Is there an explanation to why

I always pull away and go cold in relationships?

Sun in Libra
Moon in Leo
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus in Libra
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Leo
Saturn in Pisces
Uranus in Virgo
Neptune in Scorpio
Pluto in Virgo
Ascendant Taurus
Midheaven Aquarius
North Node Taurus
Chiron Pisces

Taurus Rising

It probably has nothing to do with your Natal Chart ... and everything to do with your late Father. He made sure that you would be leary of men, didn't he? As much as you don't feel like you need any healing or closure from his ghosts ... you probably really do.

On the other side of the coin .... you can always change your perspective and look at it life experiences that weren't meant to go beyond what you enjoyed. Take what was great, put it to memory .. and look to the horizon.

Not every life experience with another person is meant to be an intense life-long bond ... some people you just suppose to enjoy for the moment.

@ NO Days/Nights life,

You're mistaking me for a leeb-babe 😛

Honestly, there is nothing in your char that really says you should go cold and pull away. Well, the only I can see is that you have venus in libra, but generally you should enjoy affection.

Honestly, like P said, you should look past astrology and to what things are holding you back in life. You could debate all day that something in your chart is keeping you from love, but honestly, you'd just be ignoring the real problems.

Just checking the chart because I don't understand much of the astrology side.

Had the feeling it was more to do with past experiences and thought I had laid most of these feelings to rest so still time to work on change!

Posted by sweethearts
I always pull away and go cold in relationships?

Sun in Libra
Moon in Leo
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus in Libra
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Leo
Saturn in Pisces
Uranus in Virgo
Neptune in Scorpio
Pluto in Virgo
Ascendant Taurus
Midheaven Aquarius
North Node Taurus
Chiron Pisces

Taurus Rising

Can you post the actual picture of your natal chart so I can see what house your Venus and Mars are in, the aspects they make and what's the sign of your descendant?