Pisces in love with a Aries , pursue?

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heidil
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Hi everyone I really need some advise here.

I am a 28yr old Pisces in love with an Aries man.I really need some advise here as my issue has been going on for a yr and I cant figure it out so all Ariens plz help.

I met this guy a yr ago and there was this instant spark, eventho we didn't speak there was this amazing connection. Anyways things moved quickly and we became physical. It was the most awesome thing I ever felt I felt so protected and safe as he is a very strong minded Aries. Anyway he says he doesn't want a relationship; however he will ask why I like him how he isn't good enough for me etc. When we talk on the phone (usually once or twice a week) one min he is nice and another he is cold and almost trying to push me away by being rude and mean. When we r together he has a hard time looking into my eyes not that he doesn't want to but he shies away. When we kiss theres so much passion its incredible, well me for me anyways. My point is he gives me the impression how he doesn't want a relationship with me one min then another min he wants me to come over or he will say I miss you but don't trust myself around you. He seems to always test me like see if get jealous and I will never react as I know it's a test and it seems to get him angrier. Push and pull game. He told me he knows that I love him but he isn't ready. If I don't call him for more then a few weeks he calls me to see where I am. The longest period that we didn't speak was 6weeks then he called saying how he let a good thing go away how maybe now he was ready etc?we met and we got physical and he got cold and mean. This guy is supper nice to mean then we will get physical and he is mean for a couple of weeks,

My question is am I wasting my time ?. Would my Aries man play this game for a yr, or could he be falling in love to and is afraid. This guy has been single for 5yrs his last girlfriend of 8yrs left him. Does he feel the passion I feel or am I living a dream?

Plz help me as I am driving myself crazy trying to figure him out.