I met this guy back in August he's 2yrs younger he's 22..He was staying in town at the hotel I was working at he actually asked my co worker about me who gave him my number. Text me the next day we talked majority of the day but it was pretty clear what he wanted & I can't lie as fine as he was I only wanted one thing from him(I know sad but true). Well we talked for a few days briefly then hooked up 3 days later which was great. He had about a week left before he left so we hooked up again.. Me assuming he only wanted it for the time he was there was right but after all that's all I wanted A few days later he invited me to his house which is a couple hrs away not surprisingly b/c of our last encounter being great I wanted it again. I ended up asking him if actually liked me and he said yeah that I was "special" lol what a joke but I went along with it. I finally told him I like him and he told me that it was a good thing. So basically we've been hooking up at least once a month for the past 3 mo I was cool until the 2nd time was diff .. He became more romantic than our usual hookups, more passionate etc. I can't lie it was out of this world better than any I've ever had... I even would have have been preg if I didn't take the morning after pill omg.. Anyway the 3rd time we communicated to get it again only to have a miscommunication which was my fault I got the days mixed up... To find out he cooked dinner , candles lit the whole 9 for me. He texted me the next day askin what happened to me and I was confused b/c I thought we discussed the following week but turns out I was wrong. Ive been seeing him once a month for the last 3 months I don't think he is no longer interested in me. The last time I saw him he was still passionate Touchy feeling I couldn't get him off me we cuddled he wouldn't let me go. I'm not the type to keep texting and texting so I send a text like once a week just to let him know I'm thinking of him but I haven't been getting no response and it's been two and half weeks. We are not together I'm not looking for a relationship more like friends with benefits but... How can I get him back without seeming to pushy or overly aggressive? I don't have to talk to him all the time I give him his space but when I do hit him up I've gotten nothing... Before our last meet up at his house I asked him did he find what he was looking for because I saw he unfollowed me on Instagram but I don't really care about that I just know that I'm not asking him for anything but a friendship I want him to be able to trust me. I would like to know how he feels about me and I told him if he didn't want me to text him anymore than its fine I still think he is an amazing person. The only problem with that is I don't want to over step my boudaries by asking him a question like that through text I'd rather ask him face to face. I'm just not ready to let go just yet so how can I win him over I've been going with the flow the whole time and he has told me he
