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Venus 12th house - Love denied
Venus in the 12th House and Love Challenges
Venus in the 12th house can bring feelings of love being elusive or unreciprocated, often leading to illusions or misunderstandings about relationships. It may cause individuals to feel unloved or disconnected, even from close family or friends. Understanding this placement can help clarify perceptions and foster healthier connections.
Wrong again. You never learn do you?
Posted by AerialView
Wrong again. You never learn do you?
Again 😢
Im seriously thinking about avoiding relationships, Im too intense
Posted by Infinite8
In matters of romantic love, I would highly disagree. Ive been quite lucky and overall have felt to be in a position of always being able to choose and get best pickings.But with family and friends it has definitely felt that way at times. I think I am unfair with family and friends. Because they gave me all they could. So, I need to remember that - whereas I get caught up in this feeling of "I gave my all but they didn't do they same".
They did do the same, as in giving their best. Just not exactly "my way".
When seen objectively, it's not that bad. It's just a perception that I need to work on.
Thanks a lot!
You just described my feelings. I Always feel like Family and friends don't care about me but looking back I see that I've never did nothing for them and Always expect the best.
About love its like you said, I've been quite Lucky and have been with some amazing girls but I Always expect them to match my model of perfection and come too Strong on them with these needs (Vênus Opp Pluto and Scorpio Moon) So, I don't know...Its the 2nd girl and time in the last 6 months. As 90% of the users here said, the problem is me and I don't know if I can change.
Posted by AerialView
Wrong again. You never learn do you?Again 😢
Im seriously thinking about avoiding relationships, Im too intense
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And become a hermit?
Posted by Koniuchaa
You just have to be aware. I have Mars in the 12th, so I have that issue, but with men. I also tend to attract men that have 12th house issues
What is 12th house issue?
Posted by Koniuchaa
You just have to be aware. I have Mars in the 12th, so I have that issue, but with men. I also tend to attract men that have 12th house issuesWhat is 12th house issue?
They are unavailable, some have addictions, some mental issues
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Posted by Infinite8
In matters of romantic love, I would highly disagree. Ive been quite lucky and overall have felt to be in a position of always being able to choose and get best pickings.But with family and friends it has definitely felt that way at times. I think I am unfair with family and friends. Because they gave me all they could. So, I need to remember that - whereas I get caught up in this feeling of "I gave my all but they didn't do they same".
They did do the same, as in giving their best. Just not exactly "my way".
When seen objectively, it's not that bad. It's just a perception that I need to work on.
Thanks a lot!
You just described my feelings. I Always feel like Family and friends don't care about me but looking back I see that I've never did nothing for them and Always expect the best.
About love its like you said, I've been quite Lucky and have been with some amazing girls but I Always expect them to match my model of perfection and come too Strong on them with these needs (Vênus Opp Pluto and Scorpio Moon) So, I don't know...Its the 2nd girl and time in the last 6 months. As 90% of the users here said, the problem is me and I don't know if I can change.
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just sounds like a selfish issue. you want to take more than give.
Posted by AerialView
Wrong again. You never learn do you?Again 😢
Im seriously thinking about avoiding relationships, Im too intense
And become a hermit?
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Idk man, its getting worse
Posted by AerialView
Wrong again. You never learn do you?Again 😢
Im seriously thinking about avoiding relationships, Im too intense
And become a hermit?
Idk man, its getting worse
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Let's not talk about it.
Get that tattoos of yours done instead.
Posted by Koniuchaa
You just have to be aware. I have Mars in the 12th, so I have that issue, but with men. I also tend to attract men that have 12th house issues
But in our case, the 12th people who comes to our lifes are reliable?
Posted by Koniuchaa
You just have to be aware. I have Mars in the 12th, so I have that issue, but with men. I also tend to attract men that have 12th house issuesBut in our case, the 12th people who comes to our lifes are reliable?
So far, they are not
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Seriously? But my Venus is in Taurus...what about your mars?
Posted by Koniuchaa
You just have to be aware. I have Mars in the 12th, so I have that issue, but with men. I also tend to attract men that have 12th house issuesBut in our case, the 12th people who comes to our lifes are reliable?
So far, they are not
Seriously? But my Venus is in Taurus...what about your mars?
I'm only speaking for myself. I have Sagittarius Mars
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This is why they arent reliable lol
So why you are saying that I should trust if you dont trust them?
Posted by Koniuchaa
You just have to be aware. I have Mars in the 12th, so I have that issue, but with men. I also tend to attract men that have 12th house issuesBut in our case, the 12th people who comes to our lifes are reliable?
So far, they are not
Seriously? But my Venus is in Taurus...what about your mars?
I'm only speaking for myself. I have Sagittarius Mars
This is why they arent reliable lol
So why you are saying that I should trust if you dont trust them?
I didn't say that you should trust them
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So what is your point?
Im confused now
Posted by Koniuchaa
You just have to be aware. I have Mars in the 12th, so I have that issue, but with men. I also tend to attract men that have 12th house issuesBut in our case, the 12th people who comes to our lifes are reliable?
So far, they are not
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Did you mean 12th house inside your house (synastry) or 12th house from their natal chart?
Posted by Koniuchaa
You just have to be aware. I have Mars in the 12th, so I have that issue, but with men. I also tend to attract men that have 12th house issuesBut in our case, the 12th people who comes to our lifes are reliable?
So far, they are not
Did you mean 12th house inside your house (synastry) or 12th house from their natal chart?
Ummm, I have Mars in my 12th house. I'm saying that having that placement sometimes attracts unreliable people
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So those unreliable could be anyone not just 12th house people?
Posted by Koniuchaa
You just have to be aware. I have Mars in the 12th, so I have that issue, but with men. I also tend to attract men that have 12th house issuesBut in our case, the 12th people who comes to our lifes are reliable?
So far, they are not
Seriously? But my Venus is in Taurus...what about your mars?
I'm only speaking for myself. I have Sagittarius Mars
This is why they arent reliable lol
So why you are saying that I should trust if you dont trust them?
I didn't say that you should trust them
So what is your point?
Im confused now
I was talking about the 12th house. Just sharing my experience. All I said was you need to be aware
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Yeah but Neptune is the higher octave of Venus... but for Mars I agree with you. Beware of violence during travels or coming from foreigners
I have a 12th house Venus. I don't really believe in love. I've posted on this topic before... My Venus is also unaspected and dead-center Gemini, so it's tough to isolate the house alone as an influence. I was able to realize that 99.99% of couples pair based solely on physical appearance (a.k.a. the 0 to 10 scale). They then proceed to form a contract - which is nothing more than a 'you're the best that I can get and I'm the best that you can get' type agreement, which is subsequently deemed love. What is pure or 'loving' about that scenario? The reality of the situation is that this is some sort of shallow, animalistic hell, and people are mating based on animal instincts. Unbiased love isn't real and looks are all that matter.
Posted by AerialView
Wrong again. You never learn do you?
What's Moskau?
Posted by PiscesMarsFighter29
I have a 12th house Venus. I don't really believe in love. I've posted on this topic before... My Venus is also unaspected and dead-center Gemini, so it's tough to isolate the house alone as an influence. I was able to realize that 99.99% of couples pair based solely on physical appearance (a.k.a. the 0 to 10 scale). They then proceed to form a contract - which is nothing more than a 'you're the best that I can get and I'm the best that you can get' type agreement, which is subsequently deemed love. What is pure or 'loving' about that scenario? The reality of the situation is that this is some sort of shallow, animalistic hell, and people are mating based on animal instincts. Unbiased love isn't real and looks are all that matter.Find a woman with Mars in the 12th
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I just met with a great plastic surgeon yesterday and I am meeting with an additional oral/plastic surgeon in two more weeks. I plan to fix my jaw and nose issues in the near future and then I will be good looking enough to get whatever I want in terms of a girlfriend. This makes sense, since I have both Sun and Moon in the first house of self/body, in Cancer, and Cancer rules security. (Emotional security is important to me with regard to my physical appearance). I also have my second ruler (which governs my income and assets), the Sun, in my first house, which means that I would spend extra income on enhancing my physical appearance.
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