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Venus opposite Pluto - Should I let my scorpio traits go in order to have a happy love life?
Understanding Venus Opposite Pluto and Scorpio Traits in Love
Venus opposite Pluto can bring intense emotional challenges in love, especially for Scorpio moons. Embracing your authentic self rather than suppressing your traits can lead to healthier relationships. Finding balance between your Scorpio tendencies and emotional needs is key to improving your love life.
Yes that is a problem, it's your main conflict most likely. Oppositions are on the one hand, a diminishing of each force, the venus is not fully expressed, it is turned to violence, or deep transformation. The Pluto is not fully expressed, it's turned to excessive kindness, a lack of firmness.
Pluto 6 means you can be pragmatic about your routine or health, you go to extremes, you can eat what you want and the next year starve yourself, in a sort of guru, mystic fad choice. Or you get up at 3 in the morning for a whole year etc...
Venus 12 means you hook up with derelicts, women with no hope, or who are losing their grip, it can also mean poets, hanging with the emos, philosophers, misfits etc...or hooking up with a nurse.
Posted by bricklemark
Yes that is a problem, it's your main conflict most likely. Oppositions are on the one hand, a diminishing of each force, the venus is not fully expressed, it is turned to violence, or deep transformation. The Pluto is not fully expressed, it's turned to excessive kindness, a lack of firmness.Pluto 6 means you can be pragmatic about your routine or health, you go to extremes, you can eat what you want and the next year starve yourself, in a sort of guru, mystic fad choice. Or you get up at 3 in the morning for a whole year etc...
Venus 12 means you hook up with derelicts, women with no hope, or who are losing their grip, it can also mean poets, hanging with the emos, philosophers, misfits etc...or hooking up with a nurse.
Venus in the 12th doesn't have to be that negative. Sure, you may be attracted to the artsy type, but they're not degenerates. Some poets, artists, philosophers make a very good living just like everyone else. LoL.
Posted by bricklemark
Yes that is a problem, it's your main conflict most likely. Oppositions are on the one hand, a diminishing of each force, the venus is not fully expressed, it is turned to violence, or deep transformation. The Pluto is not fully expressed, it's turned to excessive kindness, a lack of firmness.Pluto 6 means you can be pragmatic about your routine or health, you go to extremes, you can eat what you want and the next year starve yourself, in a sort of guru, mystic fad choice. Or you get up at 3 in the morning for a whole year etc...
Venus 12 means you hook up with derelicts, women with no hope, or who are losing their grip, it can also mean poets, hanging with the emos, philosophers, misfits etc...or hooking up with a nurse.
Venus in the 12th doesn't have to be that negative. Sure, you may be attracted to the artsy type, but they're not degenerates. Some poets, artists, philosophers make a very good living just like everyone else. LoL.
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No it doesnt, but in my experience it is really quite negative, you may have a good background, family, and rest of the chart that puts a great spin on it, like you said. But they are generally careers where you're worse off.
Posted by bricklemark
Yes that is a problem, it's your main conflict most likely. Oppositions are on the one hand, a diminishing of each force, the venus is not fully expressed, it is turned to violence, or deep transformation. The Pluto is not fully expressed, it's turned to excessive kindness, a lack of firmness.Pluto 6 means you can be pragmatic about your routine or health, you go to extremes, you can eat what you want and the next year starve yourself, in a sort of guru, mystic fad choice. Or you get up at 3 in the morning for a whole year etc...
Venus 12 means you hook up with derelicts, women with no hope, or who are losing their grip, it can also mean poets, hanging with the emos, philosophers, misfits etc...or hooking up with a nurse.
Venus in the 12th doesn't have to be that negative. Sure, you may be attracted to the artsy type, but they're not degenerates. Some poets, artists, philosophers make a very good living just like everyone else. LoL.
No it doesnt, but in my experience it is really quite negative, you may have a good background, family, and rest of the chart that puts a great spin on it, like you said. But they are generally careers where you're worse off.
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Thanks. Do you mean that art or philosophy is a less successful career than the medical field which would also appeal to a 12th house Venus but would be better paying and more stable??
Posted by bricklemark
Yes that is a problem, it's your main conflict most likely. Oppositions are on the one hand, a diminishing of each force, the venus is not fully expressed, it is turned to violence, or deep transformation. The Pluto is not fully expressed, it's turned to excessive kindness, a lack of firmness.Pluto 6 means you can be pragmatic about your routine or health, you go to extremes, you can eat what you want and the next year starve yourself, in a sort of guru, mystic fad choice. Or you get up at 3 in the morning for a whole year etc...
Venus 12 means you hook up with derelicts, women with no hope, or who are losing their grip, it can also mean poets, hanging with the emos, philosophers, misfits etc...or hooking up with a nurse.
Venus in the 12th doesn't have to be that negative. Sure, you may be attracted to the artsy type, but they're not degenerates. Some poets, artists, philosophers make a very good living just like everyone else. LoL.
No it doesnt, but in my experience it is really quite negative, you may have a good background, family, and rest of the chart that puts a great spin on it, like you said. But they are generally careers where you're worse off.
Thanks. Do you mean that art or philosophy is a less successful career than the medical field which would also appeal to a 12th house Venus but would be better paying and more stable??
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Yeah because in our society there's a kind of military undertone in everything, all is geared towards production, success, victory...but it's more honorable and useful to be an artist or philosopher!
Thank guys, I'm asking this because im in love with a girl but she always complain on how im possessive, jealous and all of that scorpio traits.
I feel really bad because I just wanted to have a happy love life but It seems like my emotions are not welcome in the real world.
Like, if I turn my emotions off everything is great but if I'm in touch with it for bad or for good, I become isolated.
Yesterday she said that sometimes it feels like she is in a prison and she can't be herself around me because she feels like im judging everything she does.
I really would love to stop it and live a normal life in this subject, im feeling tired of this infinite cycle.
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Venus in the 12th
Pluto in the 6th
I`ve been very sad these days because always when I act like a Scorpio(I have Scorpio moon), it seems that my love life becomes a mess.
What do you guys think of it?