PSA: Venus & Love

The first secret to know about an *any zodiac sign* in love is simply that it does NOT refer to a *sun-sign* person. Only someone with the planet Venus in *wherever their natal Venus is* will be an —*any given zodiac sign* in love.??

Slightly altered, denoted by "*" Anyone ever find discrepancies with astrolobrary.org?

Posted by duchesslibro
The first secret to know about an *any zodiac sign* in love is simply that it does NOT refer to a *sun-sign* person. Only someone with the planet Venus in *wherever their natal Venus is* will be an —*any given zodiac sign* in love.??

Slightly altered, denoted by "*" Anyone ever find discrepancies with astrolobrary.org?

Astrolibrary, maybe?

Looking now... I'm not familiar really, but

NO... I don't buy that.

I may be a Venus in Virgo, but by God I'm

still a LEO-- and my Venus has to reckon

with my Sun.

I also have Merc in LEO... so I don't think

I would suddenly begin to communicate like

a Virgo either, due to the placement.

But I DO have some Virgo-like qualities in

relationships. :/

Libra is an amazing sign btw.. beauty and grace

and balance are the hallmarks.

It tempers even the most fixed of signs...

🙂

Idk either bc I dated a libra sun with scorp venus & he acted all libra. He was jealous sometimes but that wasn't his forte really, & even when he was jealous he was real cool with it.

Posted by LittleStar
Moon > Venus.

i do agree that my moon has a substantial influence on picking and staying with mates. However, my venus must be satisfied as well.

My moon is in Aquarius & I seem to only pick guys who don't want a commitment. Is there a correlation you think? Bc maybe deep down my moon needs freedom so it looks only for ppl who want freedom?

But my leo sun gets mad when they don't want to be attached bc it's like "how dare you not want to be attached to me bc I'm awesome!" Lol

What do y'all think.

for ladies, it's the masculine planets.

for gentlement, it's the feminine planets.

that's why men are from venus, women are from mars.

that general idea.

year after year you all keep forgetting the attraction rules.

this astrologer who is a taurus sun, gemini rising, cancer venus & moon is one of my favourite astrologers.

here's an example of venus/moon attraction to a stronger degree:

let's look at Virgo.

http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-virgo.shtml

MOON or VENUS in VIRGO

"To some degree, what you see here also applies if you have the Sun in the Sign of Virgo. But for a man it is his Moon and Venus Signs which best indicate the types of woman he is most attracted to, or may choose for a mate, especially the Moon.

The type of woman who attracts you looks neat and clean, or well-groomed and conservatively-dressed - and, above all, appears "proper". You want: intelligent, honest, healthy, reliable, modest, refined, efficient, practical, methodical, loyal and faithful...but you might settle for "perfect"!

Good manners and good taste are turn-ons for you, as are "competency" and skillfulness.

You can be slowly seduced by a woman who makes herself useful to you in ways that make you feel you cannot get along without her."

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if both his venus/moon are in 7th house, then you look up 7th house/libra partnership.

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Posted by lisabethur8
for ladies, it's the masculine planets.

for gentlement, it's the feminine planets.

that's why men are from venus, women are from mars.

that general idea.

That makes a lot more sense in my experience. I feel relatively "Libra-ish" in love (my Mars), whereas my hub can act very Capricorny with me (his Venus). To others, he comes across like his Taurus rising.

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and his houses make a huge difference too.

oh didnt you say his moon is in Libra—

here is libra moon:

http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-libra.shtml

"MOON or VENUS in LIBRA

The type of woman who attracts you has "class" but isn't too formal... sort of sophisticated but not stuck-up... sort of hard-to-please but easy to live with... sort of sincere... No! REAL sincere! Definitely not phoney, or rude or crude or violent!

Grace, charm, and beauty are great attractions to you. You can be "charmed" by a romantic and feminine "fair lady".

You seek "harmony" in a relationship, yet your real need is to create harmony, so you may actually be drawn to (or passively instigate) conflicts with a more emotionally volatile partner, which can present new challenges for your peace-making talents.

A totally serene relationship is what you seek; yet when achieved it is boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.

Being IN a one-on-one relationship is the only way you feel secure, so relationships are your top priority - and this includes friendships and business partnerships too"

??2001 by Michael Star

cafeastrology also has alot of similarity to what michale star says. so that place is also good to look up on.

Posted by lisabethur8
this astrologer who is a taurus sun, gemini rising, cancer venus & moon is one of my favourite astrologers.

here's an example of venus/moon attraction to a stronger degree:

let's look at Virgo.

http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-virgo.shtml

MOON or VENUS in VIRGO

"To some degree, what you see here also applies if you have the Sun in the Sign of Virgo. But for a man it is his Moon and Venus Signs which best indicate the types of woman he is most attracted to, or may choose for a mate, especially the Moon.

The type of woman who attracts you looks neat and clean, or well-groomed and conservatively-dressed - and, above all, appears "proper". You want: intelligent, honest, healthy, reliable, modest, refined, efficient, practical, methodical, loyal and faithful...but you might settle for "perfect"!

Good manners and good taste are turn-ons for you, as are "competency" and skillfulness.

You can be slowly seduced by a woman who makes herself useful to you in ways that make you feel you cannot get along without her."

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if both his venus/moon are in 7th house, then you look up 7th house/libra partnership.

I've been soooo curious about this and I'm still so confused...I have my Venus/Moon in Virgo, Mars in Leo. My bf has his Mars/Venus in Virgo and Moon in Leo. How will that play out please?

i wouldn't know. you'd have to post a topic on it and explain in DETAIL what's going on between you and post those placements too. Then others can chime in.

like for example, you can start by telling us some details about your intimacy with eachother, not TOO detailed, of course, because that's too much, unless you really really want to.

how does he treat you, and how do you treat him? that kind of thing. and if you are sexually compatible ect.

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Posted by duchesslibro
The first secret to know about an *any zodiac sign* in love is simply that it does NOT refer to a *sun-sign* person. Only someone with the planet Venus in *wherever their natal Venus is* will be an —*any given zodiac sign* in love.??

Slightly altered, denoted by "*" Anyone ever find discrepancies with astrolobrary.org?

Astrolibrary, maybe?

..

Libra is an amazing sign btw.. beauty and grace

and balance are the hallmarks.

It tempers even the most fixed of signs...

🙂

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Thanks for the nice words about Libra 🙂 Yes, *astrolibrary or course. I make lots of typos and only care about them half the time. Many times I'm flitting around too quickly to notice.

As for the mentioning of Mars is males love style , Venus is females, of course I'm aware of the concept but certainly the Venus of men and Mars of women isn't entirely inconsequential. Obviously the planets rule other things as well, Venus: pleasure, Mars: action, but what about men who like to be pursued and women who like to chase?

*of -(not) or

lol

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Posted by LittleStar
Moon > Venus.

i do agree that my moon has a substantial influence on picking and staying with mates. However, my venus must be satisfied as well.

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I've read that satisfying the Moon is what activates Venus. It's been consistantly true for me.

....also lisabethur I've always heard it as men are from mars, women from venus..

Posted by lisabethur8
cafeastrology also has alot of similarity to what michale star says. so that place is also good to look up on.

Agreed. cafeastrology is a favorite. They offer a pretty good free natal chart, easy & quick to obtain and simple to read

Posted by JBG
Idk either bc I dated a libra sun with scorp venus & he acted all libra. He was jealous sometimes but that wasn't his forte really, & even when he was jealous he was real cool with it.

My Venus is Scorp too. It's my understanding that it is not really much like a Scorp Moon and far more tame than Sun, nothing like a Mars. I don't get jealous unless given a very in-my-face specific reason to be. Like another woman is actively trying to sleep w my man or something. It's not like Scorp moon rep for being possessive.

Scorp Venus is just deeply loyal, deep emotions but will never reveal unless feels safe because they believe the other is into them too. The scary stuff only comes out when breaking up, cheated on, betrayed, etc. In my experience. Although I do have a Scorp V friend who in her younger years was a girl-player, cheated on bfs, etc. Sag Sun. Lib Sun w Scorp Venus wants a soulmate.

Posted by lisabethur8
i wouldn't know. you'd have to post a topic on it and explain in DETAIL what's going on between you and post those placements too. Then others can chime in.

like for example, you can start by telling us some details about your intimacy with eachother, not TOO detailed, of course, because that's too much, unless you really really want to.

how does he treat you, and how do you treat him? that kind of thing. and if you are sexually compatible ect.

We are great generally. I'm just wondering, what astrological factors makes us compatible and how to make it better ? I don't want things to change(for worse) between us really.

I thought venus was how others are attracted to you and the moon is what you need emotionally from people. Venus in Gemini would appear brainy and moon in Leo would want a lover who admires them. Mars is sex right? And houses effect this all too.

Posted by LittleStar
Moon > Venus.

Me and my Sc/ex have both in the same sign. Plus Eros conj. Psyche.

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Posted by lisabethur8
oh didnt you say his moon is in Libra—

here is libra moon:

http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-libra.shtml

"MOON or VENUS in LIBRA

The type of woman who attracts you has "class" but isn't too formal... sort of sophisticated but not stuck-up... sort of hard-to-please but easy to live with... sort of sincere... No! REAL sincere! Definitely not phoney, or rude or crude or violent!

Grace, charm, and beauty are great attractions to you. You can be "charmed" by a romantic and feminine "fair lady".

You seek "harmony" in a relationship, yet your real need is to create harmony, so you may actually be drawn to (or passively instigate) conflicts with a more emotionally volatile partner, which can present new challenges for your peace-making talents.

A totally serene relationship is what you seek; yet when achieved it is boring to you - so you like to shake things up a little now and then.

Being IN a one-on-one relationship is the only way you feel secure, so relationships are your top priority - and this includes friendships and business partnerships too"

??2001 by Michael Star

I am Libra moon dominate. My moon is in 0 degrees Libra.. I used to think this was a horrible placement, and although it can be, it's an extremely loving sign overall.

Thanks for the share on the site!

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Remember that's for the MALES.

for attraction purposes. but on a deeper level, yes, it counts the moon in privte setting but it's generally for the MALES attraction. Their venus/moon and feminine planets.

-looks at his moon and venus-
Both are exalted.
...yeah no way in hell women like that are around anymore.

u

Posted by JBG
My moon is in Aquarius & I seem to only pick guys who don't want a commitment. Is there a correlation you think? Bc maybe deep down my moon needs freedom so it looks only for ppl who want freedom?

But my leo sun gets mad when they don't want to be attached bc it's like "how dare you not want to be attached to me bc I'm awesome!" Lol

What do y'all think.

Hey! It's me again lol I just posted on how our two libra men sound alike. I never can remember my other signs. Lol so I went back to my paper where I wrote it down years ago. I also have moon in Aquarius. I'm still learning. I also choose unavailable men. What is up with that? Sometimes maybe the challenge but mostly I feel it's me wanting to believe they are different or just can change. Hmmmm interesting point you make.
Libra sun
Leo rising
Scorpio Venus
Moon Aquarius
Mars Libra
Mercury is Rx Virgo

Don't know how some of this mixes sometimes lol it feels that answer is Not so well. However I did forget to mention I have that libra justice strongly and also the Scorpio Venus revenge.. Silent, patient, exacting, deadly, and epic. When I found out, I notified the girl taking the chance that the messenger is usually "killed" so to speak and knew it was right thing. Plus I knew the impact it would have on him. He was showing up to her house for thanksgiving with her and her family in his new car. I felt he had a lesson to learn and only something monumental would Impact him. She had all the messages etc for years. No way he was squirming out of this one. I knew for weeks while I planned, pretended nothing was wrong, and then sent her everything she would need to make her decision. She contacted me and thanked me profusely and then I backed off. Epic disaster for him. So yes Scorpio Venus and libra are wicked when crossed, but only before they are certain what they're doing is "right" for those involved, specifically those who were wronged.

Oh and she is a Scorpio sun herself. Soooooo I can only imagine that what went down was even more Hellish than he later tried to communicate. Not my problem.

I would think that I do err towards the moon/taurus and mars/sagi qualities rather than my sun/scorp or venus/libra when perusing the male of the species...

Posted by duchesslibro
The first secret to know about an *any zodiac sign* in love is simply that it does NOT refer to a *sun-sign* person. Only someone with the planet Venus in *wherever their natal Venus is* will be an —*any given zodiac sign* in love.??

Slightly altered, denoted by "*" Anyone ever find discrepancies with astrolobrary.org?

So ive been doing it wrong :-|