actually found single girls for him to date, but that didn't work.
Finally, my husband asked (demanded) that the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto leave me alone, end his friendship with me and "block" me on social media. He agreed to end the friendship with me... but.... he didn't really comply.
I thought it was done after he "blocked" me on Facebook a month later and publically paraded a new girlfriend to the world but I found out he had an "alternative" identity on Facebook and was (is still) watching me online. Hello Venus in Scorpio.
Even worse (for me) was the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto broke up with the (rebound?) girlfriend after only 8 weeks, it seems because he would be at the same college conference I was going to be at. My husband was with me at the conference and the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto had the nerve to approach me to talk to me. I ignored him but he said I should listen to this song, "Driving Nails by Demon Hunter".
Yeah, I listened to it. I thought it was going to be some "I hate you song". Wrong! The opposite. Geez, I don't want to know "he was the blood inside my broken heart".
Why is he wasting his "love" on a married woman who has told him she is not interested.
I haven't talked to him since October of 2016.
When will the Libra Sun/Scorpio ASC/Venus/Merc/Pluto give up on me?
I really am ignoring him. What do I have to do to get him to ignore me?