Venus in Sagittarius - Your experiences?

I would like to know what your personal experiences are with people who have Venus in Sagittarius. I have read the descriptions on the internet saying they love their freedom, are brutally honest, mostly find love abroad and tend to be very flirty even when in a relationship causing people to think they are prone to cheating.

I have this placement but I never really thought it was that important... until I started thinking a couple of weeks ago. So now I want to know what people think.

Share your stories with us.
Romantically, as friends? Be they old lovers or if you're one yourself.

No I haven't. Care to post it? 🙂

every venus in sag i met, had someone on the side.

I'm a Sag with Venus in Sag. I tend to be very idealistic in love and see the best in everybody. The downside is I hang on for longer than I should and I tolerate a lot but no longer.

Posted by TigerCap
I would like to know what your personal experiences are with people who have Venus in Sagittarius. I have read the descriptions on the internet saying they love their freedom, are brutally honest, mostly find love abroad and tend to be very flirty even when in a relationship causing people to think they are prone to cheating.

I have this placement but I never really thought it was that important... until I started thinking a couple of weeks ago. So now I want to know what people think.

Share your stories with us.
Romantically, as friends? Be they old lovers or if you're one yourself.

I wasn't really into astrology when I was involved, so I don't know what their venus signs are, but I have a sag in venus...

I get bored easily and need a lot of mental and physical stimulation. Doesn't mean I will cheat (one man type of woman and all), but my eye will wander and imagine naughty things with someone cute.

I do like my freedom, any discussion of "forever" brings on a mild panic attack and I become "busy", but oddly it is exactly what I want. Just don't day the words and we will be fine. I will flirt only if I am single.

*say

I've dated two Sag Venus Caps. One was my first boyfriend (on-off for 5 years), the other one (Cancer moon) disappeared after two months of dating.

Were they flirting causing people to think they were cheating? My first boyfriend definitely was. The fact that my mum nicknamed him Casanova (after the Italian womanizer) says it all.

The other one...ho-hum. When we were dating, he was displeased to find out that I lived close to his ex. He mentioned that he used to live there with her, from Thursday to Sunday. He also said he never stays friends with his exes. However and very interestingly, we only met Monday to Wednesday!

Then he disappeared on me. Since then, I've seen him twice (by chance and from afar) close to his exes place (and mines). One could deduce he's with her again. However, every 2-3 months, he becomes active on the dating site (where we've met), where he logs in everyday for a few weeks. That was the amount of time we chatted there, before exchanging emails/numbers and meeting in person.

Is he two-timing his girlfriend with women he "dates" for a a couple of months only (before they discover what's going on)?

What I've realized in myself is that I have a lot of female friends and that might be difficult for some women to deal with.
If I am already seeing someone it doesn't even cross my mind to look for someone else. Hell, I have even rejected girls because I was already dating someone else.

But especially last month has been unlike any time before for me. Like I am on fire when it comes to flirting. It feels like I am waking up or something.
And then it struck me; Sag Venus as a serial dater might be somewhat true. At least for me, even though I would prefer something a bit more long-term.

Undine, sounds like he had quite a busy schedule if that is true.
Also, Cap sun, Cancer moon and Sag Venus here. Think there is still hope? 😛

You have to admire the balls and planning it takes to continue and pull off something like that. But it's not very honest and he probably deserves a good beating and a car covered in graffiti for that.

This should be interesting!

I have a Venus Sag in my life, married, very flirty and unapologetic about it. I have no idea where the Sag begins and the other placements end regarding her personality-- she is a Sun/Moon/Asc Scorp so she's out there either way. 😛

Thanks Jahlia, I hadn't seen that one before but it does ring true for me.

Crustacea, what did the other ones do if I may ask?

My husband's cousin has a Sagittarius Venus, the professional athlete guy, and he's AWAY from home almost the entire year, and only home during the winters for a little while but still does training. Crazy. Definitely not good for women who need their man near them. His wife has a Venus in Aquarius. So it fits for her. Dont recall what house it's in.

When it comes to romance I have a few embarrassing stories to tell. Total honesty sometimes leads to some situations that even a blind horse could tell was the most stupid thing I could do.

Foot in mouth as a charming point seems to work for me though, at least so far. 😛

Do tell, TigerCap 🙂!

Something strange happened to me yesterday. The Sag Venus Cancer Moon Cap I was talking about earlier on this thread contacted me by email (after 8 months!). He said he's been thinking about me and asked me some trivial things.

The strange thing is that his email reached me only a few minutes after I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months (we agreed not to see/contact each other for one week, to re-evaluate our relationship).

So.....is the Sag Venus psychic? Or must have been his Cancer moon (in trine with my Moon and Sun conjunction)?

definitely the cancer moon. they also seem to know things.

Posted by TigerCap
Undine, sounds like he had quite a busy schedule if that is true.
Also, Cap sun, Cancer moon and Sag Venus here. Think there is still hope? 😛

You have to admire the balls and planning it takes to continue and pull off something like that. But it's not very honest and he probably deserves a good beating and a car covered in graffiti for that.

Maybe I should meet him and beat him up 🙂! A bit difficult....he's almost 6 feet tall, I'm averrage.

No....ignoring him is the better option......almost therapeutic!

Although I must confess this guy has crossed my mind on a daily basis, for the past year or so. Damn Cap-Pisces connection! Or maybe I'm a sucker for Sag Venus 😢? Or for losers and cheaters?

My Sag is in Venus and I agree with the need for freedom and not being controlled. That doesn't mean I won't stick by your side. Once I commit, I'm in it for good. When I love I love hard, my passion is hard to match at times. I'm somewhat of a go-getter in matters of the heart/what I want. I consider anyone I'm involved with a long term prospect (otherwise I wouldn't even get involved - I've never been out on a 'date' with a man I didn't end up in a relationship with). I've never cheated or considered cheating. However, I have been known to come across as flirtatious or, rather, my words are often construed as such, I'm just playing around - it's either for shock value or to get a smile/laugh. It's a friendliness I chalk up to my Asc (Gem). I can't recall actually ever flirting with any man I've been in a relationship with though, I've always been more serious and on my best behavior with men I were interested in and ended up pursuing.

*My Venus is in Sag

I'm a little dyslexic today...

did any of you come across this article on Sass?

http://sasstrology.com/2013/08/the-astrology-of-open-relationships.html<BR>

By all means scorched 🙂

Its tough to do from my tablet

My Cap bf has a Sag in Venus. I desperately try to understand him. We've discussed the fact that he is supposedly not supposed to like emotional pssession..he says it doesnt bother him and Im not sure he knows what he's talking about. Haha. Mostly I'm disturbed that Sag Venus isnt likely to want to "merge souls." My Venus is Aquarius and that's exactly what I want. I want to crack him open, see what makes him tick. Tell him all the things I love about him, and then vice versa. I'm worried our ways of loving will never find a way to compromise.

Posted by Undine
Do tell, TigerCap 🙂!

Telling a girl who I was dating for a couple of months on my own birthday party that I thought she was an incredibly sexy girl and that I really, really liked her, but that it wasn't going to be more than that.
No idea why I thought off telling her that at that moment but understandably she didn't talk to me anymore the rest of the night. :X
And earlier that night she was actually hinting at a threesome with a friend of hers. I think I missed out on a special birthday present. 😛

Oh, and I feel like I am bound to end up dating two girls at the same time sometime this year... circumstances probably. Because what could possibly go wrong in that situation. 😆

Not yet though and my moral conscience would hold me from doing anything before I make a choice.

Favourite quote from recent memory:
* Lying half-naked next to a really cute girl *
Her: "I feel a little bit weird about this."
Me: "I can tell you are not comfortable with going any further than this. Just put your bra back on and let's just talk."
Her: "Sometimes you can be a real asshole, but now you are almost like a woman."
Later: "You have some pretty sexy legs... oh my god you are more flexible than I am!"
So yeah. 😛

Posted by PiscesLoves
My Cap bf has a Sag in Venus. I desperately try to understand him. We've discussed the fact that he is supposedly not supposed to like emotional pssession..he says it doesnt bother him and Im not sure he knows what he's talking about. Haha. Mostly I'm disturbed that Sag Venus isnt likely to want to "merge souls." My Venus is Aquarius and that's exactly what I want. I want to crack him open, see what makes him tick. Tell him all the things I love about him, and then vice versa. I'm worried our ways of loving will never find a way to compromise.

The "Merge souls" thing depends on a few other things as well. For example my 7th house Scorpio makes me want to do exactly that. Break your soul down to build you back up.

I would say your desire to crack him open is making you a bit possessive and you should just keep having fun together doing things and learn about him through that. Chances are that even if you did manage to crack him, he wouldn't be able to tell. He probably doesn't even know but just does whatever comes up.
But you could turn some of those things into a game. Tell him what you love about him... then watch him crack, stumble and fumble as he tries to tell you the same in return. 😛

My Leo Venus can handle a Sag Venus.
The question is do I want to.
I would prefer that the guy I'm with not have a mutable Venus (including Virgo), and more of a strong cardinal or fixed Venus.

I briefly dated a Scorpio with Sag moon and Sag Venus.

The main thing I would say from a consideration of people with Venus in Sagittarius (both famous people and people that I have met) is that they are pretty "cool", i.e. that they like to be, and usually are, in tune with the "zeitgeist" (even at an advanced age). A lot of them are big in showbiz, such as for example David Bowie and Scott Walker, also the songwriter Tim Rice. They usually aspire to be sophisticated and cosmopolitan.

The Scorp with Sag Venus was very religious.

I came across this description of Venus in Sagittarius and I found it to be pretty fitting. 🙂

Some interesting quotes:
- "They are broadminded, tolerant, popular, and have many friends. They get along with every kind of person, religion, race, sexual orientation, and socio-economic status."
I do have friends from lots of different backgrounds... it also means that I usually cannot put them together in the same room.

- "As you have probably discovered, Venus in Sagittarius has sex on the first date. They are ready for it anywhere, preferably outdoors. For this reason, they always carry a picnic blanket."
Ahum 😛
No picnic blanket though, I have this really nice and compact down blanket that I love bringing along. 😄

- "Men with Venus in Sagittarius are sexually attracted to care-free, wild, uncomplicated types. They do not want a high-maintenance, prissy lover. They prefer athletic, thin bodies instead of busty, full figures. [...] Sagittarius men don't mind if your hair is not done; they actually prefer it a little wild."
Definitely. Smaller boobs for me please. I love putting the high-maintenance ones through a little bit of going back to nature. The ideal girl would still look cute while waking up on a campsite. 🙂

Posted by TigerCap
I love putting the high-maintenance ones through a little bit of going back to nature. 🙂

Lol, how do you manage that?

Posted by Undine

Posted by TigerCap
I love putting the high-maintenance ones through a little bit of going back to nature. 🙂

Lol, how do you manage that?

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Telling them it'll be fun. 😛

My husband has a Sag Venus ( Cap Sun & Cancer Moon) Mars in Leo
He directly pursued me after We meet in Army training.....we were long distance for a while. He said he knew he wanted to marry me right away....lol

We instantly clicked to be honest

I'm a Cancer sun ...Sag Moon& Ascendant my Venus is in Leo

Usually we are talking, laughing and flirting with each other

He is definitely fun loving and Blunt

Posted by TigerCap


- "As you have probably discovered, Venus in Sagittarius has sex on the first date. They are ready for it anywhere, preferably outdoors..."

- "Men with Venus in Sagittarius are sexually attracted to care-free, wild, uncomplicated types. They do not want a high-maintenance, prissy lover. They prefer athletic, thin bodies instead of busty, full figures. [...] Sagittarius men don't mind if your hair is not done; they actually prefer it a little wild."

Yep. On our first date, he proposed and wanted to have sex right then and there at the beach at the break of dawn.

My Venus is in Sagittarius.

I think it depends a lot on your other placements as well. Though I have a Venus in Sag I am not a "serial dater." I had one time in my life where I was very upset with life in general and I slept around. Other than that, I have dated two women in my life. One of six years. One for two years. I'm not very carefree when it comes to sex. I'm looking for real connecting of souls. Sex without the connection is boring and a complete waste of time.

Me and my Scorp have Venus in Sag.

Apart from my son who is only 13 years old and who is thus still very much "a work in progress", I have only ever really known one person with Venus in Sag. She was a Capricorn woman that I used to know. Perhaps the main way that the Sag. thing came out was that she was quite artistic/bohemian. She never married or had kids. She also loved dogs which may be a Venus in Sag. thing. Her partner (if you can call him that - I think it was mostly platonic) was a Sag. guy. I think he rather exploited her though. She had emotional health issues and although pretty intelligent was I think something of a vulnerable person.