marina_
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my Virgo ex had venus in libra , mars in virgo and moon in capricorn.
he was very popular surrounded by women.
on facebook 50-100 likes minimum under every post.
things were complicated betwene us so he broke up with me but wishing me to fix myself andto be the best.
but i am aries. i had and have a totally different life than he has.
different environment, university, studies, friends.
he wanted to be popular like a charming man , gentelman. he was picking up women, having a few affairs at the same time and then he was backing off, pulling away.
women were still liking his pictures, commenting under his posts even when he abandoned them.
i did differentlt. i cut the contact with him immidiatelly.
he wanted to be the most popular, the best in anything he were.
when you meet him he would act politely but actually wants to control the situation.
he wants to be popular but not because of work and how professional he is but because of him being himself - an intelligent cynical jerk that everyones loves ( and his dark and depressive but very intellectual sense of humor).
why would he encourage me tobe the best in the past even if he didnt want to be with me?
i felt checked and tested because of him. i felt pressure.
when i was becoming popular, and the bets in my craft he got scared because my nature of a popular person opened up and his friends loved me. he got scared and did a black pr to me, started to talk behind my back. i think that his dark side just opened up.
my question is.
is there any indicator in his placements that says he is stubborn, and etc?
workaholic, stubborn, wanting to have a control.
now he experiences his saturn return. he is 28 this year. was born 10.09.1989.
we met accidentally last week on some big gathering in my city. i felt observed. he knew i would be there. we didnt see each other for 6 months. he just checked - my appearance and etc. i felt that.
he is very powerful in his mind and actually protects his prvacy very well.
he gets you to the point that you like him but you need to show off to him because either way he wont ask you. like you need to show yourself to him to be accepted and then he can go with the flow.
i really didnt liek that because i needed to show off myself to him. when i closed myself ( on social media, i became more private in social circles) he started not being interested. like he would only wait for popular women who show off or show their private life everywhere to make him easy to choose.