u sign and ur parents? how do u get along?

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They divorced when I was two years old jade, I am saddened by my parents in one respect. They both clearly still love each other, but couldn't maintain living together. She was barely 18 when she had me, and my sister came along 13 months later. My father wanted a 'grown up', i.e. someone to run the home well and my mother was still in party mode. Young, free spirit in the beginning of the 70s. The stories they've told me growing up, and even to this day speaks of their bond. She remarried when I was 7, to a Cancer. They're together to this day. My father is the romantic, he's had several marriages that haven't failed and is now at 'crusty old bachelor'.
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i'm a leo and my mom's a gemini. i don't know about my dad cuz i'm a bastard child.

my mom and i get along very well in an intellectual sense. we can talk to each other for hours on end but we're not close otherwise. she's tried in the past to be emotionally close but, maybe because she didn't raise me, i had a hard time truly thinking of her as family. i think of her mostly as a friend because we didn't even have the chance to get our relationship off the ground until i was an adult.

what's weird is that i always sensed that my mom had cancerian traits. she had this needy, watery quality about her that i remember dealing with in my old cancer best friend. i ran her chart one day and found out she has a cancer moon...
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Me = cancer/gem moon
Mum = Leo/leo moon
Dad = Libra/cappy moon
Brother = libra/leo moon (combination of my parents lol)

I love my parents and everything but I have always had the feeling that I don't quite fit in with them.
I argue with my dad most. Not screaming matches or anyhting cause we're not like that but definately have the ability to wind each other up and he feels very pushy a lot of the time and like he's always on the negative side of things. It's the cap moon I think - I hate that position. One of my friends has it and she's the only person I out and out argue with.

My personal planets are all in gem or cancer and none of my family's personal planets are in gem and only my mother's venus is in cancer. In fact that's the only water placement that isn't mine - no wonder they think I'm sensitive and emotional. My dad is the only one with prominant earth but its in his moon, merc and venus, restricting them and making them more reservd and controlled which aggrivates my free flowing water and airs need for freedom.

My brother is the easiest to get on with. He's the only person I can never stay mad at for more than 5 seconds. We're really close but with all his air/fire it's obviously not an emotional relationship, more a best friends one which actually works really well for us both and cheers us both up.
sun - lib
moon - leo
merc - lib
venus - lib
mars - sag
(the mars in sag probably helps me a lot. Anyone with a decent sag placement in their personal planets just makes me feel so happy. Not sure why)
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Mom- libra/scorpio cusp (libra moon)
Dad- Virgo (aquarius moon)
me- libra (cancer moon)
sis- pisces (aquarius moon)

on a light note we all get along very well. my parents are divorced and are much better friends than lovers lol. we crack jokes on each other, play fight, etc. alot of laughing. when it comes to serious issues my mother is the one i would talk to because shes very good to talk to when u want an honest answer, but she wont spare your feelings. at the same time she kinda of negative also. she sees the bad in everything lol. my father....totally opposite. hes a big kid. hes spontaneous and lives in the moment. he's doesn't act like the average virgo. besides him having a temper, i never really see him stress or take things too serious. this is why my parents clash. i love them both dearly tho. my sis on the other hand... (sigh) i dnt kno. she lives in a world of her own. she basically has my father wrapped around her little finger and drives my mother up the wall. she always been the rebellious child. she does what she wants to do and will deal with the consequences later. we're like polar opposites. she not considerate at all either. but this is my only sis and we love each other very much.
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Posted by phooey
me fish

mom sag
dad lib

i fight with my mom all the time. shes very nagging but means well.. like all mothers do i guess. except shes a little more unreasonable than most - clear-cut logic also never seems to get though sometimes

dad is pretty cool, we share a taste for the good things in life - esp food, drink, MUSIC!. but he judges people too easily and can get very very stubborn at times and i end up yelling at him sometimes.



my mom is a Sag and my dad is a Libra too! i'm an Aries though

my mom and i bumped heads like you wouldn't believe. she was very controlling and nagged a lot too. i still have flare ups with her every now and then but i love and respect her so much more. i still hold on to a lot of resentment because she didn't communicate with me when i was young, just made threats, but i know she just didn't want me to make poor choices. i feel like she could have handled things better rather than try to control my every move and make me terrified. i remember in college i had to drive my parents car for a couple weeks and my mom threatened me with my life if anything happened to the car and then i got hit by a drunk driver (i was sober). i was HYSTERICAL crying after because i was so afraid of my mom and the cops were like "your mom will understand. she'll just be happy that you're ok" but i was like "no you don't understand. she's painfully unreasonable."

dad pretty much just loves cooking, gardening, and music. he let's my mom run the show
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Mom- Taurus

Dad- Scorpio

Me- virgo

My father was an hardcore alcoholic, but he worked very hard to support my scoprio brother, which took things for granted and ruined my family(I fucking loath *ruined my first 23 years of my life*), my gemini brother whom i respect for taking great care of his family far better than my parents, and i who wasn't even noticed due to the amount of pressure he had to go through from my mothers family, his family, siblings and hard labor.

I love the guy, but he was never there...

My mother was also a heavy duty smoker, and she too was stressed from the work force and my scoprio brother's manipulative ways, so it left her to ignore everyone each day till she retired.

I love her too, but she was never there...

Overall, I never had much of a relationship with my parents, but i had great neighbors who took me in as their son and raised me well!
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Mom - Aries with Cancer Rising
Dad - Virgo

Me - Cancer with Scorpio Rising

Growing up I sometimes felt my Dad was too critical or really too b&w in his criticisms - it got under my Cancer skin, but I know he loves me and is proud of me, so that is all that matters. Mom can go between firey Aries conviction to weepy Cancer in a short span - she let me be emotional AND taught me to have a backbone. All in all I get along well with my parents; I am especially close to my Mom.
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Me: Aries
Mom: Pisces
Dad: Gemini

I think I mentioned this a while back, but my moon is in Gemini and my rising is Pisces so I can relate to both of them quite well. I see myself and my behaviors in both of them. Relate and fully understanding is different, though.
My mom and I get along pretty well, but my father and I are kind of scared of each other! He's quite moody and I can't handle that well. I know that he loves me very deeply, but he has control issues that I don't respond to kindly. He's mellowed with age, but we still keep our distance. We speak a few times per month, but only see each other once every couple months. I've always felt like I couldn't be myself around him and feel like I have to be very careful about what I say as he is less then easy going!
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Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom

mom = Aries on the cusp of Pisces

dad = Aquarius

me= Virgo

I dont have major complains about any of them for the most part of my growing-up-years, it was only till about 8 years ago that I lost some respect for my mother when she was unfaithful to my dad and also made some more idiotic, impulsive typical Aries decisions without thinking of the pain she put us all through.

My aqua dad is the best ever, period




All these affairs hella suck guys. =/
i don't know whether it was a blessing growing up with one parent or not.
oh but heres a funny thing xD Me and my bff dads both died when we were like 4 and we're the half siblings of most of our other siblings. I mean our lives are almost straight parrallel but lol shes a libra i'm an aqua.
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Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Mom- Taurus

Dad- Scorpio

Me- virgo

My father was an hardcore alcoholic, but he worked very hard to support my scoprio brother, which took things for granted and ruined my family(I fucking loath *ruined my first 23 years of my life*), my gemini brother whom i respect for taking great care of his family far better than my parents, and i who wasn't even noticed due to the amount of pressure he had to go through from my mothers family, his family, siblings and hard labor.

I love the guy, but he was never there...

My mother was also a heavy duty smoker, and she too was stressed from the work force and my scoprio brother's manipulative ways, so it left her to ignore everyone each day till she retired.

I love her too, but she was never there...

Overall, I never had much of a relationship with my parents, but i had great neighbors who took me in as their son and raised me well!




dude thats hella sad. =[
luckily u did have ur neighbors and didn't end up screwy.
Congrats on ur blessing. =] hope ur doing well now but u probable are because ur
a survivor.
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Posted by Kylee_is_an_Aries
Dad-Aries
Mom-Aries
Me & my twin bro-Aries

LOL I come from a family of ARIES!!!

Well, unfortunately both my parents aren't alive anymore (car accident).
But we all got along great.
My dad was a firefighter. That man had SO much energy (lol) he hated boredom. he was super adventurous. He took us to all kinds of places (Fiji, Dubai, Tokyo, Egypt, Rome etc)
My mom was a kindergarden teacher. she was really domestic too lol she loved cooking all kinds of yummy food for us (she was always staring at cookbooks and trying to find something that we might like) and she taught us to have good morals. she was a rather quiet Aries....(which I guess is uncommon?).
I had two of the BEST parents anybody could ever have. They are still with me in spirit. They appear in my dreams a lot. I still feel their love...

My twin brother is usually a joker but he is super reliable in challenging situations. He's also very adventurous like my dad. He'll try anything once.



lol aww thats cute but sad they died. Hope ur coping with it okay because i'm pretty sure they'd
want u to live an abundant life not full of grief but of optimism high hopes and joy. =']
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Posted by ramfishtwins
Me: Aries
Mom: Pisces
Dad: Gemini

I think I mentioned this a while back, but my moon is in Gemini and my rising is Pisces so I can relate to both of them quite well. I see myself and my behaviors in both of them. Relate and fully understanding is different, though.
My mom and I get along pretty well, but my father and I are kind of scared of each other! He's quite moody and I can't handle that well. I know that he loves me very deeply, but he has control issues that I don't respond to kindly. He's mellowed with age, but we still keep our distance. We speak a few times per month, but only see each other once every couple months. I've always felt like I couldn't be myself around him and feel like I have to be very careful about what I say as he is less then easy going!



ooo sounds like u got alot on ur hands. I give u props for being able to keep ur sanity.
it make take a while to ruffle my feathers but when my use to when we were kids i use to get all psycho and
chase him around with a knife and lets just say "the tree of liberty must be nourished with the blood of
tyrants" ~ Thomas Jefferson
lol
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Posted by Austin_Schiller
Mom-Aries

Dad-Leo

Me-Aries


my dad was controlling, impatient, and narcissistic. bossed me around a lot but I wasn't having any of it. he thought I had mental problems because I wouldn't listen to his unreasonable wishes.
he was also physically abusive towards my mom and I. he cheated on her several times. gambled a lot and used up all our money.
yeah I got nothing good to say about him. sorry. (but I generally like Leos).

my mom is f*ucking awesome. We understand eachother and we look out for eachother. I can talk to her about anything. she's always there for me and I'm always there for her.






I ABSOLUTELY depise physical abuse in a family. My family has a history of it, ie. my grandma's husband, and my mom's first husband. I remember when we had to keep moving between the state of Texas and the state Georgia just to get away from my mom's first husband. My dad (her 2nd husband) was already dead and thats when that fool started looking for her again. The abusers' belligerent ignorance is quite unbelievable. Luckily karma plays a prominent role in the game of life.

as for ur relationship with ur mom, that sounds awesome =]
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Posted by Leo~Moon~Beam
Me: Scorpio

Mom: Libra

Dad: Cancer

I can actually have civilized conversations with my dad and laugh and joke with him. I relate to him more. Although, he pretty much keeps to himself and was never really that involved.

With my mother, we don't have conversations.....it's always arguments and accusations. We don't see eye to eye at all and I suppose we never will. She was the boss of the family and I felt so sorry for my dad because she is controlling and would never bite her tongue if her life depended on it. My dad just sat there and took her abuse and insults. The only one in the family who would stand up to her and tell her a piece of his mind was my Aries brother.....but he is just as hot headed if not more than her. I get along with my brother so much better though!



man that sounds horrific but i'm glad u get along with ur brother.
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Posted by Kylee_is_an_Aries
Dad-Aries
Mom-Aries
Me & my twin bro-Aries

LOL I come from a family of ARIES!!!

Well, unfortunately both my parents aren't alive anymore (car accident).
But we all got along great.
My dad was a firefighter. That man had SO much energy (lol) he hated boredom. he was super adventurous. He took us to all kinds of places (Fiji, Dubai, Tokyo, Egypt, Rome etc)
My mom was a kindergarden teacher. she was really domestic too lol she loved cooking all kinds of yummy food for us (she was always staring at cookbooks and trying to find something that we might like) and she taught us to have good morals. she was a rather quiet Aries....(which I guess is uncommon?).
I had two of the BEST parents anybody could ever have. They are still with me in spirit. They appear in my dreams a lot. I still feel their love...

My twin brother is usually a joker but he is super reliable in challenging situations. He's also very adventurous like my dad. He'll try anything once.



Wow hun...I'm so sorry to hear that. Too many good Aries gone too soon 😢
It sounds like they were wonderful parents. They all sound like typical Aries. You can get a more quiet Aries depending on what her moon was. Mine being in Gemini=a lot of chatter at times!
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Well, I am a Saggie-Cappie with an Aqua moon.

1st Life

Mom: Pisces with a Pisces Moon -- OMG, for the longest I thought she had a Libra moon, but nope not so.

Dad (deceased): Scorpio-Saggie cusp .... I still have to look up his moon placement, he was born in the 1930s so its hard to figure out.

Well, with the combinations of a water-fire father and a very watery mother, you can figure who had to keep things from completely falling apart. There were a few good times, some okay times, but alot of not so okay times -- I'm not sure who told those two that they were compatible. Who ever lied to the both of them like that needs to be thrown over a cliff -- that was a match made for a battlefield.

At the time, I got along with my dad more than my mom -- it was simply easier for us to relate, even when he was upset with me and vice versa. My mom and I loved enough other but it was hard for us to connect on an emotional level. Even when young, I was more cool-headed than she was, which drove her crazy because she would think I just didn't care. She would make mountains out of small hills, and I didn't understand why. We can along alot better now that I'm older -- we get each other more.


2nd Life

Same mom but now there's a Step-Dad: Aquarius with Taurus moon

Mom and Step-dad get along fine but they have their moments because they tend to disagree on principles and such. To this day, its hard for my step-dad and I to get along. Maybe its because he's an Aqua sun and I'm an Aqua moon -- don't know, but its not a good mix. I blame his Taurus moon actually, he's rigid and tends to be the bit of the know-it-all. I'm very easy-breezy about "certain" things, he tends to hold grudges and never let things go. If I counter him in anyway, its almost like he's insulted -- being as old as he is, he should be able to relate to other people alot better :/ There are times when we can talk and things seem cool but then something happens and we argue.

LOL, actually, we are currently not speaking -- its not that I'm still upset or whatever. I just simply don't want to be bothered anymore, he can't be miserable on his own with my mom, I don't want any part of it. Now that I'm older, it all just seems above me to even engage in something with him that I know will turn into an arguement, so I choose to pretend his not around at all. It may sound harsh but hey I'm a capricorn with an aqua moon, we like to get rid of the old and come in with the new 😉


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Oh, I almost forgot!

Godfather: Aquarius ... I'm not sure about him moon actually, the way he acts, I would say its either in Aries or Gemini,

He and I got along great, it was/ is the best "father" any girl could ever ask for. He really stayed on my case about everything from academics -- the level of classes I was taking, were my math scores better then last time, what was my GPA .... to social activities -- how many things was I involved with after school other than what he wanted me involved in (lol), to make sure that all my guy friends stayed friends, and that I did things to enrich myself. I had to let him know about all things, if I didn't, then I was untrouble for sure. It wasn't the fact that he was extra mean or whatever, it was just that he expected so much from me (because he always said that I was capable and that he wanted me at my full potential) so ....... to disappoint him would be stabbing myself. I never ever wanted to disappoint him because I knew that he would look at me with those stern eyes and then he would give me that long talk that I never really wanted to hear but I had to.

My Aquarius Godfather took the place of my dad who couldn't and wasn't around through the critical part of my teens. And he basically did what my Step-dad didn't seem to want to do. Actually, now that I think about it, although they are both Aquarius, Step-dad never really seemed to like my Godfather. hahaha, well I'll be.
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Mom Gemini
Stepdad Taurus
Me Aries

My stepdad had his way, and my mom made peace for us all, she rocks. I was the black sheep of the family because I was the only Fire sign in the family and my brother the Virgo and sister the Cancer were interesting. My sister and I hated each other but now are best friends, my brother thinks I am the worst person on earth and makes it clear, or will at least mutter his despise under his breath. I respect him so much, and cherish my sister to no end. My mom I would bring the world to.

My mom and I disagree on world topics but we love to talk it out and size up our perspectives, and we always have special places in our hearts for each other.

My stepdad intrigues me, and at the same time because of our dynamic as father/son it was stubborn/angsty/stare downs more times than not. I wonder if I am more stubborn around taurens because he was one.

My birth father is a Virgo and we get a long perfectly but he finds life is difficult and I can't see the world any less than my oyster to share.

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Aries mom and me being saggy/cappy, on good days we can talk about anything under the sun but on other days she is always so controlling, she doesn't understand my direction and makes no effort to do so and it pisses me off. She is demanding, when she requires you to do a task, it must be done promptly but when its the other way around, we can never depend on her.

I have a Scorpio father, my dad is the manipulative scorpio that he is. He tries to manipulate me in choosing decisions that he thinks is best, it annoys me but it doesn't work because I can see through his bs basically. He doesn't trust anyone, not even my mom and thus why they are divorced now.

Pisces sisters I have, we can talk for hours but when we disagree thats when the trouble starts. They are so stubborn, and they don't take other people's advice even as a consideration, they just refuse to listen to anything. They will swim away if any disagreement comes up.

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Me: Aries

Dad: Scorpio

Mom: Pisces

I am a complete daddy's girl. I got all my dad's carpentry skill and my artistic eye for detail is Pisces mom based.
My dad and I do not speak much with words; we just know each other. We watch football, basketball, and martial arts/action films together. When I was a child we went to every local basketball and football game we could. I still cheer for "our" teams every year :p
Me and my mom are really close now; we get closer every year. She made certain I was prepared to work hard. She always encourages us and had the greatest way of relating life to music. Every lesson was an old song.

Some people posted their siblings so here are mine in birth order:

Libra sister: We get along better when we don't live together. We can go out together and have a lot of fun.
Taurus sister: We are best when she is learning something new. She is the typical protective older sister.
Gemini sister: We are best friends.
Leo twin brothers: Every five years I got along better with one than the other and this switch continued until they were 25. Now we get along better since we are all parents. 🙂
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Me : Aquarius

Dad : Libra

Mom : Leo

I get along great with my dad,and we both have an almost identical view of life.

On the other hand,i can get along with my mom but when she's trying to play the boss with me then there are problems between us,and since i NEVER shut my mouth or obey to what she says i guess i'll never have a perfect relationship with my mom but as long as i keep the distance ,or pick the righter words we're okay.

I can't write down siblings since i'm an only child. XP