why do Virgos influence me so deeply ( like any other sign)?

Hello,

i have a question to all Virgo men!!!

I am aries 27 years old ARIES. ALmost all my life I attract Fire signs and VIRGOS.

I am attractive but a bit shy. I do not come to the party or a business meeting loudly, i am reserved, not shy but i know how to behave.

All of my life, and my younger years i have been surrouded by party girls, my friends who were 'friends' with Virgos. There have been groups of a lot of people and so one. Those girls ( in my example, two companies, the same situation occured after 2-3 years) wanted to be the best in a company, were drinking like men, partying like men, were very ironical, but on the other hand intelligent, sarcastic, SAD and possesive.

I have a tendency that when i am in some group after 2-3 meeting when i get comfortable, i open up . I do not open up straight like other people at the 1st meeting. I like to keep the reserve, distance.

So after opening up, being a little reserved, in all of those companies, most VIRGO MEN were attracted to me.

Usually there was some kind of an great aura around me , they liked me as a person and etc. But those relations didnt work out . Usually it was just few months.

Virgos in those groups turned out to be unpleasant men, very cocky and prone to popularity. And i have never understood it.

One of my Virgo ex that i was describing here, came back to me several times because I GAINED popularity, i was in a different environment.

I remember that after a break up he saw i was giving a d---amn about it ( like other girls would not do). I took some things personally and he started to worry. He told me to be the best and went away - to seek other chicks hehehe. ( in general) Left me like that.

So i told myself to be the best, some time after when i started being the best and i gained my new skills that i have been working for, and i gained new friends' circle he came back.

It was the same with my 1st platonic Virgo crush from High School. He came back when he saw i 'fixed'(?) myself, repaired myself in a way that i started to work with other people, i was not 'working alone' in a misery thinking of him.

WHy is that?

I thought that men usually meet women in random places. Some fire signs do not care of popularity. Sagittarius friends and Leo friends talk to me, were dating me before when i didnt have friends, when i was alone, doing my things... When i was an individual unit.



With Virgos i feel a pressure to be the best and to be the most popular in a company surrounded by people. All of the virgos i know are very professional in their work, but SINGLE ( maybe some girl friends but not official) and they are popular, they crave for popularity like noone else.



Last year, 2017 when i was abroad working on my university internship my boss was Virgo.Very popular and very professional in our profession. I learnt a lot from him but he had a pressure to be the best. He didnt treat me well like a student, only like a robot to FIX. HE TOLD ME THE SAME AS MY EX- to be the best and not care about the others.

BUt the way he does things is not my way. He is kind of a cocky , maybe not liar or cheater but a cool , popular guy surrounded by others, like a king...

My ex was also like that. AND i didnt give him my attention so he started to freak out... WHY?

So my question to all Virgos is : if i want to date a Virgo man should i be the best in my profession, workaholic, good looking and the most popular in my environment?

What is in me that at the beginning virgos are attracted to me and after some time the leave me, to be back after 4-7months when i gain professional skills and popularity?

And its not normal, i have felt so much pressurebecause of my virgo exes and my virgo boss last years. I could not leave it or ignore it. I do not know wht VIRGOS have something in them that makes me so weak, the mask of ARIES that i have of a strong woman is actually taken off.

I am 'naked inside' when i meet Virgo men. I can not fake.

Really i am like that , They are ONLY signs that i feel like that being surrounded by them. And i can feel , i can see who is VIRGO OR NOT.

Thank you Virgos for understanding and blessed 2018

Joanne.

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