Pluto Moon Conjunct in Synastry

Hello!

What does everyone think about a pluto moon conjunct?

My moon is a scorpio, and the guy I've been dating has his pluto in scorpio as well. I've just been doing a little research here and there and read that this can have strong emotional and sexual ties.

The short and sweet background: We've been seeing another for a month, and I'm not feeling an emotional connection with him. I feel like he's not fully there, and I need more emotionally and mentally that he's giving me right now. We tend to be very quiet with another, because we're both reserved.

Another issue I have, and this is actually part of the reason I feel I become more reserved with him each time is because in the course of a little more then month I've slept in the same bed with him 4 times. 3 of those times I've had the craziest, most disturbing dreams I've ever had. Now to back up a little bit, I feel/sense/see a lot of things in my dreams, with my ex I'd feel his emotions, and he'd communicate with me through my dreams when we were no longer together. With that being said, I really pay attention to my dreams, and know that things are communicated to me through my dreams. With that - going back to the guy I'm currently seeing (with the pluto conjunct) my dreams have been very dark, sexually disturbing dreams. I've never woken up frightened and uneasy then I have with the times I've slept next to him. The first time it was a dream that he brought me to this really dark place and it was basically just a huge group of people having orgies. He brought me to participate, and although I'm a very sexual person (in real life) there was something dark and disturbing about being there that when I woke up I was panicky and scared. The second time I had a dream that I was about to be raped in a very dark warehouse and another guy ended up shooting the guy in the chest who was about to rape me (in real life I had no idea who either men were). I woke up again, panicked. I went back to sleep and this time I was sleeping but it was like something was on top of me holding me down, it wasn't a dream, but it was like a dark presence was taking control of me (that night I had about 6 dreams all very dark, disturbing and scary). The third time it was another rape dream, this time, in the dream, the guy I'm seeing text me if I was Ok, and right after a guy came into the hotel room I was in and tried to rape me again. Don't get me wrong, in the past I've had nightmares and et

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Don't get me wrong, in the past I've had nightmares and etc, but the only times I've had these dark, disturbing dreams is when I've been sleeping next to him, and it's happened almost as many times as we've slept next to another. I guess my question is - what does this mean? Am I feeling something that he thinks, or maybe something from a past life? I have no idea, but I just know when I wake up I'm scared b*tterless, and if you talk to any of my friends I'm usually a very strong person and am not really scared of anything. I'd really love to hear any light that anyone can shed on this. For some reason I'm reading something very dark from him and it scares me.

Couple of questions for clarification.
- Sexual encounter has occurred with the current boyfriend, correct?
-Has the dreams occurred after a sexual encounter with him?

Pluto digs up subconscious feelings and fears that are repressed or are unaware to the conscious mind.
Have these dreams occurred these past few days? Weeks? What's the timing if you can recall?
The frequency? Months apart or weeks? Days?

Also was your ex around your age and do you know any of his signs?

Thanks for the reply SirHorns - I appreciate your insight 🙂 What do you think my subconscious is telling me with him? Whatever it is, it does want to make me steer clear of him altogether. At the same time I do want to understand what's going on

Couple of questions for clarification.
- Sexual encounter has occurred with the current boyfriend, correct?
Yes
-Has the dreams occurred after a sexual encounter with him?
Actually one time it did, the second time when I had the 6 crazy dreams in one night, we didn't have sex
Pluto digs up subconscious feelings and fears that are repressed or are unaware to the conscious mind.
Have these dreams occurred these past few days? Weeks? What's the timing if you can recall? The dreams only happen when I'm sleeping next to him. The first it happened when we went on a trip together about a month ago. The second time it happened was just last week (the time we didn't have sex). I saw him once in between, we went out and it was actually one of our best times together, I didn't have the dreams at all. The time after it happened last I came home the next day and do ask my dreams to point me to signs and answer questions for me, that night (the night after we were together, and I was sleeping alone) I had one of the rape dreams again - and that's the time he text me in my dream asking if I was ok, prior to the other guy trying to rape me (I also notice the current guy has his pluto in scorpio in Retrograde)
The frequency? Months apart or weeks? Days? Seems to only happen when I'm with him, unless I ask for a sign. From the first dream to the second dream it was about a month
I notice when my moon in scorpio touches someones scorpio, I have a type of psychic connection with them
Also was your ex around your age and do you know any of his signs? No my ex is 3 years older then me and his signs are:Sun Scorpio 18.20
Moon Leo 14.29
Mercury Sagittarius 5.35 R
Venus Sagittarius 8.32
Mars Leo 25.59
Jupiter Virgo 7.10
Saturn Virgo 24.17
Uranus Scorpio 21.07
Neptune Sagittarius 19.05
Pluto Libra 20.17
Lilith Virgo 13.51
Asc node Virgo 5.20

Right, well the more watery users here might have better insight and ideasd but here are a couple things that came to mind.

- If you had a Dangerous experience with your ex, like a near car crash or something out of your control, lack of power, while your rashional mind writes it off with probability, your subconscious held in the fear related to powerlessness. I propose the rape dreams play out the same feelings of sudden helplessness and the risk of death or injury.

- Current boyfriend could have had sexual trauma or someone close to him could have been victimized. Since that wouldn't be for casual conversation, it make sense if he repressed the information and his emotional state related to it. Your moon comes into play by feeding off his repressed issues and since the human brain can't make up faces in dreams, you see a familiar face, your ex just being on out the many possible faces.
I suppose if it was the latter case, having him talk to you about it would stop the rape dreams, but how you go about would be another issue.

Funny you say that, with my ex I did almost die, and it was because of him. I don't hold any grudges, but that did lead to certain events in our relationship.

With the current guy, all I can say is wow. You really made me look at the whole situation from another view point. I guess I wasn't really trying to understand, and really my initial instinct was just to try and avoid it and stop talking to him. You really did give me a chance to look at it from a different perspective, and it really makes me feel that the right thing to do is "try" to talk to him about it. With what could have happened, it definitely makes more sense. The behavior of him sometimes, and how it seems like there's something inside him causing him to have a wall up. Thank you so much. I really appreciate your insight.