Surrounded by Scorpio Moons: HELP

This topic was created in the Moon Signs forum by Nataliaaa on Wednesday, November 23, 2016 and has 19 replies.

How to Support Friends with Scorpio Moons

Supporting friends with Scorpio moons involves offering emotional stability and respecting their depth. Encourage open communication, set healthy boundaries, and provide reassurance without pity. Understanding their intense nature helps build trust and helps them feel understood and secure without draining your energy.

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

I know you guys are tired of scorpio moon trends but I need some advice here.

I have not one but six of my best friends are moon in Scorpio and I just found out my current boyfriend has also a Scorp moon...so yeah haha.

There are the best and intense people I've ever met but somehow are draining the hell out of me and sometimes is difficult to handle all of that energy and also because I am a pisces moon. I just like to hear some advice from scorpio moons about how can I help my friends to feel more stable. Some people would say stop seeing them or whatever, but the bond with these people is unbreakable and for life ( If you've ever been in a close relationship with someone with this moon you'll know what I mean) I like it that way. That's the main reason I'd like to help them in some sort of way, or to how to make them feel better without the I feel sorry for you factor. Yeah, they always go through the worst...

Thanks.

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@WateryGem
12 Years1,000+ Posts

You're going to have to put a barrier around you emotionally b/c your Pisces moon isn't able to protect itself from all the energy. If you have that many around you, I would imagine it would drain you. I'm Scorpio moon with Pluto as my dominant with Mercury, so I can get heavy with emotions but I try very hard to not place that on anyone. Scorpio bff can handle it and she truly helps sooth my deep painful emotions when they do arise.

Just don't try to fix them, let them cry, vent or whatever.. Depending on the age, help them be aware of what is drawing this stuff into their life. Some of it is out of their control but some they can..

I love Pisces Moon people!!

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@SofiaV87
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Holy shit.. I don't know how u do it . With 6 Scorp moons around me & me being a Pisces moon as well, my head would spin off my neck like the exorcist . I can't even give u advice lol

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

Can you clarify how all these Scorpio moons are 'unstable'.

They are unstable because they respond to tragic events in their life. I don't know if they are just unlucky but they have gone through death, serious diseases, addiction, abandonment from a loved one, heartbreak, etc. So they always expect the worst in any situation. Is heartbreaking to see how super talented and nice people expect the worst from life. Can't blame them 😢

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Are they all feeling unstable about something? Is it the same thing or different things?

Well, the the 7 of them have issues with their mother . They are always suffering because of the lack of emotional support. Oneof them just got cancer and has a son. And 3 of them recently lost their father. Two of disease and the other one left thehome.

One is alcoholic.

One experiences social anxiety so much to the point that she has never kissed/had sex with a guy/girl in her life.

We're on our mid twenties, they should be enjoying life, what the hell?

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

Posted by bumboklatt
That's funny cause Pisces moons seem more unstable than anyone well maybe Gemini moons too.

I love Gem Moons!

I am a Pisces Moon but I'm a Cap rising I'm generally unstable - emotionally-but I always forced myself not to be haha

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

my head would spin off my neck like the exorcist . I can't even give u advice lol

Almost feels that way

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Scorpio moons dont need to be fixed or be made stable. That in itself insulting. I think believing that they need to be saved is the 1st mistake.

Acknowledgment is how you get through to a scorpio moon. Acknowledge what they are feeling and not what you think they are feeling. Listen to what they say.

I had a cancer moon in my life and he was really good at acknowledging my feelings and just spending time with me. Being consistent and doing what he says he will do.

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@Nataliaaa
11 Years

Posted by DMV
Scorpio moons dont need to be fixed or be made stable. That in itself insulting. I think believing that they need to be saved is the 1st mistake.

Hmm who's talking about fixing them or save them? No, you don't get the point here.

I love them the way they are. But it's hard to see someone you care about being (as they called themselves) miserable.

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@RumiL
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Oh my, Scorpio - pisces moon connections are just ...% -}

lol.. I'd say, be stable, go about with your thing, as a scorpio moon, I like it when people I'm close to are stable, like a rock... IDK what else to say haha.. hmm, tell them what you want too.

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@Pandora101
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by DMV
Scorpio moons dont need to be fixed or be made stable. That in itself insulting. I think believing that they need to be saved is the 1st mistake.

Acknowledgment is how you get through to a scorpio moon. Acknowledge what they are feeling and not what you think they are feeling. Listen to what they say.

I had a cancer moon in my life and he was really good at acknowledging my feelings and just spending time with me. Being consistent and doing what he says he will do.

DMV, out of curiosity, how you treated this cancer moon man? If I recall, you were together for a long time? Did you love him?

I agree, no need to fix the scorp moons, just help them subtly with their (sometimes misplaced) intensity 🙂

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Yep you can't change us it's all about acceptance, same way we accept everyone else's bullshit.

I am actually not draining at all it's everyone else that drains me

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@Aquarius3189
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Scorp moon here,although im intense emotionally and passionate too i dont drain people and i dont throw all my problems with them its actually the opposite i hide my problems as long as i can and when i cant take it anymore i just cry or talk to one of my close friends,i guess i have my aquarius sun and heavy placement of earth to help me stabilize this emotions and i just need someone even just 1 person to talk to or vent and then im all good

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by DMV
Scorpio moons dont need to be fixed or be made stable. That in itself insulting. I think believing that they need to be saved is the 1st mistake.

Acknowledgment is how you get through to a scorpio moon. Acknowledge what they are feeling and not what you think they are feeling. Listen to what they say.

I had a cancer moon in my life and he was really good at acknowledging my feelings and just spending time with me. Being consistent and doing what he says he will do.

DMV, out of curiosity, how you treated this cancer moon man? If I recall, you were together for a long time? Did you love him?

I agree, no need to fix the scorp moons, just help them subtly with their (sometimes misplaced) intensity 🙂

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8 years. LOVED him. Cherished him.

Ive never met anyone like him, ever. Never had telepathy with anyone like him. Never had the feeling of calmness with anyone like him. Never had anyone talk me of many o ledges like him. Never had anyone tell me exactly what i waa feeling before i even knew it myself. He treated me with nothing but respect. Always kind to me. Never judged my feelings or called me crazy, delusional. Always acknowledged my feelings.

He's one of a kind.

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@Ram416
10 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by cheekyfaerie
There's a difference between expecting the worst and preparing for the worst, because you know it's always an option. You say pessimist, but we say pragmatic.

Also? People that say crap like, "sometimes it has to get worse before it gets better" or "at least it can't get any worse", get an immediate spot on my shit list.

What if I told you I tend to say that sometimes?

😭

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@Stensco21
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by DivaCanLeo

Posted by Stensco21
I'm a Scorpio moon and all I can say is never lie to us or manipulate us that's all we need. And don't judge us

but you're liars, manipulaters, and judge people immensely

the fakeness and delusion is so unreal with you people

if i could i would light a match in all of scorpio moons faces and have them blow up.

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