SuperMissMan
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Why are women called sluts and men aren't
All I can think of is because guys are immature babies, and power hungry, and the thought of them not having full control of their women (back in the old times) made them all butthurt so they made us a derogatory item. Our boobs are derogatory, that's why we can't breastfeed in public, our sexual life is derogatory, it's so fucked up.
Not it lingers, and women are called sluts and whores because men were immature.
That's my theory
Not it lingers, and women are called sluts and whores because men were immature.
That's my theory
Posted by Arielle83The general public doesn't
I call everyone sluts.
I'm non-specific.
Posted by moondustBasically a good addition to my take on it
Because of historical and cultural reasons. Women were financially dependent on men back in the day, so the social rules were dictated by them.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXBeautiful
Because people are ignorant. It's really that simple.
It's very simple.
If a woman wants sex, she'll find someone willing to have sex.
If a man wants sex, he won't always find a buyer.
If a woman wants sex, she'll find someone willing to have sex.
If a man wants sex, he won't always find a buyer.
Posted by tizianiwhat does slut shaming or calling others sluts have to do with monogamy? perhaps i'm just misunderstanding your intent behind this statement, but that is how it reads to me. Are you saying those that are more inclined to be monogamous, do the slut shaming?
And to be fair I've seen some men join in with women and slutshame yes, so it cuts both ways. It's one of the most corrupt things about monogamy.
Posted by tizianiSee, i partially disagree. because sadldly women do it to each other to tear them down. It's fucked up but its a reality. Will it make it happen less, sure but it will still happen.Posted by justagirlIf monogamy was no longer around, there would definitely be less interest in slutshaming for sure.Posted by tizianiwhat does slut shaming or calling others sluts have to do with monogamy? perhaps i'm just misunderstanding your intent behind this statement, but that is how it reads to me. Are you saying those that are more inclined to be monogamous, do the slut shaming?
And to be fair I've seen some men join in with women and slutshame yes, so it cuts both ways. It's one of the most corrupt things about monogamy.
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Awwww utopia, where everyone loves everyone and fucks whomever they want with no shame. Isn't that ellusive place called Eden? 😛
Posted by SuperMissManSociety. Specifically America was founded on Puritan roots and no matter how hard they try to fight and say that there is a separation of church and state, there really isnt. So the belief is that you have to be pure to be considered righteous and worthy. Its bull. Although I can count all my partners on one hand, Im not going to slut shame someone who is more open sexually and freely. Hopefully more minds change as the older generation dies off.
All I can think of is because guys are immature babies, and power hungry, and the thought of them not having full control of their women (back in the old times) made them all butthurt so they made us a derogatory item. Our boobs are derogatory, that's why we can't breastfeed in public, our sexual life is derogatory, it's so fucked up.
Not it lingers, and women are called sluts and whores because men were immature.
That's my theory
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesI know it's sad to say but you can't be a "man slut" if you're not skilled, while you can be a "woman slut" even if you're not.Posted by SuperMissManIf a man comes off as a man slut, it will be a turn off. I like innocent looking and prude men.
Why is a woman a slut if she experiments with sex, and loves her life enjoying having sex with different people...but a guy isn't?
What makes it different?
We're animals, yet human women are the ONLY thing labeled as sluts, so why is this?
If he has a big mouth and discloses about his sexual past, & present, I am completely turned off and disgusted. He would be a disgusting slut to me. LOLclick to expand
This is why there's a difference in the perception of the two genders, even though they're both sleeping around.
Posted by SensitiveBluesLOL Tiz got my reference. it's okay.Posted by justagirlEden is where people go to. Act like animals without any veneer of civilization?Posted by tizianiSee, i partially disagree. because sadldly women do it to each other to tear them down. It's fucked up but its a reality. Will it make it happen less, sure but it will still happen.Posted by justagirlIf monogamy was no longer around, there would definitely be less interest in slutshaming for sure.Posted by tizianiwhat does slut shaming or calling others sluts have to do with monogamy? perhaps i'm just misunderstanding your intent behind this statement, but that is how it reads to me. Are you saying those that are more inclined to be monogamous, do the slut shaming?
And to be fair I've seen some men join in with women and slutshame yes, so it cuts both ways. It's one of the most corrupt things about monogamy.
Awwww utopia, where everyone loves everyone and fucks whomever they want with no shame. Isn't that ellusive place called Eden? 😛
I don't think sooooooo
My version of utopia is much differentclick to expand
and that is fine, we all have different Edens 🙂
Posted by SensitiveBluesBecause married men are incapable of saying "no", right?Posted by starloverThey're sluts too. I just stay away from both!Posted by SensitiveBlues....And what do you *label* the males that behave the same way ?
There's lots of women sluts
Have you guys checked out pornhub
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Men are less likely to breakup marriages!
They'll fuk a prostitute
Women on the other hand are super evil and insecure and do damage relationships and marriages!
They'll dick anything that gives them attention.
That's why women like me have to save the system in place and put these hookers in their placeclick to expand
Posted by HellDoradoPosted by SuperMissManThese are the reasons it's different:
Why is a woman a slut if she experiments with sex, and loves her life enjoying having sex with different people...but a guy isn't?
What makes it different?
We're animals, yet human women are the ONLY thing labeled as sluts, so why is this?
http://www.whattoexpect.com/pregnancy/landing-page.aspx
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maternal_death
"There's a lot of hype about how risky it is to have unprotected sex. What are the real odds of catching a disease?
The real answer to your question is that it depends on which disease is being transmitted and who it's being transmitted to. The odds are as high as 50 percent in some cases. For example, if a woman has unprotected sex with a man who has gonorrhea, she has a 50 percent risk of becoming infected. In the opposite case, the risk is 30 percent. In fact, in nearly all cases, women are more likely to become infected by carrying males than men are to be infected by carrying females. The risk for younger women and, perhaps, for women who use birth control pills, may be even higher. To worsen the situation, some diseases, such as chlamydia, may not produce symptoms in a man, even though he can pass the disease to his partner."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold<div class="bqfade">click to expand
thats not a reason.
Besides, men not having symptoms of diseases and not getting them as easily in my opinion should make them nastier because if you can't tell they have it, it's almost like its a huge risk to have sex with one.
Posted by SensitiveBluesWomen are weak?
Call me a woman hater! But women are infinitely weak! Their decision making skills are disgusting!
Why friends steal husband's.
We raise the kids. All through history, WE raised the kids, we did all the work. We were beaten by own fathers and husbands, even to this day in several cultures it stays the same. We had and some have no rights, and they stand strong, and because you have balls and a few bigger bones, you have the NERVE to say women are WEAK?
There's also a lot more prostitutes than gigolòs.
Jon Voight isn't popular anymore.
Jon Voight isn't popular anymore.
Posted by starloverYou beat me to it so +2Posted by SuperMissMan+1Posted by SensitiveBluesWomen are weak?
Call me a woman hater! But women are infinitely weak! Their decision making skills are disgusting!
Why friends steal husband's.
We raise the kids. All through history, WE raised the kids, we did all the work. We were beaten by own fathers and husbands, even to this day in several cultures it stays the same. We had and some have no rights, and they stand strong, and because you have balls and a few bigger bones, you have the NERVE to say women are WEAK?
Of course we are not weak
I have no weak women in my lifeclick to expand
The strength of women is two-fold. What @SuperMissMan described is the creative, bonding, nurturing side to their strength. The destructive side of that strength has brought down dynasties without swinging a single axe.
so... let the mens have their sex. More and more of them are doing with each other now anyway, which is fun to watch! 😉
Who cares? I'll call everyone sluts. They can all be a bunch of polygamist asswipes and I'll still call them all shameless harpies who should stop trying to give everyone herpes. Ya man whores with herpes out the stork hole and stank sluts with crabs in the coochie.
The term for a male slut is 'fuck boy'.
Posted by HellDoradoEverything helldorado has said in the thread is 100% on point.
@moondust
no they judge based on the consequences of your actions. if you are a slut, you are more likely to carry diseases.
do you know why they warn that you "can't turn a hoe into a housewife?" because if i marry you and you are a loose woman, you can cuckold me and get away with it very easily. sure, i can cheat on you. you know what the consequences will be? hurt feelings if you find out. if you cheat on me? you can drain me of 100's of thousands of dollars raising another man's child.
so... yeah, they judge you for being a slut because your behavior which endangers you also endangers them.
this isn't theory on my end. i'm a guy. i've been in the boy's locker room, i know the conversations we have. this is exactly why men judge sluts. my word on this trumps female theories. most men fear sluts because of the potential consequences being involved with them.
also... men are pigs, its true. men lie to gain advantage. women lie for sport.
Posted by SuperMissManI've called men sluts before...and whoremongers..and nasty ho's and dirty legged boys. 😉
Why is a woman a slut if she experiments with sex, and loves her life enjoying having sex with different people...but a guy isn't?
What makes it different?
We're animals, yet human women are the ONLY thing labeled as sluts, so why is this?
Posted by LadyNeptuneIt's not as denigratory as slut.
The term for a male slut is 'fuck boy'.
Posted by WhiteChocolate
So, what if she really is a slut? What do we call her?
Promiscuity Enthusiast?
Then you still call them a slut.
Posted by WhiteChocolateFun stuff isn't it?
This is another example of how far we've lowered the bar in society.
If a person whores around in an unsafe manner...you can't call them a "slut" anymore, even if they clearly are. We have to be PC about it.
We're not talking about things that can't be controlled like race or sexual identity or gender.
We're talking about concious, unwise behavior and choices.
But we have to coddle people so their feelings don't get hurt.
This is one of the worst places for it, too.
20 something dxp'ers have to be the biggest pansies on earth.
"Why are women called sluts and men aren't"
I notice there are more bad talks about women in general. Not sure about the cultures in the far east or even india. But cultures with a background of the Abrahamic religions have a lot to say against women.
we are of course dumber and less loyal. Ayayayay Chris Brown who slept with the whole folk at his concerts sang, "these hoes aint loyal".
In summary:
cause we are hoes. cause we get exchanged against camels. ask Nitzsche.
I notice there are more bad talks about women in general. Not sure about the cultures in the far east or even india. But cultures with a background of the Abrahamic religions have a lot to say against women.
we are of course dumber and less loyal. Ayayayay Chris Brown who slept with the whole folk at his concerts sang, "these hoes aint loyal".
In summary:
cause we are hoes. cause we get exchanged against camels. ask Nitzsche.
Posted by HellDoradoPosted by DwellingOnMove😆
"Why are women called sluts and men aren't"
I notice there are more bad talks about women in general. Not sure about the cultures in the far east or even india. But cultures with a background of the Abrahamic religions have a lot to say against women.
we are of course dumber and less loyal. Ayayayay Chris Brown who slept with the whole folk at his concerts sang, "these hoes aint loyal".
In summary:
cause we are hoes. cause we get exchanged against camels. ask Nitzsche.
nietzsche wasn't as harsh towards women as they say.
go ask schopenhauer for his opinion on you types.click to expand
you are right. I was entertaining my superficiality.
I have a book from N on women. Sometimes it reads as rational. Sometimes it reads as anti-women. Sometimes he is praising women. That got me confused and tired. I said to myself, read it later again. But what I have heard other people say about him was that he'd been misogynist. Now you see how superficial opinions make rounds.
Posted by WhiteChocolateYup, so busy tearing other women down instead of building them up, then they blame dudes for it. LOLPosted by CapTennWhat's funny is I haven't heard a man refer to a woman as a slut in I don't know how long.Posted by WhiteChocolateFun stuff isn't it?
This is another example of how far we've lowered the bar in society.
If a person whores around in an unsafe manner...you can't call them a "slut" anymore, even if they clearly are. We have to be PC about it.
We're not talking about things that can't be controlled like race or sexual identity or gender.
We're talking about concious, unwise behavior and choices.
But we have to coddle people so their feelings don't get hurt.
This is one of the worst places for it, too.
20 something dxp'ers have to be the biggest pansies on earth.
But man..."slut" and "whore" and "bitch" and "ho" are thrown around by women while talking about other women all the time.
Gotta love it.click to expand
Ssssllluttttt...that's the grunting noise the cavemen were making whilst dragging women back to their cave.
Someone got a called a slut and it hurt her feelings.
In all seriousness though numerous members hit the nail on the head. More risky for women (pregnancy & STDs) plus not being able to find someone to take you seriously as relationship material once you've had your fun and try and settle down. If the last busload of guys got in your pants that easy, you'll hop on the next ones dick without hesitation.
Since this thread is about whining about double standards here's a few. If you get knocked up you have the freedom to go put and effectively deny any responsibility by getting an abortion, meanwhile us men are held fully accountable if you decide upon child support.
Back to the topic, for a man to get laid on the regular he must be charismatic, in shape, well dressed and somewhat talented on top of attractive. A woman could look like Sally Struthers and all she must do is kick back and spread her legs at which point she is guaranteed the D.
Work feverishly for it = Respectable.
Giving it away shamelessly = Slut.
These topics crack me up.... "Don't tell me what to do with my body!!"
Calling a girl a slut isn't telling you what to do or even close to forcing you to do it. Just as you have the freedom to skank around, everyone else has the freedom to turn their noses up at you.
So grow up, swallow your pride and wear your slut badge with honor. Even when you try and retire it rest assured it will cling to you for eons.
In all seriousness though numerous members hit the nail on the head. More risky for women (pregnancy & STDs) plus not being able to find someone to take you seriously as relationship material once you've had your fun and try and settle down. If the last busload of guys got in your pants that easy, you'll hop on the next ones dick without hesitation.
Since this thread is about whining about double standards here's a few. If you get knocked up you have the freedom to go put and effectively deny any responsibility by getting an abortion, meanwhile us men are held fully accountable if you decide upon child support.
Back to the topic, for a man to get laid on the regular he must be charismatic, in shape, well dressed and somewhat talented on top of attractive. A woman could look like Sally Struthers and all she must do is kick back and spread her legs at which point she is guaranteed the D.
Work feverishly for it = Respectable.
Giving it away shamelessly = Slut.
These topics crack me up.... "Don't tell me what to do with my body!!"
Calling a girl a slut isn't telling you what to do or even close to forcing you to do it. Just as you have the freedom to skank around, everyone else has the freedom to turn their noses up at you.
So grow up, swallow your pride and wear your slut badge with honor. Even when you try and retire it rest assured it will cling to you for eons.
People please. Men get aroused by the thought their woman has sexual experience, but don't really appreciate all the dick their woman has seen. Its a competition thing--also hygiene.
I personally think women should think the same way. Any man who has put his junk in ALOT of women might be oddly intriguing, but damn baby NO CONTROL. Who wants a man who can't control his sexual impulses with multiple women? No thank you.
On the other hand, highly sexual men who have been discerning in where they stick their junk, are like superstars. Yes please.
Men think the same way.
I personally think women should think the same way. Any man who has put his junk in ALOT of women might be oddly intriguing, but damn baby NO CONTROL. Who wants a man who can't control his sexual impulses with multiple women? No thank you.
On the other hand, highly sexual men who have been discerning in where they stick their junk, are like superstars. Yes please.
Men think the same way.
Posted by BrightLightAgree.
People please. Men get aroused by the thought their woman has sexual experience, but don't really appreciate all the dick their woman has seen. Its a competition thing--also hygiene.
I personally think women should think the same way. Any man who has put his junk in ALOT of women might be oddly intriguing, but damn baby NO CONTROL. Who wants a man who can't control his sexual impulses with multiple women? No thank you.
On the other hand, highly sexual men who have been discerning in where they stick their junk, are like superstars. Yes please.
Men think the same way.
why are women called sluts and men arent? same way girls hold hands and kiss and are NOT labeled as gay
Posted by LuckyLibra979Posted by 13thNaw they are labeled its just more attractive
why are women called sluts and men arent? same way girls hold hands and kiss and are NOT labeled as gayclick to expand
exactly, just like when us guys are knocking down chicks left and right...its "cool" lol the OP shouldnt cry about it and embrace being a "ragging slut" lol J/K 🙂
Posted by starloverPosted by justagirlI have seen a fair few males calling women names here but when I see the women do it I cringePosted by WhiteChocolateYup, so busy tearing other women down instead of building them up, then they blame dudes for it. LOLPosted by CapTennWhat's funny is I haven't heard a man refer to a woman as a slut in I don't know how long.Posted by WhiteChocolateFun stuff isn't it?
This is another example of how far we've lowered the bar in society.
If a person whores around in an unsafe manner...you can't call them a "slut" anymore, even if they clearly are. We have to be PC about it.
We're not talking about things that can't be controlled like race or sexual identity or gender.
We're talking about concious, unwise behavior and choices.
But we have to coddle people so their feelings don't get hurt.
This is one of the worst places for it, too.
20 something dxp'ers have to be the biggest pansies on earth.
But man..."slut" and "whore" and "bitch" and "ho" are thrown around by women while talking about other women all the time.
Gotta love it.
Women calling other women weak, bitches etc,. I find that disgusting .... I know women that do this are either bored, insecure or screwed up in themselves, but evenso, really very bad behavior
Whenever I can see someone is going to start some gossip or bad mouth anyone, I just stop them and say I am not interested
If you are happy with yourself, you don't project out negativity
Look at yourself first before you point the critical fingerclick to expand
Yes!
Patriarchal society.
Posted by 13thBut that would make them Lesbian though.
why are women called sluts and men arent? same way girls hold hands and kiss and are NOT labeled as gay
Posted by SuperMissManAnytime someone wants to hurt you it means they are belittled by how little affect their actions or lives have on you. How little you care. They call you a slut to try and make you care. Some random men feel unimportant to the world or to women. This is what they do.
All I can think of is because guys are immature babies, and power hungry, and the thought of them not having full control of their women (back in the old times) made them all butthurt so they made us a derogatory item. Our boobs are derogatory, that's why we can't breastfeed in public, our sexual life is derogatory, it's so fucked up.
Not it lingers, and women are called sluts and whores because men were immature.
That's my theory
Posted by tizianiDislike.Posted by juliettelol everyone loves Europe. They think we're some progressive freaks here. It's really tame here imo.
in some social circles and in some parts of the world, mainly europe, these kind of labeling is way in the past. and people have normal relationships.click to expand
It is quite a double standard I guess. Men can be just as slutty as women can. Its quite sad to see how some men treat women, but what if it was there mom or daughter. My uncle he is a man slut for sure but he uses the fact he looks like Al Pacino in scarface as he reasoning
The problem also lies within the English language and their need to specify the gender because they're too lazy using inflections.
A language can't be considered refined when you're forced to underline whether your friend is a 'male' or 'female'.
Same goes for sluts.
Wouldn't it be easier to have a different word for each gender to describe the same concept?
A language can't be considered refined when you're forced to underline whether your friend is a 'male' or 'female'.
Same goes for sluts.
Wouldn't it be easier to have a different word for each gender to describe the same concept?
In Italian, as in most languages, we have no such thing as a woman/man slut.
We use proper terms, such as 'zoccola' for women and 'puttaniere' for men so we don't get confused.
There's no discrimination in Europe.
We use proper terms, such as 'zoccola' for women and 'puttaniere' for men so we don't get confused.
There's no discrimination in Europe.
Im a guy and l love sex and l'd never call a woman a slut...I wish all women could have more casual sex, all the time, cause sex is awesome, it's so amazing...if you're not a chronic mastubator, and you have a lot of tadpoles swimming around, and you don't give em up that easy, then sex becomes divine, it's so beyond everything else in life. I wish women gave sex anywhere, all the time lol.
Posted by PalerioExcept for the Madonna/zoccola complex 😉
In Italian, as in most languages, we have no such thing as a woman/man slut.
We use proper terms, such as 'zoccola' for women and 'puttaniere' for men so we don't get confused.
There's no discrimination in Europe.
My opinion is men don't have loose sex organs when used by multiple lovers (assuming he's straight) almost never take place in as the receiver of a gang bang, and because
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by PalerioExcept for the Madonna/zoccola complex 😉
In Italian, as in most languages, we have no such thing as a woman/man slut.
We use proper terms, such as 'zoccola' for women and 'puttaniere' for men so we don't get confused.
There's no discrimination in Europe.click to expand
Smart reference, although my favourite complex was always this one:
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What makes it different?
We're animals, yet human women are the ONLY thing labeled as sluts, so why is this?