Taurus & Pisces Dilemma....

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Comingandgoingpisces
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I posted last night, with no replys!

Just met my taurus friend for a long walk in a beautiful local forest.

He asked me out two weeks ago and i rejected him, kindly, told him the truth that i wasnt ready for a relationship in any shape or form.

We are friends, he works offshore and our banter is usually great fun!

I asked him to come for a walk with me today because as a pisces i didnt want to hurt him.

I know that when i rejected him he went out and got very very drunk and rang a girl whom he doesnt like for sex and it happened...

twice.

He told me the next day he had "fu*cked up" and told me he regretted it and i gave off to him telling him he was a di*k and to stop messing around with this girls feelings....

I retold him this today.... and he said he doesnt even like this girl but she had left yet another letter through his letterbox.

She really does want him and has allowed herself to be used in this way.

Thing is.....

We are friends and i trust him with a lot of my feelings.... he calls me out when im wrong or im trying to blame everything other than myself for my oh woe is me moments.... and vice versa.... he gets away with very little with me!

Because he asked me out he has planted a seed.... and i would truely like to try when im ready.... i would love to be able to just sleep with him but i know that there is no going back after that.... i kinda know that he likes me a lot and i know if i offered myself he would in a heartbeat.... but i also know it would be the end.

Please Help.
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Comingandgoingpisces
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Thank you.

He is my friend!!

And he does so much for me!

I had no idea he was gonna ask me out and i really was in shock....

He told a mutual friend of ours and told him that i has said "go fk yourself" i didnt.... but our mutual friend laughed out loud. Which i was a little miffed about so i asked him why he done that and he said " I knew you would say No and he should have known you would say No"

Meh im overthinking again....
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Posted by Comingandgoingpisces
Thank you.

He is my friend!!

And he does so much for me!

I had no idea he was gonna ask me out and i really was in shock....

He told a mutual friend of ours and told him that i has said "go fk yourself" i didnt.... but our mutual friend laughed out loud. Which i was a little miffed about so i asked him why he done that and he said " I knew you would say No and he should have known you would say No"

Meh im overthinking again....


EVERY girl wants a guy to be her best friend! One that you run to when things happen and you want to tell him (and that is HIM!). Was conversing w/a Taurean, thought he would be the ONE (my friend); since we've lost contact (mutual) I had my boss give me a $ 1,000 appraisal award; I was ecstatic! Did I want to tell my mom first? Nope. I thought of him; but since there was no communicado I dared NOT to pick up cell to text him my good news. I have NOT told others of my award; except you here in cyber DXP. It's sad 😢 to lose a guy you thought WOULD be your best friend (male).

I agree not to sleep w/him. He will leave or stay. You'll feel like S*H*IT if you do/don't. Men have the "key" (d*ick) while we have the "lock". You're having second thoughts because: 1) he slept with another (your competition; even if you're friends as your "jealousy/possessive" feeling is kicking in) 2) You're undecided as to "am I ready to date now?" (him) go back to #1. You're thinking, "He's mine! I found him first, he conversed with me first; he was your SEX while he wants to make "love" (to me). Stay as friends. Later you will thank (or think about me). Because he will be your boyfriend/lover/husband/father of your children, knight in shining armor, protector, etc! This is what EVERY Piscean woman wants!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Comingandgoingpisces
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8 Years

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Pisces...... always changing my mind!

What the heck gives with my sign?

I was in work last night and he as always messages me asking whats up, who is out, and how im getting on (i work in a bar)

So i gave him details and then asked how he was..... after out 4 hour walk he went and played golf! I went to bed until i had to go get ready for work. Then he asked how i was.... and i said ive a sore butt from the final hill.... i actually have pulled a muscle usual banter want me to rub it better blah blah blah.....

He goes away next week again for 4 weeks but asked could we go out again for another walk when he comes back.... as well as our normal stuff we do.

I know he is interested.... i am too....

But im not gonna jump the bones of him!!

Btw..... im 40 he is 49!

Thanks so much for advice everyone.

I really appreciate it.