Metrics for a Virgo male trait

They say Virgos need a long time to see she is the one.

so let's ask our friends, relatives and colleagues for how long they have been dating their Virgo male until he decided she's the one.

I'm actually expecting some numbers..yet if you prefer to discuss so be it. :-)

My number is in the negative because he didn't decide I was the one .... I decided that he was the one, and took him.

I suppose that there might be slews of women out there, playing submissive/subserviant to their Virgos in error .... and waiting a lifetime.

dyr's wife took him >>>> made the decision she wanted him, that he was the one >> and took him
MsScorpioWoman, I forget her name right now >>>>>>>> made her Virgo her man, not the other way around.

I would suppose that if someone came to answer your question ... they would likely say that they are still in waiting, like a good submissive girl is suppose to do while the man wears the pants and makes her decisions for her.

So here are my results so far:

A German colleague who is married to an asian woman said, he knew it and said it after one month.

A Turkish colleague of 35 years said he has not found the right person yet.

A German female Sag/Scorp colleague said he has not told any concrete word on this subject.

My number is in the negative because he didn't decide I was the one .... I decided that he was the one, and took him.

Of course there are different approaches. And it is good to know that you both get along well together. I would/could try the way you mentioned if I was about to be with my Virguy again.

still I insist on my original question. How long did it take for the V-males we know to tell she is the one, or he loves her, or he wants to be with her, or he wants to live with her, or he wants to marry her.

you did not write here when you did hear such words from him. or did he never tell them?