Relationship abuse

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Posted by the_sunflower
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yeah if i hit my bf, he will hit me back. so i don't do it. i think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl, but not necessarily harder. yeah they need counseling because there are better ways to talk about problems
What would cause you to hit him in the first place? Can't it be resolved through talking?
when he turns perverted and i jokingly slap him. he slaps me back and i totally enjoy getting slapped
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Lol ok but that ain't healthy tho
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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Naw I let one slide. Gone have to grab ya wrist n tell u twice tho. But twice naw that's the end of the relationship. You can't control yaself and im not a doormat. I know women can be feisty but a slap with force is deep it sends a message lol but twice? Hell Naw you tripping
my boy try 20 times!!! this girl has a perfect life and she dont like the guy's family...so she hits him, beat him up etc. but now he's had enough...he hit her in an arguement and she didnt even touch him...so that goes to show...i simply advised counselling cuz i dont wanna take sides etc.
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Posted by lady_chatterley
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yeah if i hit my bf, he will hit me back. so i don't do it. i think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl, but not necessarily harder. yeah they need counseling because there are better ways to talk about problems
I don't think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl. I think it's fair for a guy to leave a girl if she hits him. No one should take abuse, but they shouldn't abuse back.
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If the girl wants to fight a man...then she thinks she is a man...and she should be treated as a man...you'd lose a couple teeth if u try to fight a man...so just dont hit him cuz he can obviously over power...just live, love and stay peacefull
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Posted by lady_chatterley
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Posted by the_sunflower
yeah if i hit my bf, he will hit me back. so i don't do it. i think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl, but not necessarily harder. yeah they need counseling because there are better ways to talk about problems
I don't think it's fair for a guy to hit a girl. I think it's fair for a guy to leave a girl if she hits him. No one should take abuse, but they shouldn't abuse back.
If the girl wants to fight a man...then she thinks she is a man...and she should be treated as a man...you'd lose a couple teeth if u try to fight a man...so just dont hit him cuz he can obviously over power...just live, love and stay peacefull
Wrong. If the girl wants to fight a man, let the man defend himself, but he doesn't have to hit her or make her lose a couple of teeth. That's just wrong. It should end with him blocking her and then ultimately leaving her after the incident.

Just because someone is bigger doesn't mean they should use it for violence.
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Okay i agree with you to a certain extent. If you can defend and leave then do that. But a girl wanting to fight a man needs to learn her lesson aswell. If you play with fire you get burned. If you try to pretend to be a man and fight a man, he may treat you as a man. So if you lose a couple teeth then I'm sure you'd rethink hitting a guy again.

But personally your way is the sweeter way and I'd rather do that.