Struggles

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MyStarsShine
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Death....losing nine members of my fam, worked through it and came out the other end, my faith in a higher power saved me 🙏🏼

Relationship dependence...overcoming an innate need to find a man to complete me. It took a Scorpio dominant male to push me to the limits of my dependence on all aspects of romantic connections. Cold turkey was brutal but worked.

Our son moving away to study 250 miles away, his leaving triggered all the grief I'd experienced over the years. I allowed myself to break down and now I'm mended again

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I remember struggling a lot in my teen years early twenties thinking that I was not good enough academically and I felt that I was letting my father down.

Letter on I realize that it was something that I just had to work on and I saw that he was proud of me and my choice even if it wasn’t what he expected from me.

At the end of the day he just wanted me to be happy.

Self help books helped a lot.
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What did your dad expect from you, Pisces?

I come from a family of doctors and engineers so he wanted me to be a doctor or a Veterinarian like him


Why do some parents presume their kids want to do as they do? we are not clones

Good for you for choosing your own path....

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Haha It didn’t help that I really loved medicine and veterinary and I was always studying his books and helping out.

But then I decided to go to another country and look for adventure instead.

You can’t control Uranus and Pluto in first.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Death....losing nine members of my fam, worked through it and came out the other end, my faith in a higher power saved me 🙏🏼

Relationship dependence...overcoming an innate need to find a man to complete me. It took a Scorpio dominant male to push me to the limits of my dependence on all aspects of romantic connections. Cold turkey was brutal but worked.

Our son moving away to study 250 miles away, his leaving triggered all the grief I'd experienced over the years. I allowed myself to break down and now I'm mended again

💚


That was beautiful! I started crying 😭! My mom had the same issues when I went away to school. She's a pisces and was a single mother for a very long time. We were very close. My first year away at college, she became very very very ill. She couldn't hold anything down and the doctors kept telling her she was okay. She didn't even think she was going to make it. It didn't help that I got into some trouble my first year away (her poor soul). Now, she's found herself and is very happy : )! She's a real estate agent and for the first time in her life, is focusing on her career. I'm so happy for you! Anyways, I just want to say that I enjoyed reading your post and I'm happy you're doing well
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Thanks love

Glad your mum is okay now and don't worry, you will find your path too

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The voice of my emotionally abusive mother is still tormenting me. I have never felt safe, i am still a scared intimidated little shit.I am still yearning for safety and validation. My trauma gets triggered by fire woman but I still want them and I still go beserk when they boss me around. Why is that? Why do we subconciously repeat the drama?

I could never tell that anybody, so thank you.