MissM
@MissM
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Why do men always come back?? Vent - Aries Man
Don't take it personal, they just want to fuck.
Posted by Astrobyn
Don't take it personal, they just want to fuck.
I think he's on the other side of the country at the moment so I don't think thats it. I think he just feels guilty and wants me to say something to make him feel like he's not the bad guy
Posted by MissMPosted by Astrobyn
Don't take it personal, they just want to fuck.
I think he's on the other side of the country at the moment so I don't think thats it. I think he just feels guilty and wants me to say something to make him feel like he's not the bad guyclick to expand
a shiithead with a conscious #noexcuses - my only hope is that he comes back and you get the opportunity to tell him which way to go
Posted by Timon
Some of these guys are so stupid. They think you were born yesterday lol.
Forget about him. There are plenty more fish in the sea. More delicious fish too. Go fishing lol.
Yeah, I don't know if he realized I knew he was seeing someone else or he maybe just thinks i was shitty cause I didn't hear from him. Some guys seem to think we are clueless. Like sorry I am not stupid and can put two and two together.
You know the apology wasn't meant to make you feel better. It was meant to make him feel better.
People are shitty.
People are shitty.
Trying to decide if this is worth a response. Part of me obviously wanted him to come chasing after me which i don't classify this as anyway cause i think its just to make himself feel better. I kind of want to give him a piece of my mind but the other part of me is just like don't bother responding and let it go
Posted by Gobby
You need to curb (and nurse) your bruised ego. Shit happens, just let it go.
Remember, you're the one who decided to open your legs for him, so soon, so it's partly your fault as well.
The best you can do is learn from it, so you'll be better prepared next time (and there will most certainly be a next time)...
So soon, after nearly two months of dating... I don't classify that as soon to sleep with someone
Posted by GobbyPosted by MissMPosted by Gobby
You need to curb (and nurse) your bruised ego. Shit happens, just let it go.
Remember, you're the one who decided to open your legs for him, so soon, so it's partly your fault as well.
The best you can do is learn from it, so you'll be better prepared next time (and there will most certainly be a next time)...
So soon, after nearly two months of dating... I don't classify that as soon to sleep with someone
Regardless, you made the wrong choice in a guy. Deal with it.
I know your Aqua moon doesn't want to accept fault but...
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haha your not wrong about that aqua moon but also my gemini merc makes it hard if i feel like i still have things i need to say
Posted by MissMPosted by Gobby
You need to curb (and nurse) your bruised ego. Shit happens, just let it go.
Remember, you're the one who decided to open your legs for him, so soon, so it's partly your fault as well.
The best you can do is learn from it, so you'll be better prepared next time (and there will most certainly be a next time)...
So soon, after nearly two months of dating... I don't classify that as soon to sleep with someoneclick to expand
Ignore the woman hater who talks about getting a mail order bride cause western women won’t give him the time of day.
All your guilty of here is putting your trust into someone not worthy of it. We’ve all been there 🤷♀️
Posted by MissM
Trying to decide if this is worth a response. Part of me obviously wanted him to come chasing after me which i don't classify this as anyway cause i think its just to make himself feel better. I kind of want to give him a piece of my mind but the other part of me is just like don't bother responding and let it go
you know he is still watching your stories on social media
you dont respond him, your response is to look fabulous and damn sexy in those pictures and having a time of your life and lots of fun, ignoring him 🙂
I know its petty, but sometimes it helps
but dont anwer him, he will lure you back and leave again, make him wonder
its not the last time you heard from him, so plenty of time to give him a piece of your mind, after
Posted by GobbyPosted by MissMPosted by GobbyPosted by MissMPosted by Gobby
You need to curb (and nurse) your bruised ego. Shit happens, just let it go.
Remember, you're the one who decided to open your legs for him, so soon, so it's partly your fault as well.
The best you can do is learn from it, so you'll be better prepared next time (and there will most certainly be a next time)...
So soon, after nearly two months of dating... I don't classify that as soon to sleep with someone
Regardless, you made the wrong choice in a guy. Deal with it.
I know your Aqua moon doesn't want to accept fault but...
haha your not wrong about that aqua moon but also my gemini merc makes it hard if i feel like i still have things i need to say
The whole concept of expecting closure from another party is completely bogus. Only time can provide closure, with or without further input from others...
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I'm not saying things because I want closure. I want him to know I view his apology as complete bullshit because he says something about the timing, and I know he lied to me which I don't think he realizes I know. Its not that I want closure its that I want him to know that i'm not fucking stupid and his apology is nearly an insult since the only purpose of it is to make him feel better. Why should he get to feel better....I think he probably feels better now he's apologized and I kind of think why should I let him have that...
Posted by MissMPosted by Astrobyn
Don't take it personal, they just want to fuck.
I think he's on the other side of the country at the moment so I don't think thats it. I think he just feels guilty and wants me to say something to make him feel like he's not the bad guyclick to expand
Players like to keep pussy on chill, back-up pussy, rainy day pussy, emergency pussy, spare tire pussy, jumper cables pussy, pussy in a storage unit, pussy on pause.
They jus wanna fuc, ok.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by Astrobyn
Don't take it personal, they just want to fuck.
I think he's on the other side of the country at the moment so I don't think thats it. I think he just feels guilty and wants me to say something to make him feel like he's not the bad guy
Players like to keep pussy on chill, back-up pussy, rainy day pussy, emergency pussy, spare tire pussy, jumper cables pussy, pussy in a storage unit, pussy on pause.
They jus wanna fuc, ok.click to expand
How handsome and able them fuckers supposed to be?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by Astrobyn
Don't take it personal, they just want to fuck.
I think he's on the other side of the country at the moment so I don't think thats it. I think he just feels guilty and wants me to say something to make him feel like he's not the bad guy
Players like to keep pussy on chill, back-up pussy, rainy day pussy, emergency pussy, spare tire pussy, jumper cables pussy, pussy in a storage unit, pussy on pause.
They jus wanna fuc, ok.
How handsome and able them fuckers supposed to be?click to expand
Well any girl with any amount of self esteem obviously wouldn't put up with that shit for long.
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Posted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.
Posted by MissMPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by Astrobyn
Don't take it personal, they just want to fuck.
I think he's on the other side of the country at the moment so I don't think thats it. I think he just feels guilty and wants me to say something to make him feel like he's not the bad guy
Players like to keep pussy on chill, back-up pussy, rainy day pussy, emergency pussy, spare tire pussy, jumper cables pussy, pussy in a storage unit, pussy on pause.
They jus wanna fuc, ok.
How handsome and able them fuckers supposed to be?
Well any girl with any amount of self esteem obviously wouldn't put up with that shit for long.click to expand
Do men put up with women without sense of humor?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MissMPosted by GemitatiPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by Astrobyn
Don't take it personal, they just want to fuck.
I think he's on the other side of the country at the moment so I don't think thats it. I think he just feels guilty and wants me to say something to make him feel like he's not the bad guy
Players like to keep pussy on chill, back-up pussy, rainy day pussy, emergency pussy, spare tire pussy, jumper cables pussy, pussy in a storage unit, pussy on pause.
They jus wanna fuc, ok.
How handsome and able them fuckers supposed to be?
Well any girl with any amount of self esteem obviously wouldn't put up with that shit for long.
Do men put up with women without sense of humor?click to expand
lol I usually do have a sense of humour
Posted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.click to expand
I think the thing is though, you did need All that shit - to sleep with him that is. So he did it. It's such bullshit to experience that, but guys are not gonna come out and say, yeah I lied to get you into bed. Most of Them anyways are not. And honestly the silent acceptance of that can be better than having him tell you the truth straight up. It will hurt you more.
I tried calling this one guy out on it several times but I guess he doesn't want to accept that openly about himself. Until one day he came to my place, already having been told it wasn't gonna be that kind of a visit. He still tried it on ofcours and I said, you lied to me. He said, would you have let me come over, if I had been honest. Ofcours I said no, and we actually just laughed about the situation. De-dramatized it. So he lied. Like I didn't have my suspicions. What can I do. They want something, they'll give it their best shot. That's just how they are.
As far as wanting to call him out on the apology, if you feel like it do it. Just laugh and say I know this is just an apology to make yourself feel better about being a dumb shit to me. Good luck with that, hasta luego.
You know? If it makes YOU feel better, do it. But don't do it to try and play games with him and get a certain reaktion from him. The guy can play you and did. He knows it, you know it. So what.
Posted by starlordPosted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.
I think the thing is though, you did need All that shit - to sleep with him that is. So he did it. It's such bullshit to experience that, but guys are not gonna come out and say, yeah I lied to get you into bed. Most of Them anyways are not. And honestly the silent acceptance of that can be better than having him tell you the truth straight up. It will hurt you more.
I tried calling this one guy out on it several times but I guess he doesn't want to accept that openly about himself. Until one day he came to my place, already having been told it wasn't gonna be that kind of a visit. He still tried it on ofcours and I said, you lied to me. He said, would you have let me come over, if I had been honest. Ofcours I said no, and we actually just laughed about the situation. De-dramatized it. So he lied. Like I didn't have my suspicions. What can I do. They want something, they'll give it their best shot. That's just how they are.
As far as wanting to call him out on the apology, if you feel like it do it. Just laugh and say I know this is just an apology to make yourself feel better about being a dumb shit to me. Good luck with that, hasta luego.
You know? If it makes YOU feel better, do it. But don't do it to try and play games with him and get a certain reaktion from him. The guy can play you and did. He knows it, you know it. So what.click to expand
The thing is usually i sleep with guys sooner but because he was doing all that stuff i was like oh he seems to want more. Being like when we get to know each other more i'll ask you to come to blah with me for the wknd and shit like that. I am not the type of girl who does need that but when someone seems to want a relationship I tend to be slower
Posted by MissMPosted by starlordPosted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.
I think the thing is though, you did need All that shit - to sleep with him that is. So he did it. It's such bullshit to experience that, but guys are not gonna come out and say, yeah I lied to get you into bed. Most of Them anyways are not. And honestly the silent acceptance of that can be better than having him tell you the truth straight up. It will hurt you more.
I tried calling this one guy out on it several times but I guess he doesn't want to accept that openly about himself. Until one day he came to my place, already having been told it wasn't gonna be that kind of a visit. He still tried it on ofcours and I said, you lied to me. He said, would you have let me come over, if I had been honest. Ofcours I said no, and we actually just laughed about the situation. De-dramatized it. So he lied. Like I didn't have my suspicions. What can I do. They want something, they'll give it their best shot. That's just how they are.
As far as wanting to call him out on the apology, if you feel like it do it. Just laugh and say I know this is just an apology to make yourself feel better about being a dumb shit to me. Good luck with that, hasta luego.
You know? If it makes YOU feel better, do it. But don't do it to try and play games with him and get a certain reaktion from him. The guy can play you and did. He knows it, you know it. So what.
The thing is usually i sleep with guys sooner but because he was doing all that stuff i was like oh he seems to want more. Being like when we get to know each other more i'll ask you to come to blah with me for the wknd and shit like that. I am not the type of girl who does need that but when someone seems to want a relationship I tend to be slowerclick to expand
I guess that's just the risc we tale. It's easy for me to say right now as I am not hurt or feel played atm.
Next week I'll maybe be back at it again... But this is the risc. Men don't realize All the riscs we women tale on a daily basis. We actually do lead dangerous lives!!😄
Posted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.click to expand
That's what real players do.
A woman who gets played by an asshole or a mediocre dude is an idiot.
If you gonna play me, talk that good shit, wine and dine me, feed me a fantasy at least.
My daughter said her bf lost her virginity to a dude that starts out by saying he doesn't want a gf or a relationship. Really? My legs would snap shut... even if I didn't want a relationship either. Dude would be no fun cause he got no game.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.
That's what real players do.
A woman who gets played by an asshole or a mediocre dude is an idiot.
If you gonna play me, talk that good shit, wine and dine me, feed me a fantasy at least.
My daughter said her bf lost her virginity to a dude that starts out by saying he doesn't want a gf or a relationship. Really? My legs would snap shut... even if I didn't want a relationship either. Dude would be no fun cause he got no game.click to expand
haha maybe but I don't think guys intentionally are players well maybe some but I think usually they just have intimacy issues.
Posted by oneday
It is possible.
That the retrogrades clouded his judgment, and led him to others or previous flings. And now he’s coming to his senses.
Or he’s just a fuck boy that’s bored with the other girl already and just wants your attention.
I was wondering that myself as i did look up my horoscope for the week and it did say that things would get cleared up and miscommunications put aside this week. The timing is interesting thats for sure. I was very on guard before anyway and I'm definitely not going to let him just walk back into my life whenever he feels like it.
Posted by onedayPosted by MissMPosted by oneday
It is possible.
That the retrogrades clouded his judgment, and led him to others or previous flings. And now he’s coming to his senses.
Or he’s just a fuck boy that’s bored with the other girl already and just wants your attention.
I was wondering that myself as i did look up my horoscope for the week and it did say that things would get cleared up and miscommunications put aside this week. The timing is interesting thats for sure. I was very on guard before anyway and I'm definitely not going to let him just walk back into my life whenever he feels like it.
Yes, always be sure to have standards and boundaries. And make them known to him. Lack of boundaries give them the impression that they don't have to respect you.
I wish you the best of luck!
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Yeah when I was younger I always use to just play the aloof card and not care but these days I realize its more important to hold my boundaries and not take crap when I feel like someone is disrespectful
That's what real players do.
A woman who gets played by an asshole or a mediocre dude is an idiot.
If you gonna play me, talk that good shit, wine and dine me, feed me a fantasy at least.
My daughter said her bf lost her virginity to a dude that starts out by saying he doesn't want a gf or a relationship. Really? My legs would snap shut... even if I didn't want a relationship either. Dude would be no fun cause he got no game.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Thank GOD I'm PISCEAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A woman who gets played by an asshole or a mediocre dude is an idiot.
If you gonna play me, talk that good shit, wine and dine me, feed me a fantasy at least.
My daughter said her bf lost her virginity to a dude that starts out by saying he doesn't want a gf or a relationship. Really? My legs would snap shut... even if I didn't want a relationship either. Dude would be no fun cause he got no game.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Thank GOD I'm PISCEAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.click to expand
I think they just do that cos they know most girls like it and they want to get somewhere. It’s all a means to an end.
Posted by MissMPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.
That's what real players do.
A woman who gets played by an asshole or a mediocre dude is an idiot.
If you gonna play me, talk that good shit, wine and dine me, feed me a fantasy at least.
My daughter said her bf lost her virginity to a dude that starts out by saying he doesn't want a gf or a relationship. Really? My legs would snap shut... even if I didn't want a relationship either. Dude would be no fun cause he got no game.
haha maybe but I don't think guys intentionally are players well maybe some but I think usually they just have intimacy issues.click to expand
Me, of all persons, would never call it intentional. You've read The Art of Seduction, right? It's just part of some people's personality.
There's a myriad of various reasons why someone can come off as a player. Most of it is in the head of the one who feels they've been played.
I kissed a guy friend once and didn't remember. He was getting closer to me and I thought it was a natural progression of friendship. Then, he went crazy on me. Idgaf and still chilled with him. He thought I was a player but, I just really don't care, didn't notice. I look back and he didn't speak my love language #1 service, #2 gifts... also, you have to be direct with me because I'm detached. If you hadn't guessed already, I'm a coquette.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.
That's what real players do.
A woman who gets played by an asshole or a mediocre dude is an idiot.
If you gonna play me, talk that good shit, wine and dine me, feed me a fantasy at least.
My daughter said her bf lost her virginity to a dude that starts out by saying he doesn't want a gf or a relationship. Really? My legs would snap shut... even if I didn't want a relationship either. Dude would be no fun cause he got no game.
haha maybe but I don't think guys intentionally are players well maybe some but I think usually they just have intimacy issues.
Me, of all persons, would never call it intentional. You've read The Art of Seduction, right? It's just part of some people's personality.
There's a myriad of various reasons why someone can come off as a player. Most of it is in the head of the one who feels they've been played.
I kissed a guy friend once and didn't remember. He was getting closer to me and I thought it was a natural progression of friendship. Then, he went crazy on me. Idgaf and still chilled with him. He thought I was a player but, I just really don't care, didn't notice. I look back and he didn't speak my love language #1 service, #2 gifts... also, you have to be direct with me because I'm detached. If you hadn't guessed already, I'm a coquette.
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haha yeah I can see that happening and I think that has happened before with other guys i've been with but with this guy I was very direct in asking him questions ect. I know he was dodgey and he knows it as well or else I doubt he would have apologized and said he felt brutal about it. He just feels bad cause he lied then vanished rather then being direct when I was very direct with him. I think thats why in his msg he said something about I don't know why I don't know how to say these things. He can't handle the directness and being upfront. I have a fwb its not like I can't handle just sex but don't pretend and bullshit with me, it really makes me loose respect for someone
Posted by MissMPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.
That's what real players do.
A woman who gets played by an asshole or a mediocre dude is an idiot.
If you gonna play me, talk that good shit, wine and dine me, feed me a fantasy at least.
My daughter said her bf lost her virginity to a dude that starts out by saying he doesn't want a gf or a relationship. Really? My legs would snap shut... even if I didn't want a relationship either. Dude would be no fun cause he got no game.
haha maybe but I don't think guys intentionally are players well maybe some but I think usually they just have intimacy issues.
Me, of all persons, would never call it intentional. You've read The Art of Seduction, right? It's just part of some people's personality.
There's a myriad of various reasons why someone can come off as a player. Most of it is in the head of the one who feels they've been played.
I kissed a guy friend once and didn't remember. He was getting closer to me and I thought it was a natural progression of friendship. Then, he went crazy on me. Idgaf and still chilled with him. He thought I was a player but, I just really don't care, didn't notice. I look back and he didn't speak my love language #1 service, #2 gifts... also, you have to be direct with me because I'm detached. If you hadn't guessed already, I'm a coquette.
haha yeah I can see that happening and I think that has happened before with other guys i've been with but with this guy I was very direct in asking him questions ect. I know he was dodgey and he knows it as well or else I doubt he would have apologized and said he felt brutal about it. He just feels bad cause he lied then vanished rather then being direct when I was very direct with him. I think thats why in his msg he said something about I don't know why I don't know how to say these things. He can't handle the directness and being upfront. I have a fwb its not like I can't handle just sex but don't pretend and bullshit with me, it really makes me loose respect for someoneclick to expand
Also I haven't read the are of seduction. I'll have to get onto it
Posted by MissMPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.
That's what real players do.
A woman who gets played by an asshole or a mediocre dude is an idiot.
If you gonna play me, talk that good shit, wine and dine me, feed me a fantasy at least.
My daughter said her bf lost her virginity to a dude that starts out by saying he doesn't want a gf or a relationship. Really? My legs would snap shut... even if I didn't want a relationship either. Dude would be no fun cause he got no game.
haha maybe but I don't think guys intentionally are players well maybe some but I think usually they just have intimacy issues.
Me, of all persons, would never call it intentional. You've read The Art of Seduction, right? It's just part of some people's personality.
There's a myriad of various reasons why someone can come off as a player. Most of it is in the head of the one who feels they've been played.
I kissed a guy friend once and didn't remember. He was getting closer to me and I thought it was a natural progression of friendship. Then, he went crazy on me. Idgaf and still chilled with him. He thought I was a player but, I just really don't care, didn't notice. I look back and he didn't speak my love language #1 service, #2 gifts... also, you have to be direct with me because I'm detached. If you hadn't guessed already, I'm a coquette.
haha yeah I can see that happening and I think that has happened before with other guys i've been with but with this guy I was very direct in asking him questions ect. I know he was dodgey and he knows it as well or else I doubt he would have apologized and said he felt brutal about it. He just feels bad cause he lied then vanished rather then being direct when I was very direct with him. I think thats why in his msg he said something about I don't know why I don't know how to say these things. He can't handle the directness and being upfront. I have a fwb its not like I can't handle just sex but don't pretend and bullshit with me, it really makes me loose respect for someoneclick to expand
Gotcha.
Imma tell you something most people don't know or understand. When you are dealing with any sign, get to know the opposing sign. Because, sometimes they display characteristics of the opposing sign....
In this case you were dealing with an Aries. Aries' opposing sign is Libra.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by MissMPosted by LilithTaurus
That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.
That's what real players do.
A woman who gets played by an asshole or a mediocre dude is an idiot.
If you gonna play me, talk that good shit, wine and dine me, feed me a fantasy at least.
My daughter said her bf lost her virginity to a dude that starts out by saying he doesn't want a gf or a relationship. Really? My legs would snap shut... even if I didn't want a relationship either. Dude would be no fun cause he got no game.
haha maybe but I don't think guys intentionally are players well maybe some but I think usually they just have intimacy issues.
Me, of all persons, would never call it intentional. You've read The Art of Seduction, right? It's just part of some people's personality.
There's a myriad of various reasons why someone can come off as a player. Most of it is in the head of the one who feels they've been played.
I kissed a guy friend once and didn't remember. He was getting closer to me and I thought it was a natural progression of friendship. Then, he went crazy on me. Idgaf and still chilled with him. He thought I was a player but, I just really don't care, didn't notice. I look back and he didn't speak my love language #1 service, #2 gifts... also, you have to be direct with me because I'm detached. If you hadn't guessed already, I'm a coquette.
haha yeah I can see that happening and I think that has happened before with other guys i've been with but with this guy I was very direct in asking him questions ect. I know he was dodgey and he knows it as well or else I doubt he would have apologized and said he felt brutal about it. He just feels bad cause he lied then vanished rather then being direct when I was very direct with him. I think thats why in his msg he said something about I don't know why I don't know how to say these things. He can't handle the directness and being upfront. I have a fwb its not like I can't handle just sex but don't pretend and bullshit with me, it really makes me loose respect for someone
Gotcha.
Imma tell you something most people don't know or understand. When you are dealing with any sign, get to know the opposing sign. Because, sometimes they display characteristics of the opposing sign....
In this case you were dealing with an Aries. Aries' opposing sign is Libra.click to expand
That makes sense I guess. I am a Gem and always thought I was a rising Leo but recently found out i'm actually a rising Sag and I thought that must be why I can be quite Sag like. I didn't realize most people show some characteristics of there opposite.
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That’s just how a lot of them are. They like to keep their options open and they suck at giving closure. He just wanted to bang.
Yeah I just don't know why you would make so much effort. Picking me up and paying for every date, dropping me home. Telling me how beautiful i am repeatedly sending me txts about missing me. I don't need that shit.
That's what real players do.
A woman who gets played by an asshole or a mediocre dude is an idiot.
If you gonna play me, talk that good shit, wine and dine me, feed me a fantasy at least.
My daughter said her bf lost her virginity to a dude that starts out by saying he doesn't want a gf or a relationship. Really? My legs would snap shut... even if I didn't want a relationship either. Dude would be no fun cause he got no game.
haha maybe but I don't think guys intentionally are players well maybe some but I think usually they just have intimacy issues.
Me, of all persons, would never call it intentional. You've read The Art of Seduction, right? It's just part of some people's personality.
There's a myriad of various reasons why someone can come off as a player. Most of it is in the head of the one who feels they've been played.
I kissed a guy friend once and didn't remember. He was getting closer to me and I thought it was a natural progression of friendship. Then, he went crazy on me. Idgaf and still chilled with him. He thought I was a player but, I just really don't care, didn't notice. I look back and he didn't speak my love language #1 service, #2 gifts... also, you have to be direct with me because I'm detached. If you hadn't guessed already, I'm a coquette.
haha yeah I can see that happening and I think that has happened before with other guys i've been with but with this guy I was very direct in asking him questions ect. I know he was dodgey and he knows it as well or else I doubt he would have apologized and said he felt brutal about it. He just feels bad cause he lied then vanished rather then being direct when I was very direct with him. I think thats why in his msg he said something about I don't know why I don't know how to say these things. He can't handle the directness and being upfront. I have a fwb its not like I can't handle just sex but don't pretend and bullshit with me, it really makes me loose respect for someone
Gotcha.
Imma tell you something most people don't know or understand. When you are dealing with any sign, get to know the opposing sign. Because, sometimes they display characteristics of the opposing sign....
In this case you were dealing with an Aries. Aries' opposing sign is Libra.
That makes sense I guess. I am a Gem and always thought I was a rising Leo but recently found out i'm actually a rising Sag and I thought that must be why I can be quite Sag like. I didn't realize most people show some characteristics of there opposite.click to expand
Seen extreme cases too like an over appealing, acquiesing Aries w/o a bit a fight in 'em. Scorpios that look and act like Tauruses. Virgos that act like Pisces and vice versa.
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