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In synastry, Pluto brings intensity, Venus bring intensity, obsession, possessiveness and a craving for intimacy. Pluto wants to delve deep to uncover what’s underneath the surface. Superficiality does not appeal to Pluto; she wants something deep. She wants something transformative, something that transcends the boundaries between two people. But not in a physical way, in the Neptunian, spiritual way (I'm Neptune dominant), and in psychological way. Venus, on the other hand, wants balance and harmony. Venus is known as a superficial planet, as she craves beauty and cooperation above everything.
When Pluto meets Venus in synastry, the Beast meets Beauty. Pluto is impressed by Venus’ social power and social circle. She is tremendously attracted to his charm, grace, and beauty, yes, but the attraction stems from far beyond his outer beauty. Pluto sees right into Venus’s psyche. She wants to uncover his layers, and wants to know his deepest, darkest secrets. She wants to take Venus into the depths of intimacy, where true bonding and intimacy take place. At first, Venus is taken aback; he is both frightened and intrigued by Pluto. He is flattered by her attention and interest in getting to know him, yet his intensity is frightening. She loves his passion, as it makes her feel desired and beautiful. Venus knows he cannot hide from Pluto, and the temptation is hard to resist. If Venus feels his level of intensity is not matched by Pluto, he will increase his intensity until they are on the same level whether positive or negative.
As in all Pluto synastry aspects, the Pluto person has the “upper hand”, and Venus is the submissive partner. As the relationship develops, the couple becomes demanding of each other. Venuses fear of losing Pluto affects them both, giving rise to feelings of insecurity and possessiveness. Pluto desires complete domination and control over Venus, while Venus is eager to please Pluto. Pluto will continue to dig and dig at Venus’ mind until she is satisfied with Venus’ level of complete bonding. “All or Nothing” characterizes this union. Venus is not willing to share Pluto and uses manipulative tactics to ensure Pluto belongs to him, and him only.
Pluto forces Venus to see something about himself that he wanted to keep hidden. Her role is to transform Venus by exploring the depths of intimacy and sharing. The relationship is highly sexual, and the chemistry is addictive. This level of passion is the highest you will have in your life as the two explore and play out each others’ deepest, darkest secrets and fantasies. This aspect can result in sexual exploitation, as well, given Pluto’s dominance over Venus, and Venus’ desire to please Pluto in any way he can.
One final note: Venus-Pluto in synastry aspect can also result in financial exploitation. In addition to love and beauty, Venus also rules finances and personal possessions. Pluto may take advantage of Venus’ desire to please her by taking over his finances.
Me and my hubby... Venus Conjunt Pluto in Libra. I'm Pluto.
What exemplifies it for us is that his Venus is in the 7th and my Pluto is in the 8th where they belong. Moreso... he has Venus Conjunct Pluto natally in the 7th.
So what does it feel like for you guys? How you each experience the relationship based on that aspect?click to expand
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Impeccable acting, just marvelous darling haha